16 years ago, on the fourth day of the Lunar New Year in 2006, Lei Xiaochen and her husband Yang Si got off work. The two talked and laughed, and imagined a bright future.
In their future, it is best to have a cute child, small, soft, and sweetly call them mom and dad.
was thinking when he suddenly heard the crying of a baby on the roadside. The couple quickly stepped forward and found a small baby lying in the basket on the side of the road.
Lei Xiaochen and his wife and baby
He felt heartbroken, and Lei Xiaochen hurriedly picked up the child. I found that in addition to some clothes, there was also a note in the basket with the baby's date of birth. The child was only 7 days old and was abandoned by his parents.
was an infuriating thing, but Lei Xiaochen and his wife were ecstatic because they had been suffering from not being able to adopt the child. Isn’t this baby now given to them by God?
Some people may wonder why this couple adopts children? Wouldn't it be good to have a child by yourself? If he could have , Lei Xiaochen would have given birth long ago. Isn’t this because he is a transgender person with and has no fertility at all!
Transgender person? Change from male to female through surgery? Many people are probably shocked by Lei Xiaochen's approach. Today we will tell his story.
Lei Xiaochen
Lei Xiaochen was born in 1969. His original name is Lei Yuchang , from Lin'an, Zhejiang. Lei Xiaochen, in the eyes of others, is a handsome and shy boy. But Lei Xiaochen doesn't think so. When he was a teenager, he felt that he was a girl. also secretly used my sister's eyebrow pencil and lipstick to wear a beautiful skirt.
How could the family not be shocked when they saw Lei Xiaochen’s behavior? In order to correct Lei Xiaochen's self-awareness, he has put in a lot of effort. However, Lei Xiaochen's concept has been formed, so it is not so easy to change?
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1990, Lei Xiaochen accidentally discovered a news that a man turned himself into a woman through a sex change surgery. This has opened the door to Lei Xiaochen’s new world. It turns out that gender can still be changed! After
, Lei Xiaochen recorded the address of Mr. Qin's hospital where he changed his gender and wrote letters to the other party again and again, hoping that he would have the opportunity to change his gender. In order to achieve his goal, Lei Xiaochen also went to the police station to issue a certificate and wrote a document asking for a change in sex.
Everything is ready, only the funds are in place. After all, transgender transformation is not a minor operation, and the cost is extremely high, and it cannot be afforded by Lei Xiaochen, a worker.
Lei Xiaochen
Seeing that she could realize her "woman's dream", she was stopped because of the money, and Lei Xiaochen was unwilling to accept it. Later, his deeds reached a kind-hearted person. When the other party learned about Lei Xiaochen's many efforts to change his gender, he couldn't help but feel sympathy.
Seeing his determination to transgender, this kind-hearted man directly invested 50,000 yuan to help him realize his dream of becoming a woman.
On June 15, 2004, Lei Xiaochen was admitted to Shanghai Changzheng Hospital . Until I was pushed into the operating room, I felt like I was suddenly dreamy. Are you really going to become a woman? Years of dreams come true?
Under the action of anesthetic, Lei Xiaochen slowly closed his eyes. With the success of male genital resection, breast augmentation and other surgeries, Lei Xiaochen has a female body and becomes the first transgender person in Zhejiang.
Lei Xiaochen after her sex change
When she woke up, she immediately trembled and touched her whole body. The real feeling in her palm made Lei Xiaochen sure that he finally became her. That night, Lei Xiaochen was so excited that she didn't sleep all night, afraid that she would wake up again, that she was just a beautiful dream.
After being maintained in the hospital for more than 20 days, Lei Xiaochen completely adapted to his new identity.
After being discharged from the hospital, the first thing Lei Xiaochen did was to go to the police station to change his identity certificate. When she received the ID card of a woman with a gender, Lei Xiaochen burst into tears. 's struggle and tossing for more than ten years finally got what he wanted. From then on, she became a completely woman, the kind recognized by the country.
Of course, Lei Xiaochen did such an "earth-shaking" thing, which naturally attracted discussion among the villagers. Many people think she is brain-sick and walk around when she sees it., including her family, doesn’t understand, how can my son become a daughter?
But Lei Xiaochen doesn't care, so she is willing to be a woman. If the village doesn't understand, she will go out to work.
Lei Xiaochen
For transgender, even in today's society, many people still don't understand it. Some people think that transgender people have gender cognitive impairment , which is related to their childhood experiences.
For example, some parents think it’s fun, so they wear skirts and tie pigtails for the little boys. Over time, the child began to firmly think that he was a girl.
This is one of the reasons. According to statistics, about 30% of transgender people have received the wrong sex education when they were young. , but there is still a large part of it, which is determined by genes. In the hypothalamus of the human brain, there is a nucleus called the "central area of the nucleus of the final bed". Under normal circumstances, the nucleus of men is 44% larger than that of women.
