16-year-old Liu Siqi , lying lazily on the sofa, while eating snacks, while browsing her phone;
8-year-old younger brother was skating on the living room and accidentally made some noises.
Liu Siqi immediately became angry and shouted, "Get out, don't make a noise here." After saying that, he picked up an object and smashed it on his younger brother.
Then she threw the phone away, got up and rushed to the front of her brother, pushing her brother to stagger. She wanted to throw her brother downstairs along with his broken toy. The mother next to her, at first thought that her baby daughter was just scaring her younger brother, but she didn't expect that she was serious and wanted to persuade her, but Liu Siqi threw a fierce look over and her mother didn't say anything. In the end, she could only take her son out of the living room in shame.
Seeing the mother and younger brother who were "fleeing in the panic", Liu Siqi smiled proudly. She continued to collapse on the sofa, picked up her cell phone, and called her father to complain.
" Just put my mother and brother in order to clean up. You will stop my younger brother's account tomorrow, don't buy him toys. "
Looking at my daughter's unruly mom, hiding in the kitchen, shed tears secretly.
She was puzzled why her daughter, who had tried her best to "raise" her daughter, became what she is today?
will she be fine in the future?
In 2001, Liu Siqi was born in a wealthy family in Panjin City, Liaoning Province.
parents are doing business, and because the business is very busy, they have no time to take care of their baby daughter himself, so they recruit all the "idle" relatives at home to take care of Liu Siqi.
Aunt and aunt are in charge of daily life, uncle and uncle are drivers and bodyguards, and in addition, several nannies are invited to cook and clean. Where is Liu Siqi? She doesn't have to do anything, she opens her mouth for food and stretches out her hands for clothes, and lives a "princess" life every day.
Under everyone's 360 degrees of doting, Liu Siqi gradually developed a arrogant and arrogant young lady's temper. Everything she wanted had to be satisfied unconditionally; she could not bear any hardship or aggrievance, and she would lose her temper and throw things if she had a disagreement.
is 16 years old. She doesn’t even have the most basic ability to take care of herself. She can’t wear clothes by herself, and needs people to feed her food. She spends money, but she is very good.
Liu Siqi loves shopping the most. She likes clothes and cosmetics, never asks about the price, buy and buy.
A limited-edition bag worth 9999 yuan. She took a look and thought it was OK, so she took it with her. Every time she went shopping, she spent at least 10,000 yuan, up to 100,000 yuan.
Uncle followed behind, carrying the spoils that Liu Siqi won. Liu Siqi was empty-handed and jumped to find a new "prey."
Her often said, "Why don't we spend it?"
Facing her daughter's uncontrollable consumption, her mother said, "Girls should be raised in wealth. In this way, when she grows up, people outside will not want to use money to tempt her."
Mother's indulgence further prompted Liu Siqi to consume uncontrollablely.
Once, Liu Siqi wanted to cut her hair to make a styling, and her mother helped her contact the most luxurious barber shop in the local area, but she didn't go.
She insists on going to Dalian , more than 300 kilometers away from home, because there is a barber shop there, and celebrities often go there; she thought that the aesthetics of celebrities will definitely not be bad when they go to the place where celebrities do their heads, and this lady is going to go there.
So, Liu Siqi ordered his uncle to set off immediately now.
Mom wants to dissuade her, but Liu Siqi is too lazy to pay attention to her. He just urged uncle to drive away quickly.
There is another time when Liu Siqi suddenly had a whim and wanted to experience what it means to make money.
so she went in some mobile phone cases and took them to the street to resell.
purchase price is more than 20 yuan per person. She sold it as 2 yuan, and some of them could not be sold, so she gave it to passers-by.
Finally, this experience didn’t make a penny, and it paid more than 500 yuan.
Uncle said, "If you don't want money, just try to make her happy";
Mom said, "If you want to lose money, just pay. Let her go, that's the feeling."
After setting up the stall, she was tired of busy work, so she went to a barbecue to reward herself. After 100, Liu Siqi forced her to give her 500.
Faced with Liu Siqi's increasingly crazy behavior, the family didn't care much about it, and felt that it was just spending more money. The most important thing for children to grow up happily.
Until the beginning scene appeared, Liu Siqi had a disagreement and started beating his younger brother and mad mother.
Mom then suddenly realized that I misunderstood “rich support”?
If this continues, my daughter's life may be ruined.
The more I think about it, the more I become scared. After thinking for a long time, my mother made up her mind and signed up for Liu Siqi to participate in " Transformation Scheme ".
The night before departure, everyone prepared luggage for Liu Siqi, 3 or 4 suitcases, all filled with them. And Liu Siqi was lying on the sofa playing with her mobile phone.
When she set off the next day, she got into the car with a smile. She was full of thought that if a young lady like herself went to the countryside to experience life, the village chief should be joking and gongs and bringing the whole village to line up to welcome her, right?
