It is an amazing ability to be able to break out of the dilemma set by others; but it is the most amazing thing to be able to break out of other people's layout and still be able to walk your own path. One of the conditions we must have to do this is to think in reverse and retreat to advance. Only by not following other people's logic can you walk out of your own path. Be a true master, dominate your own career and your own life. Lin Tong, a graduate student in finance, came to a securities company to work as a fund researcher after graduation. But I don’t know what’s going on, the department manager always dislikes him. For example, when inviting everyone to eat hot pot at home after get off work, they always accidentally missed Lin Tong. The way Lin Tong cheered herself up was to go to "Adu" to eat Hong Kong-style high-end hotpot, which was more enjoyable than the supervisor and colleagues! The supervisor wanted to embarrass him, but he was even more proud! The funds assigned to him by the supervisor are always unpopular commodities and it is difficult to perform in performance. He is not angry and always works diligently to complete them.

Later he left the securities company, walked out another way, and worked in the marketing planning department of a company. He was very comfortable in the work of the Planning Department and was soon promoted to department manager. When talking about his work in a securities company, he always said, "Fortunately he treated me like that, which gave me experience, otherwise I could only do research and analysis now. Thank you for your achievements."

This is how life is. From another perspective, you are the winner. The bigger the mind, the bigger the achievements. It is not a bad thing to retreat when you see difficulties. It is better to compete for a long time than to fight for a while. What's more, how do you know that God's layout is not about making you shoulder greater responsibilities? Being patient with a moment of energy will make you a way out everywhere. Don’t waste your spiritual energy on people who are not worth it.