Let me tell you something that happened to me recently. A cousin who is very close to me. We grew up together. He suddenly called me and asked me to borrow tens of thousands of dollars, saying that the child was having something wrong outside and needed some money to help his child still owe the debt. Actually, I have been very nervous recently. After thinking about it over and over again, I still promised to lend him only 10,000 yuan to make him respond. Although he said he could pay me back before the Spring Festival, I didn't take it seriously. For the sake of my years of meeting, I did not hesitate and transferred the money directly to him, and didn't even ask him to write a IOU.
The old man said that brothers should also reduce their money exchanges. If there are frequent money exchanges, various problems will easily arise, and even brothers will not be able to do it in the future. There is a saying in China that helping the emergency but not the poverty. A person will always encounter difficulties in his life, and he does need his friends to help him at this time; but how do you help a brother who has been in poverty for the rest of his life? The problem of poverty must be solved by yourself for a long time. Borrowing money from outside for a while cannot solve the problem of your own poverty. It is easy to lend
money, but it is difficult to return it on time. If the other party keeps its credibility, you don’t need to remind you, and the other party will return it on time. On the contrary, if the other party is sloppy, it will not be so easy to ask for money. The grandfather owes money is the grandson and the grandson owes money. Therefore, when you borrow money from now on, think more about whether to help or not. Helping him is a love relationship, not helping him is a duty. Don’t answer without thinking, you must think carefully.
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