But transgender people are different. Transgender people who turn into women are only 4% larger than women, and their size is almost the same. Different nuclei groups lead to different gender perceptions of transgender people.
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Such cognition cannot be changed at all with the current medical level. So they can only use sex change surgery to make their appearance the same as they know it. Otherwise, over time, you may be seeking relief due to brain confusion. After
, Lei Xiaochen began to work as a woman, helping in the canteen of a construction company in Lin'an , with a monthly salary of 300 yuan. Although there is not much money, Lei Xiaochen can't stand it and be happy. This is her first time working as a woman. The novelty, joy and satisfaction can simply overwhelm her.
During this period, Lei Xiaochen met her husband Yang Siyou and quickly started dating. Yang Siyou is from Jiangxi. Before dating, Lei Xiaochen only said that he could not have sex, and did not say that he had changed his gender.
Lei Xiaochen and Yang Si have
Yang Si doesn't care at all, and is happily with Lei Xiaochen. However, there is no wall in the world that is not leaking. Lei Xiaochen is still a celebrity. Two weeks later, Yang Siyou learned about his girlfriend from the newspaper.
sex change was exposed, and Lei Xiaochen thought the two were about to finish. I didn't expect that Yang Si had deep love for her and didn't care. He said that he could just live a good life in the future. Not long after, he proposed to the marriage. Of course, Yang Si is willing, but his family is not satisfied. But Yang Siyou told his family that if he missed Lei Xiaochen, he would have to be a bachelor in his life. Due to the situation, the Yang family agreed.
On December 13, 2004, the two registered to get married. 35-year-old Lei Xiaochen became the wife of 31-year-old Yang Siyou. The moment she got the marriage certificate , Lei Xiaochen shed tears of happiness.
She didn't expect that she would have a lover whom she knew and a happy home so soon. Lei Xiaochen felt all the complex thoughts of women when they got married.
Lei Xiaochen and Yang Siyou
On April 28, 2005, under the sponsorship of a boss in Lin'an, the two held a wedding ceremony and have been together legitimately since then. Their new home is located in Lei Xiaochen's hometown, and life is peaceful and warm.
After marriage, Yang Siyou returned to the construction site and continued to work as a bricklayer. Lei Xiaochen stayed in the village and smashed walnuts for others. The couple could earn 2,000 yuan a month.
Yang Siyou went out to work, and Lei Xiaochen was inevitably lonely at home, so he had the idea of adopting a child. In Lei Xiaochen, a woman who has never been a mother would be incomplete.
And children can bring infinite joy to their families, which is an indispensable existence. One night, while the two were chatting, Lei Xiaochen told her husband about his thoughts, but Yang Siyou did not object.
Lei Xiaochen and Yang Si have
After obtaining her husband's consent, Lei Xiaochen boarded the bus to Lin'an early the next morning. There is a welfare home in Lin'an. If you want to adopt a child, you naturally have to go here. Lei Xiaochen told the dean about his demands, but adoption also has a threshold, and his family's foundation is at least tens of thousands of yuan. But the couple lives a poor life, how can they afford the money?
During that time, Lei Xiaochen wanted to be a mother and even dreamed that he had become a mother. It’s a pity that she woke up and was exhausted, which made her obsession with being a mother even deeper. At this moment, Lei Xiaochen picked up a daughter.
Late at night on February 1, 2006, when the two got off work, they found the abandoned baby girl on the road. It was the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, and the cold air eroded, and the child was crying loudly. The couple didn't care too much, so they quickly put the child in their arms, and then took him home with ecstasy.
After settling down the child, Yang Siyou immediately ran out to buy milk powder, bottles, diapers and other baby products. The first time she became a mother, Lei Xiaochen was very excited, and even though she held the child and coaxed her, her face was still full of redness. After working in the civil affairs departments such as , she ran around and started to go through the adoption procedures.
Lei Xiaochen adopted the child
Lei Xiaochen also named the child Lei Yangliu. "Lei" is her surname, and "Yang" is her husband's surname. Paired with a "willow", it looks poetic and graceful. It means that the daughter is beautiful and can withstand all kinds of wind and rain like a willow.
Although Lei Xiaochen is a mother for the first time, he looks like he is taking care of Xiao Yangliu. In less than a week, I mastered the skills of breastfeeding, hiccups, , and changing diapers.
Raising children has never been easy, both energy and money are a great consumption for them. But the couple enjoyed it. Even if it was 30 yuan a bag of milk powder, they never stopped as long as the child needed it.
