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Introduction:
A 48-year-old female nanny angrily criticized her 70-year-old male employer: I am just a nanny and I have no obligation to do that much, so I will quit. What happened? Let's take a look.
Aunt Fei, 48 years old
I am 48 years old this year. I never thought that I would be a nanny. When I was young, my husband and I worked in a factory together and lived a life of two o'clock and one line of work every day. The wages in factories are like this. If you want to make more money, you have to work more overtime. Only by working long overtime can you get more wages.
I want to buy a house of my own in the city. I am a hard-working person. In order to make more money, I applied to the factory to work more overtime. At that time, I worked really hard to make money, thinking that my life would get better and better in the future, but when I was 45 years old, my life changed a lot, all because of my husband.
I really never thought that my loyal and honest husband would betray me. He had another daughter outside. I saw this with my own eyes. I was very disappointed in my husband. I feel that feelings cannot be tarnished, and my husband and I cannot. Back to how it used to be. I am a decisive woman. I chose to divorce my husband because I didn’t want to see him again.
After my divorce, my son followed me. At the beginning of last year, my son accidentally fell on his head while playing ball with his friends. He was sent to the hospital and it cost 100,000 yuan for treatment. I didn't have that much money at the time, so I had to borrow it from relatives and friends. It took me two months to raise enough 100,000 yuan.
Later, my son got treatment and was discharged. I was very happy. The thing that worried me at this time was paying back the money. I borrowed so much money from relatives and friends, and I thought about making money as soon as possible to pay it off.
Later, I saw in the newspaper that someone was recruiting nannies. The job was to serve a 70-year-old employer. The salary was 7,000 yuan a month, which I thought was very considerable. The requirements written by the employer were simple, and they only needed to be diligent and good at cooking. I felt that I could endure any hardship. I had learned cooking before and the food I cooked was delicious, so I applied for the job.
The application went smoothly. I successfully became a nanny. I thought I could make money and pay off my debts. I would perform well in the future and satisfy my employer. I am dedicated to my work and keep my employer's house clean. Whether it is the living room or the kitchen, it can be said to be spotless. I also cooked many delicious dishes for my employer according to his taste. I felt that I had worked hard enough.
How did I know that after three months of working as a nanny, my 70-year-old employer asked me to dance ballroom dance with him at home. Although I had never danced before, I saw others dancing in the park. A man and a woman held hands in the ballroom dance. Seems very intimate. I felt that as a nanny, ballroom dancing with my employer was beyond the scope of my job and was beneath my dignity.
So I rejected the employer, and the employer was very angry. He said to me: "I paid you to come here just to live a comfortable life. What's wrong with me dancing with you?" I said: "You can give me orders. It’s really not okay to do other things, but dancing will affect my innocence. Please respect my opinion. "
But no matter what I say, my employer won’t listen. If I don’t dance with him, He will deduct my salary. I felt that my employer was going too far. He did not respect my choice at all and did not care about my feelings. I felt very angry, so I turned against my employer directly and said to my employer: "I am just a nanny, I have no obligation to do that much, so I quit." ”
Although I am just a nanny, I also have my own dignity. The employer only thinks about his own interests and does not consider me from my perspective. I think such an employer is too difficult to serve. I need money, but I will not trample on my dignity just to make money. I choose to quit my job and find another job that suits me.
