When we were students, we had seen such students who could not read books, despise authority, challenge teachers, and rebellious. They often screamed countless times in the class, looking like they "love whoever they want", and looked very cool.
What will happen to these alternative students when they reach middle age?
My little girl, nickname is Gangzi. When he was in school, he was a famous "thorn" in the school and was a regular visitor to every teacher's office. Gangzi is a kind of energetic student, but he has no interest in learning. He just doesn’t want the teacher to attend classes seriously. When going to junior high school, he is a "celebrity" in his class. In his words, "What can I do if I study well? Isn't I going to a factory to get a dead salary in the future? What's the point?"
went to school and became a burden, and it became a career. In the end, the school was persuaded to leave because of violating school rules. Later, there were fewer opportunities to meet and less knowledge about Gangzi.
Gangzi got married because he had just reached the age of marriage because he got married early. He was the earliest of us. When I got married, his son was in elementary school.
This time I went back to my hometown during the National Day holiday and learned from a few other friends that Gangzi has not been doing well in the past few years. I also heard that Gangzi's wife couldn't stand domestic violence and wanted to divorce, and the family was in a mess.
I always think that Gangzi is a flexible person. If you don’t study hard, you can support your family by relying on your own intelligence.
I want to know what happened to Gangzi and why he is so useless now. I took the time to enter Gangzi's house, and the house was so messy that I couldn't get into it. Gangzi felt embarrassed to see me.
chat can bring the distance closer. It turned out that after Gangzi got married, he also worked with the elder brother I knew in society. However, he had no education and no skills, so he could only do the work of driving a truck. Everyone knows that Gangzi worked for a while and couldn't stand it anymore. It turned out that there were parents to help me, but now my parents are gone and I don’t want to work hard. I always think about a good thing that a pie falls from the sky. If you can't make money, you still like to recharge the boss. After a while, your wife will complain. When Gangzi was annoyed, he would beat and scold him. The relationship between husband and wife has become stalemate.
I listened to Gangzi complaining that I had not encountered a good opportunity and had not married a wife who understood me. The whole family looked down on him... I sighed endlessly as I heard these words.
When I was young like Gangzi, I didn’t study hard, and I always felt that learning was a tight curse, so there was no easy freedom. When I was young, I spent money a lot. When I reached middle age, I saw that other people were living better than me and couldn't lose their composure to go out to do low-wage work, so I would rather ate my parents and wife at home than go out to work.
"Small ability but a big temper at home" has become the standard for Gangzi. I don’t understand, what Gangzi is thinking? Is it just for your own freedom to live in this world?
Who should we please? Who do you care about? Should you live in your own world and complain, or should you see yourself clearly and start over?
