Dink family is an Internet word that has become popular in recent years . The birthplace of the Dink family is in the United States. In the 20th century, the people's thoughts became more and more open. Some people think that it is not important to have children or not. Instead, the living standards may not be so high when giving birth to children, and the birth of a child will definitely affect the original life of the couple, so there are more and more Dink family families.
50-year-old "Dink" made a heartfelt statement: It is useless to regret it in his old age!
In recent years, more and more young families in my country have also chosen not to have children. The couple spend together to make money and spend together. However, our country is a traditional country, , raising children to prevent old age, starting a family and establishing a career, and being unfilial are three, , and having no descendants is the greatest, etc., these traditional ideas are deeply rooted. Why is the Dink family popular in a country with extremely strong traditional culture?
There are many reasons why young people in my country choose not to have children , First of all, because the cost of raising a child is too high now, and it still requires a lot of energy to cultivate it. So some young people choose DINK. For them, the reason for becoming the DINK family is the economic pressure of . The society is developing very rapidly now, but the salary does not keep up with the material price of society, so many young people are under great economic pressure.
Everyone knows that the cost of raising a child is very high , so it is not something that ordinary people can accept. No matter how much, you still have to rely on your parents. Many people feel that their parents have raised themselves for so long, and they have already started a family, so they can no longer take the exam for their parents. They want to relieve their parents' pressure, so they choose not to have children.
Secondly, Young people chose the Dink family because they are now perfected in various infrastructures , and the pension problem has also been greatly improved. Many young people think that when they are old in the future, they can go to Nursing home instead of doing it all day for their children. Tuition, living, houses, etc. are tiring, so it is better to make yourself happier and freer and give yourself more time to use. They feel that after giving birth, everything is bound by the child. , which invisibly adds some pressure. Originally, Life is difficult enough, why do you still have to make trouble for yourself? ? These are the reasons why these young people choose to be DINK.
However, naturally has disadvantages to becoming the Dink family. On the one hand, , I have a relative, the Dink family, and I am in my 60s now. Every time during the Chinese New Year, we young people always advised us young people to have children early . They said that they regretted it when they were fifty, but it was too late to have children at that time. Why did they regret it?
We all know that When we were young, we might want to pursue freedom , want to earn more money and enjoy life well, but as we grow older, we have already learned about this time very clearly, have seen many scenery, and have known many people and things.
Our life began to be dull , we started pursuing stability , no longer want to seek excitement , but if there is no child, html l1 The life of the Dink family will become boring . Other normal families have children’s laughter and joy. Although the children are chattering, , the family also becomes lively. Life is fun, while the Dink family can only be with puppies and kittens. Looking at others’ joy, I can’t help feeling a little lonely in my heart .
On the other hand, Although our current infrastructure has developed greatly, it is not perfect , The elderly care facilities in some places may not be as perfect as you think , The elderly life of the Dink family may not be guaranteed , which may be a bit desolate.
Now the pressure is relatively high, raising children becomes a burden; many people are affected by , fear of marriage and childbirth , and are unwilling to get married and have children. The network environment is relatively complex, and their concepts will be easily affected. We see many happy Dink families on the Internet, but we do not see those unhappy ones. , choose to become Dink family, and you have to endure loneliness and loneliness in old age. When the wife or husband who depend on each other is old, When you are the only one left in the end, , you will remember what a wrong decision you made when you were young.
Life is almost unsatisfactory, and there are almost 10 unsatisfactory things . Since we have come to this world, naturally have to endure all kinds of sufferings and challenges brought to us by the world . Although raising children is very hard, when we raise our children, watch them gradually become independent individuals, watch them get married and start their own lives, we will definitely experience the joy of harvest at that time. Dink family is just to temporarily escape reality .
summary: Escape cannot solve the problem , you should face these problems bravely. After all, our parents work so hard and still raise us to grow up, why can’t we do it? Of course, everything is based on the economic foundation. If you have enough financial support, it is not impossible for you to become the DINK family. However, you have money, so what pressure does it have to raise a child? ?