Lei Xiaochen feeds his daughter
When the child was very young, Lei Xiaochen planned to train Xiao Yangliu to become a college student. She knew that there were many people around her pointing fingers, thinking that she was a transgender person, how could she raise children? But Lei Xiaochen doesn't believe in evil. She believes that she can definitely cultivate Xiao Yangliu into a talent as her mother.
With the arrival of the little willow, the couple's life is getting more and more promising. According to Yang Siyou, when there were no children, Lei Xiaochen worked odd jobs in the village and spent a lot of idle time.
may be because life is too boring, and they often quarrel over trivial matters. But since she had a child, Lei Xiaochen never quarreled with him again and life became happier.
Lei Xiaochen
Yang Si feels happy life, and Lei Xiaochen is the same. The arrival of Xiao Yangliu made her feel the taste of being a mother and made this family more complete. And she used to cook. Since she had a child, Yang Siyou cooked a lot. Because Lei Xiaochen wants to coax the child, Yang Si feels distressed, so how could he let the child cry?
Time passed day by day, Lei Xiaochen's shocking behavior was slowly accepted by people around him, and her adopted daughter Xiao Yangliu gradually grew up. In 2013, a reporter came to Tangjiawan Village, Longgang Town, Lin'an to interview Lei Xiaochen's current life.
Lei Xiaochen
Nearly ten years have passed, and the villagers are no longer repulsive of Lei Xiaochen's sexual transgender behavior as before. no longer has sarcasm or avoided it. Lei Xiaochen is like an ordinary woman, with a husband, a daughter, and a few friends. Lei Xiaochen has a friend named Cheng Meijun who runs a barber shop. Sometimes I was so busy that I didn’t have time to have breakfast, but when Lei Xiaochen found out, he would help her bring her meal.
In Cheng Meijun's store, Lei Xiaochen was not seen at all. Standing in front of the mirror to clean my hair, looking closer at the wrinkles at the corners of my eyes, smiling all the way, just like at home.
Seeing that Cheng Meijun was too busy, she also helped boil water and wash the customer's hair. When a woman who knows her will take the initiative to come forward to say hello and talk to Lei Xiaochen intimately.
Lei Xiaochen
The villagers' views on Lei Xiaochen have also changed a lot. Although still doesn't understand her original behavior, she also accepts her choice. After all, the law recognizes her gender.
When it comes to Lei Xiaochen, her brother Lao Yao always smiles awkwardly and helplessly. My younger brother, who had been calling me for more than 30 years, suddenly became a sister. This honest man is naturally difficult to understand. However, over the past ten years, Lao Yao also understood Lei Xiaochen, "After all, pursuing what kind of life is her freedom, as long as she lives a happy life."
Lei Xiaochen at the wedding ceremony
Lei Xiaochen's home is still not very wealthy. It is a small farmhouse yard of 50 square meters, with chicken coops and pigpens on the left, and two bedrooms and one living room built by Yang Si on the right. The house is extremely simple, but it is not difficult to see the owner's intention. Although Lei Xiaochen raises 3 pigs and 6 chickens, the yard is clean and it is not difficult to clean it. The smell is.
In order to support the family, Yang Siyou went out to work, and only Lei Xiaochen and his daughter Xiao Yangliu were at home. At this time, Xiao Yangliu was 8 years old, with bangs cut and wearing pink floral clothes, and looked beautiful and well-behaved. When he saw a stranger, Xiao Yangliu was a little shy and dared not look up.
The daughter was so introverted, Lei Xiaochen was not angry, and quietly explained: "My daughter is a bit introverted, like her father's! " While speaking, Lei Xiaochen also ignored his daughter's mood and explained quietly, which shows Lei Xiaochen's delicateness. Not only Lei Xiaochen loves his daughter, but Yang Si, who works outside, is the same.
Lei Xiaochen and Xiao Yangliu
Before leaving, Yang Si told his wife that although we have no money, we must also ensure the nutrition of our daughter, at least one egg a day.
Lei Xiaochen did it not just one egg a day. Little Yangliu likes to eat river shrimps, and this thing has never been cheap, but Lei Xiaochen doesn't feel bad. He buys half a pound from time to time and gives his daughter tooth sacrifice to , but she herself Don't eat.
Lei Xiaochen is very satisfied with today's life. She and Yang Si have a good relationship, just like other couples. Although they sometimes quarrel, all the money Yang Si earns is handed over to his wife.
Lei Xiaochen and his daughter Xiao Yangliu
Sometimes Lei Xiaochen will ask his daughter, will you not want your parents when your parents get old? I believe many children have heard of such questions. Parents do not really want their children to support their children's old age, but just want to hear their children's inner thoughts. Whenever they hear this, Xiao Yangliu will always say seriously: "When I grow up, I will raise my parents! "
More than ten years have passed. Now Lei Xiaochen is harmonious with his wife and filial to his daughter. Her happy life is slowly unfolding.
