" Xiao Window Hollow Records " says: "If God wants to harm a person, he must first be arrogant with a small blessing, and he will bear it. If God wants to bless a person, he must first be alert with a small disaster, and he will save him."
If God wants to make this person unlucky, it will first give him some small blessings to see if he will be proud. Be proud, God immediately took back his blessings. Only if you are not proud can you make him live a stable life.
If God wants this person to be lucky, it will first give him a little disaster to see if he can save himself. If you save yourself, God will feel that this person is worthy of his hardships and will make him happy.
All good and bad things in the world come from this. There will be small hardships before the great good fate. Before the disaster, there will be little sweetness. This is what we often say, "One yin and one yang are called Tao." There is a saying that summarizes very well in
. All things that should be obtained in have to pay a price.
people should be better off looking for a long-term perspective and grasp the "good fate" of life, rather than having any mentality of being greedy for small gains or enjoyment. Otherwise, misfortune will come.
These good fates will appear after the age of 50. They are the best Feng Shui in the second half of their lives, so you must grasp them well.
1. Putting it to death and rebirth is your great blessing.
The art of war says: "Stop to the dead and survive, and stay in the dead and live."
Whether it is a person or an army, as long as they are in an extremely dangerous state, they will stimulate their own potential and find a "way to live" in the "desperate situation".
people to fifty years old, which is exactly the peak period of "disaster". Many people complain, don’t you say that the bitterness will come to you? Why have we suffered for many years but still not seen a trace of blessing?
In fact, God’s test is infinite. The reason why it gives you so many disasters is to let you experience the pain of "in a desperate situation". And in the midst of pain, what you can understand depends on your understanding.
Some people have survived the desperate situation and tasted the bitterness of the world, so their "sweetness" is right ahead. Some people are in a bad mood and collapse in the middle, so their future will be really miserable.
We must firmly believe that as much suffering people can endure, they will have as much blessings.
2. The heart is as calm as water, it is your great blessing.
The ancients said: "The best is like water, and water conserves all things without fighting."
Laozi Why do I attach so much importance to "water"? In Lao Tzu's view, the character of "water" is particularly in line with the requirements of "Tao". It is not only modest and moderate, but also quiet without fighting.
Modesty and meditation are both extremely high states. Only those with particularly good moral cultivation can realize the truth here. If you have a poor cultivation and a little irritable temper, people may fall into the state of " greed, anger, ignorance, and ignorance ".
Greedy for money, fame and fortune in this world, and anxiety all day long is not a good thing. He is extremely cruel and angry at all times and always likes to be stubborn. Even if he is full of blessings, he will gradually become disgusting.
people reach middle age, it is time to "cultivate the mind and cultivate the nature". Quietness is used to cultivate oneself, frugality is used to cultivate virtue. Without being indifferent, one cannot show one's ambition, and without being quiet, one cannot achieve far-reaching. The heart is like the Yangtze River and the sea, and the energy source is endless.
Especially modern middle-aged people, they should have a "water" mentality. At least, your humility and meditation will gradually light up a bright light for you in the dark road ahead.
3. There is no conflict in the family and no enemies outside. It is your great blessing.
The best state of life is that the whole family is safe and harmonious, and the relatives and friends around you are treated sincerely, with more warm breath and less so-called resentment.
Countless happy families have lost in this word - resentment. The husband resents his wife for his bad intentions, the wife resents his husband’s incompetence, the children resent their parents’ old-fashionedness, and the parents resent their children’s rebellion...
Even in interpersonal relationships, they are defeated by "resentment".
You obviously have one or two good friends, but you are not satisfied. You have to resent these friends for not being rich enough and not being able to help you, then you will have conflicts with them, which will cause these ten or twenty years of friendship to disappear.
"Resentment" is the most terrifying atmosphere in the world. You were originally a person with a sunny mentality, but now you have become complaining about the world and complaining about your relatives and friends. Then your destiny will make you fulfill your wish and become so angry that you will live like a "resentful woman".
After the age of fifty, it is time to realize the harm of complaints and hatred. The right way is to be calm and content with poverty.
4. Gradually let go of everything in the past, and you will live more and more smoothly.
people can afford it all over the street. And there are basically few people who let go. Rather than saying that people do not want to lose everything, it is better to say that people cannot accept the reality that "defects".
A powerful man once said, If you spread your hands in time, all obsessions will turn into dust. You always clench your fists and feel nervous inside. If fate wants to pull you, there is nothing we can do.
After fifty-year-old middle-aged and elderly people, what they compete for should not be the so-called money and fame and fortune, but a state of "stubbornness and transcendence".
Don’t miss it easily. Things that should not be grasped must be cleared in time. is like removing garbage. Scan it into the garbage can of life and don’t let your heart bear too much dirt.
The so-called " The six senses are pure and are the way, and retreating is actually moving forward."
You have a clear mind, clear heart, and a deep foundation. Then you only need to take a step back a little to remove dirt. I believe that your future will become "light in everything".
text/Shushan Youlu
