Text: Liu Bing (educator, selected as one of the top ten role models in China in 2018)
Today, our classmate Wenjing went to the car to pick me up and called me Liu's mother. The clothes I was wearing today were bought for me when I was giving a lecture at , Shandong Agricultural University in October, and Zhang Ran, the secretary of the Youth League Committee of the school. Because it was very hot that day, I wore thick clothes. I thought Shandong was still very cold at that time.
I gave a lecture at the school in the morning and said that the teacher must be loving. The feeling of love is different, including love between husband and wife, friendship between brothers, love between father and son, etc. So what kind of love should teachers love students? I borrowed a sentence from a book - "Life-life is hard work every bit": Love like a biological mother! I dare to say that I have achieved my biological mother-like love for my students.
The author of this book is a woman from Taiwan. When she was born, she was judged by the hospital as a dead baby with no hope of survival because her bone marrow had no hematopoietic function. Later, relying on grandparents to sell their property and regularly transfusions, they were able to barely maintain their fragile life. The author relied on blood transfusion, iron discharge, injection and medicine to continue his life before he was one year old. At the age of 60, he was seriously ulcerated and necrotic with his lower limbs, which led to sepsis and almost died.
After blood analysis, I realized that what has tortured her since she was born has moderate thalassemia. This is a terminal illness that cannot be cured, and few people can live beyond the age of twenty. However, the author worked hard to survive and study hard, and finally got mercy from heaven, started a family and started a career, raised children, and bravely walked out of autism after graduating from college and was able to speak freely to others.
In the book, the author wrote: "My mother, in the fierce air raid of World War II , carried me around to visit the ancient temple in the mountains, hoping to meet a hidden master or monk to save her dying baby daughter. At that time, in order to avoid the bombing of the US military, she hurriedly fled into a dilapidated temple.
A master in the temple asked her strangely why she was willing to take the risk of artillery fire and carry her baby out? My mother cried and replied: "The child is suffering from a terminal illness and is almost dying!"
Master asked my mother to the inner hall and told her without getting tired of it: ' Everyone's lifespan is not born destined, but It is achieved by hard work bit by bit. Everyone's body is the most perfect and perfect first-class pharmaceutical factory, which can produce elixir magic medicine for treating various diseases. Therefore, everyone's body has the potential power to cure his own diseases. ’
also said: ' is not a terrible person. Even if he is a terminal illness, he will not go into a dead end. We live in this world of affection, and we must have feelings. We must not only have feelings for people, but also for any creature. We must not hurt them. We must even cherish a drop of water, a piece of paper, or a penny. ’”
The author was eleven years old and was sick for a whole year. Grandma and mother told her very seriously: "It's already so old, it's time to earn the lifespan you want to live. Never do things that damage happiness or shorten your life. Whether it's a human or a trivial animal, you must love it like your own flesh and blood, because if you let the other person live for a long time, you must also live for a long time. If you want to live for a long time, you must not do things that are short-lived.
and also, every thing in must have its service life. You must make it as long as possible, and you must not let it die prematurely, or it should not be scrapped. Because extending the other person's lifespan is to extend your lifespan.
Remember: does not need to be blessed, and people will not die early. "
Author said: "Today, I unexpectedly lived past sixty years old. What I rely on during this period should not be medicine or science. Perhaps these words really affect my life! From birth to today, I have never hurt a ant , a mosquito, a worm or a cockroach, and I will never trample on the grass and pick flowers, plants and leaves at will. In 1975, I was in a coma for eleven months due to delayed blood transfusion and became a vegetable, but miraculously, I woke up again.
At that time, a Buddhist monk firmly assured my mother that I would never go back like this. The monk said: "This child has a kind face and a compassionate heart, and will surely wake up again.’It can be seen that what determines our life and death is not a disease or a terminal illness, but whether we have a beautiful heart and a compassionate heart. Do you believe it? As long as you have a beautiful heart, you will have a beautiful life. "
There are many such touching mottos in the book. I will excerpt some of them for everyone when I have time.
Don't use all your blessings, people will not die early.
Excerpted from "The Way to Teach Children in Chinese Mothers" (written by Liu Bing)
