No one expected that Tang Xiaoyun, the "mama's boy" who obeyed his mother's advice, would actually kill her mother.
He deliberately chose his mother's birthday, smashed her to death with a trophy, and cruelly dismembered her body and hid it in the refrigerator.
Afterwards, his temperament changed drastically. He surrendered himself for several months after eating, drinking, gambling, and playing wildly. He confessed to his crime and told law enforcement officers that she deserved it.
It is hard to imagine that under Tang Xiaoyun's obedient and sensible appearance, there is a cold heart hidden.
This case is adapted from the real "Mother Killing Case", which has attracted widespread attention from the society.
So, let’s analyze the highlights of the drama with the film and television dramas, hoping to give everyone a lot of rewards.
The mother of Tang who raises a child
Tang Xiaoyun has been like a puppet with her strings since she was a child and is dominated by her mother.
Listen to your mother’s words, what you say, and what you do.
Can read and write at the age of three, went to high school early at the age of fifteen, and joined the "Fortune 500 Enterprises" before graduation in college, and won numerous trophies and honors during this period.
Under the cultivation of Tang's mother, Tang Xiaoyun became a model of "other people's children", making Tang's mother proud, and relatives and friends were even more envious.
It seems that the mother is kind and filial to the child, but in fact, she has been tortured by her mother's pathological desire to control her.
Tang Xiaoyun longs for himself to live and study like a normal child, rather than keeping studying and attending tutoring classes.
He has no friends, and he dares not confess his love to a girl he meets. Under his excellent appearance, he is inferior and afraid of interpersonal relationships.
There is such a scene after Tang Xiaoyun killed his mother.
He threw his mother's body in the refrigerator and said easily to the body: Worship .
is not like a farewell to the mother, but more like self-salvation. He can finally get rid of his mother and never have to be controlled by her again and live the life he wants.
He said to the law enforcement officers: The more my mother doesn't want me to die, the more I want to die, and she deserves to die.
Rebellious psychology eroded Tang Xiaoyun and was not under control at all.
Who doesn’t want your son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix?
But this pathological and powerful education method will only backfire and eventually lead to tragedy, which will not be worth the loss.
Tang's mother, who has a strong desire to control her,
, she places her dreams and future on her son and realizes her unfinished dreams through her children.
Tang's mother never cared about whether her son was happy, but only cared about whether he could win the first place.
Even after graduation and going to work, Tang's mother asked Tang Xiaoyun to listen to her everywhere and pay her salary. She did not allow him to rent a house, and had no personal space or freedom at all.
Such maternal love is suffocating.
Tang Xiaoyun is not like a son, but more like Tang’s mother’s tool.
Tang's mother did not even give her the most basic respect and freedom to the child, which made him feel disobedient, ignored the childhood that the child should have, and nakedly destroyed the child's life.
In the real "Mother Killing Case", when asked what the suspect's real purpose of killing his mother was, he replied: I have to talk to my mother for two or three hours if I want 50 yuan, and I may not be able to get it.
Extreme ideas are accumulated through small things, and they will eventually be about to break out after reaching a certain order of magnitude.
"My mother" is not the ultimate goal. He just wants to be free, but his mother has never understood what he thinks.
Home Education has a huge impact on children. As parents, they must be responsible for their children's growth, but they must also have a bottom line. In the process of getting along with their children, they should pay more attention to their physical and mental health.
Parents and their children grow up together, this is the most reliable sense of security that parents can give their children. Obedience and obedience are by no means educational methods for children to become successful.