I believe there are many people who want to grow up quickly when they were young so that they can welcome an independent life. However, with the continuous growth of age, they really found that the world of adults is not as simple as they imagined. Although they have the ability to live independently, they also have more and more troubles. This may be the biggest price to grow up.
In a person's life, especially when he reaches middle age, not only does his physical health decline day by day, but he also needs to face an unprecedented difficult situation of survival. So the question is, when people reach middle age, why is the current state of survival so difficult? It is really realistic for people who have experienced it to tell the reasons behind this.
1. Middle-aged people collectively lose their voice?
Nowadays, many young people claim that they are under great pressure, not only the pressure of going to school, but also the pressure of promotion and salary increase. However, when facing these pressures, many young people may choose to "lie down" completely.
But for middle-aged people, although the pressure they need to face is equally great, they cannot easily lie down. Because as the pillar of the family, once you choose to lie flat, it is likely that the lives of the family and the family will not be slapped. This may be the helplessness of middle-aged people. They know that they are under a lot of pressure, but they can't complain. Gradually, a normal state has been formed.
Secondly, after experiencing continuous hardships, the edges and corners have long been flattened. Young people may still have the possibility of lying flat, but middle-aged people themselves know that once lying flat, it may bring more difficulties. Instead of doing this, it’s better to work hard from the beginning.
It is understood that the post-80s generation are basically middle-aged, and the age is generally around 40 years old. This age group can be said to be the most glorious moment in a person's life, but it is also the time of the greatest responsibility and pressure.
Because if you cannot achieve success at this age, it will be difficult to achieve anything more. So, for many post-80s generation, their anxiety is no less than that of young people. But in order to consider the worries of children and elders, I can only bear all the suffering alone.
2. Pressure of middle-aged people
In front of your family, you are the omnipotent pillar. In the workplace, only middle-aged people know how difficult it is. Nowadays, many young people can leave if they encounter unhappy or unfair situations in the workplace. But this is something that middle-aged people dare not even think about. Because once you leave the job, it means that the family’s financial resources are cut off and the lives of both the elderly and children will be affected.
As a parent, everyone wants to give their children the best. In real life, many parents would rather reduce their clothes and diet on their own than give their children a better education. So if middle-aged people leave their jobs, their children's education may become a problem.
This may also be the main reason why most young people don’t want to have children now. It’s not that they have trouble giving birth, but that they can’t bear the burden of caring for and raising children. After all, they can’t even take care of their own lives, so how can they give their children a future?
3. Reasonable planning
In today's society, middle-aged people are under great pressure. Coupled with the impact of public health incident , the pressure on middle-aged people can be said to have doubled. However, no matter how cruel life is, life still has to be lived.
And some jobs now have no age restrictions, such as sales, online ride-hailing drivers, self-employed people, etc. These middle-aged people can rely on their own experience to do better than young people. What's more, there are many ways for everyone to manage their finances now, and they can also increase a passive income by reasonably allocating idle funds.
, such as low-risk bank savings, savings treasury bonds , or the foreign trade economic platform that has emerged in accordance with the policy direction. The model is based on the high security of physical transactions, with a 30-day cycle, and the profit after maturity is 1%. I believe that as long as I allocate reasonably, I can have more wealth and subsidize it for household use.
In short, compared to young people, middle-aged people have long been smoothed out and have no extra time to think of others to complain about their bitterness.Because compared to complaining, they are more willing to spend time on rest and give themselves more energy to make money.
