Who should "help"? Someone is taking care of him in Lu Xiaoman . Do you think that as soon as Xu Zhimo died, she would "never look at the diamond glasses from now on", or be a widow in "a white silk shirt, white silk skirt, black hair and white silk hand towel"?
Before Xu Zhimo died, Lu Xiaoman had a friend of the opposite sex, Weng Ruiwu. Because Lu Xiaomanduo was sick, Weng Ruiwu often gave her massage, and the two were very close. Lu Xiaoman also became addicted to opium through Weng Ruiwu's introduction. The relationship between
was criticized by Xu Zhimo during his lifetime. Some people even wrote a little Huang article and published it in newspapers to allude to their affairs. As for whether an ambiguous relationship really occurred, it is an eternal mystery and there is no credible evidence.
After Xu Zhimo died, Weng Ruiwu continued to take care of Lu Xiaoman, so that he lived together, which was probably true. According to Lu Xiaoman's own resume, they lived together when Lu Xiaoman was 35 years old, that is, in 1938. It has been seven years since Xu Zhimo's death - but no one can figure out whether this is the tailoring time for Lu Xiaoman to take it out of context.
Weng Ruiwu and Lu Xiaoman are not married. In fact, Weng Ruiwu has another wife and children, and he has never divorced. He was like "running from both ends" to take care of Lu Xiaoman. At that time, many friends did not agree with her and Weng Ruiwu's relationship and asked her to break off diplomatic relations with Weng Ruiwu, including the master of the time, Hu Shi , which Xu Zhimo regarded as the teacher.
But Lu Xiaoman did not agree. I don’t know whether it was her loyalty in her relationship, or her pride and willfulness, but she refused all the suggestions of her friends and stayed with Weng Ruiwu until her death.
In addition to the considerate care of the people around him, Lu Xiaoman himself also has income. When sorting out and publishing Xu Zhimo's manuscripts, royalty income will not be a small number. In the 1950s, she was also arranged to be a librarian at the Shanghai Museum of Literature and History, became a professional painter at the Shanghai Chinese Academy of Painting, joined the Shanghai Artists Association, and even served as a consultant to the Shanghai Municipal People's Government Counseling Office. She has no children to raise, and these incomes are enough for her to have enough food and clothing.
As for the financial difficulties and poverty, hey, with Lu Xiaoman's excessive squandering and not knowing that Jiarong is difficult, what kind of funding can meet her expenses?
