#Toutiao Creation Challenge# There was a wave of working in the late 1980s, but at that time, the couple had a strong sense of family. Even if one party went out to work, the other party could work with peace of mind. In the late 1990s, some married ladies ran away. These ladies

In the late 1990s, some married ladies ran away. These ladies were not satisfied with their marriage and always thought that they could still find the "Prince Charming". In fact, is it a prince who rides the white horse?

Later, as people's horizons broaden, some women with too strong vanity chose to pursue their own happiness. Some people go out to work, some go out to do business together, and everyone knows what business they are doing.

Especially rural women, these women have a certain mind. After they leave the house, they can be living nannies or month nanny . These professions are all urgent needs in the market.

Next village Wu Yehua, 51 years old this year, worked as a nanny from her hometown to Suzhou five years ago. As the saying goes: There is paradise above and Suzhou and Hangzhou below. This shows how prosperous and gorgeous Suzhou and Hangzhou are. When they first came to Suzhou, everything was beautiful and novel, just like Liu Laolao entering the Grand View Garden in . After I went to the employer's home, I saw what kind of wealth is to be prosperous. The employer is a 65-year-old man, a retired professor, with a pension of 12,000 yuan. The employer's son has five technology companies in Shanghai.

Wu Yehua has a easy job, a monthly salary of 8,000 yuan, and a monthly break of eight days. If you don’t have a rest, you can get another salary.

After the first year of work, during the Spring Festival, the first thing I did when I went home was to find my husband to divorce. My husband didn’t want to divorce. Wu Yehua had been preventing this. She proposed to compensate her husband for 100,000 yuan, and her husband reluctantly agreed to the divorce. After the holiday, I returned to my employer's home, took the divorce certificate, and registered with my employer to marry. Although the employer is much older, the employer is well-maintained and dressed in a fashionable way, and it seems natural for the two to walk together.

In the village, there are four women who divorce like Wu Yehua. They all work outside and have more mature ideas and want to be urban people again.

How should men deal with this problem? It is recommended to do the following four things:

1. The couple must go out together when they go out. If the wife is allowed to go out, the woman will be tempted and filed for divorce is expected;

2. Men should be prepared for the situation. If the wife has signs of cheating, they should negotiate and resolve the problem early to avoid long nights and dreams;

3. Be more concerned about the wife and love. Usually women cannot feel the warmth of the family, and they will look for "warmth" outside the family;

4. Men should have a career aspiration, whether they are doing business or learning craftsmanship, as long as they can make money, no woman is willing to live a hard life with you.

A man can only keep his wife by doing the above four points. Nowadays, it is difficult to marry a wife. The main reason is to let her live a happy life so that her family can be safe and smooth.