She was happy to imagine, but when she arrived at the scene, she was stunned when she looked at the mountains all over the place.
Where is the farm stay? Where is the welcome to queue?
Liu Siqi is completely confused. But it's even more crashing behind.
Program team requires cash, cosmetics and other items, and they are not allowed to be taken up the mountain.
money can be used, but for Liu Siqi, who loves beauty, it is better to die without cosmetics.
She was soft and hard, acting cute and ruthless, and used up all the methods, but the program team refused to give in.
This is not your home, all the rules have changed. After a stalemate for a long time, Liu Siqi finally realized this. Finally, go up the mountain.
The mountain road was rugged. She carried the box and walked a few steps before throwing it all away. After finally climbing up the mountain, I found that there was nothing but a few dilapidated dirt houses on the mountain.
Liu Siqi was so angry that she was full of anger and had nowhere to go, so she had to kick the table and chair hard.
waited for a long time, but no one came to greet her. There was no way, so she had to find other friends who were transformed. Finally, they went to the small shop together to live on some snacks on credit.
lasted for a few days, and finally waited for the "mom and dad" in the mountains to come back.
"My parents" cooked a table of dishes for the children. Liu Siqi, who had been hungry for a few days, had a very happy meal. This meal is really delicious and unforgettable.
My parents go out early and come back late to work, and still take good care of several children in the city.
The children saw it and remembered it in their hearts. After a while, Liu Siqi and the young men felt that they should do something to repay their parents.
They went to the construction site to lay mud floors. They were busy all day long, and in the end, the three people earned 150 yuan; with the 50 yuan they received, Liu Siqi sighed: "In the past, I felt that 50 yuan was useless, but now I can eat several full meals with it."
rural materials are scarce, and it is difficult to make a little money. If it weren't for seeing it with your own eyes and experiencing it with your own eyes, Liu Siqi would never have dreamed of this. The children were very happy to get the 150 yuan they earned from their labor.
Instead of going to eat and drink, they went to the market to buy a pair of leather shoes for "Dad".
Liu Siqi was deeply moved when she saw her father's joy in putting on her new leather shoes. After that, she took the initiative to help with the work. They helped "Dad" build mountain roads and followed "Mom" up the mountain to mow grass; they all said that labor creates wealth, but in fact labor can also "transform" people.
Liu Siqi, who did nothing before, was completely different from the arrogant lady before, after a period of training.
We often say that people do not grow old slowly. After a big change, they grow old overnight; in fact, the same is true for growth.Liu Siqi saw, heard and experienced the life she had never experienced in the past ten years. Her heart had already undergone earth-shaking changes.
30 days after the "transformation" ended, Liu Siqi returned to her home.
She no longer bothers others by eating, drinking, dressing, and will take the initiative to help her family work.
can no longer be seen in her, and the arrogance and unreasonableness at the time.
She often thinks of her parents in the mountains as simple and hardworking. I feel a lot in my heart. She said: "After people taste the ups and downs, they will even feel sweet when drinking boiled water."
Later, Liu Siqi no longer wasted her time buying luxury goods and makeup. She thought of planning her future well. "I left too much homework before, but now I'm still too late to make up for it. After all, I'm only 16 years old and my life has just begun."
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km0km's mind is firm and accelerates his actions. After working hard for several years, in 2017, Liu Siqi was admitted to ESMOD Beijing High Fashion Art School. After graduating from
, she thought of continuing her studies in France. At first, my family couldn't bear to let her go so far alone, worried that she wouldn't be able to take good care of herself outside. Liu Siqi said confidently, don’t worry, I am no longer the 16-year-old Liu Siqi. Only then did my parents feel at ease and let her go abroad.
alone in a foreign country, Liu Siqi is no longer as he used to be, but is as independent as a real adult.
After returning from school, she signed a contract with a studio and became a real fashion designer.
Nowadays, she is positive and optimistic, serious and meticulous about her work; she is considerate and caring to her family;
When she is free, she is busy with fitness, practices her vest line, memorizes words, watches celebrity speeches, and occasionally plays selfies, and lives a fulfilling life.
She also shares her works on Weibo from time to time, as well as behind-the-scenes footage such as sample clothes and boards; she also interacts with netizens, like all ordinary girls, love and look forward to it.
Who would have thought that Liu Siqi was once so arrogant, extravagant, and self-careless?
The happiest thing I saw today was her parents.
Mother said that fortunately, my daughter was not misunderstood by the "rich support" she misunderstood and was ruined for the rest of her life.
Through Liu Siqi, he also reminded parents that the so-called "women should be raised in wealth" in has never been just material satisfaction.
The wealth here must be spiritual "rich", which means that parents should help their children develop correct views and positive attitude towards life.
"Rich" happens in love and company, not in the wallet.
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Author: Li Jinhua
Editor: Daniel Li
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