Before, all wishes and expectations were very normal. Those wishes and expectations cannot be said to be high or low. They should be called normal. However, with the three years of epidemic, our wishes and expectations for life may have changed a lot today.
1. We are all confused by purposeless and temporary senses.
Smart merchants set up a shed in the big square, with department stores on it in a dazzling array. If you go shopping in nothing, there will always be a few things suitable for you. You will always get something for you every time, and you will always bring back a lot of things that seem very cheap but may be needed.
After a while, you will find that the things you bought are piled up in corners of the house since you bought them, and you didn’t even look at them. In fact, the things you bought are all IQ tax.
Three years of epidemic, I will never go shopping in Taobao stores again, unless it is a necessary thing, I am afraid of arousing my desire to buy.
counts all the most practical things you have bought, that is the toilet. I spent more than 10,000 yuan to buy a smart toilet , which is really an indispensable thing. It serves me every day, and its service makes me happy. Although it costs a lot, this money is worth spending because it is of great value and frequency.
The other one is the shoes. I didn't notice its importance before, and I felt that it was just something that could be stepped on under my feet. As I grew older, my legs and feet felt not lighter. My son bought me a pair of expensive travel shoes. At first, I thought it was not worth spending this money. When I walked a few times and felt very comfortable, I realized that a person might have treated his whole life badly without a few pairs of good shoes. Now I have to wear softer shoes almost every day, which can make my feet easier, and the money is worth spending.
Bed is the longest dependent time in life. We spend at least 8 hours in bed 24 hours a day, which accounts for about 1/3 of our life. Therefore, beds must be given priority. They must be high-standard and should focus on comfort. Don’t consider the price.
It is impossible for life to remain elegant at all times, to be refined everywhere, to gain, to lose, to be precious, to give up.
2. A person’s necessities are not many, and not many are “necessary”.
The sentence we heard the most in the three-year epidemic is: "Don't go out unless necessary." We can use it on the road of life, "Don't buy it unless necessary!"
There are so many useless things. At that time, when I bought a car, I thought I had a car, and I might often go camping, bought the best camping tents and everything that can be used for camping and picnics, and packed them into several large bags. As a result, I have used it in a total of one for more than ten years, and I am still in the storage room and have never seen it again.
Looking back at the messy home, there are useless things everywhere. Then you may be excited to buy them, but you will abandon them forever and never ignore them again. Those things become unbearable and look at the hateful waste. If you have to use
, buy the best ones, at any cost, unneeded or low-value things. Don’t buy them even if they are cheap.
There is actually not much of a person’s life that is necessary. What we need to do is to keep our money bags, be clear-headed, and invest safely. In the dark night, sleep more often and cannot sleep, just like "poetry and the distance". Don't think about going out for a wandering around in loneliness, be careful to meet ghosts.
The interaction between people is also the same. Friends who are not allowed or not must be desirable, and friends who are necessary should be cherished. It’s better not to be a friend who has a weak relationship and has different views on drinking and meat.
