Parents and children are the best gifts for each other.
mother, literally refers to the female name of the parents, she can be the mother who gave birth to you, or the mother who adopted you. Mother is not simply defined by DNA inheritance. Every mother who is full of love and gives you maternal love is respected.
As Vis Crown said, both parents and children are gifts from God to each other. Even if we are unable to stay together for various reasons, we should maintain awe, blessings and gratitude for the maintenance of this life in our hearts.
Once, there was an abandoned baby Pan Tiantian who was abandoned in China and raised by an American adoptive mother. Her growth process made many people willing to give more understanding to parents who gave birth to but did not support. The sweet American adoptive mother's education and guidance for this adopted daughter also made more people understand that even if the world is not friendly to you and me, we should keep a warm light in our hearts, so, Life will dispel the haze of tragedy.
A half-year-old girl was abandoned in Juyu Bay Park
This Pan Tiantian is a poor and lucky girl, born on January 22, 1992 in Jiangsu Province, my country Yangzhou, is a very cute baby. When she was just six months old, bad luck came. She was abandoned by her biological parents.
When Pan Tiantian was discovered , is in Juyu Bay Park . did not leave any clues , It seems that her biological parents were determined not to want her , _span4span2 did not leave any clues. After the person was found sent to the police station in the jurisdiction, because she could not confirm who her parents were, Pan Tiantian was sent to the local orphanage according to regulations.
Although life in an orphanage is not a good thing, it is always a worry-free life. Pan Tiantian grew up here into a smart, lively and lovely little girl.
The best place for a child in an orphanage is to meet a pair of adoptive parents who are in good condition and leave the orphanage to live a normal family life after being adopted. Once there was a lady surnamed Liu who wanted to adopt the lovely Pan Tiantian, but because she already had her own child, she did not meet the relevant regulations for adopting children, so she had to regret it.
American mother adopted Pan Tiantian, and her life turned around and met maternal love
However, in the 1990s, for some unknown reason, many Americans came to China just to adopt China Those children who have experienced changes without their parents by their side. According to incomplete statistics, between 1992 and 2017, the United States adopted as many as 80,000 children in my country.Pan Tiantian also met such a mother. Since then, Pan Tiantian's life has turned into the fast lane.
The mother who adopted Pan Tiantian is named Connie. She is an excellent speech correction expert and a very caring and patient person. Her job is mainly to educate children with disabilities to learn languages. She made a special trip to the orphanage just to adopt a Chinese child. The clever, lively and lovely Pan Tiantian caught the mother's heart all at once.
The adoption procedures went well , This is one of the reasons why Americans are more willing to adopt children in China . After all the procedures were completed, Pan Tiantian followed the American mother to the United States. The mother and daughter lived together in Massachusetts in the United States. Since then, the abandoned child Pan Tiantian has a warm home.
Mom is very caring and an expert in education. I am very patient with Pan Tiantian, who has just arrived. In order to alleviate Pan Tiantian's fear of unfamiliar surroundings, there is also the trouble of language barriers. American mother bought a cute plush teddy bear for Pan Tiantian. Tell Pan Tiantian: "You can let it accompany you." Pan Tiantian was lucky to meet such a caring mother.
Days go by like this, every day is very happy and happy, Pan Tiantian has also grown into a beautiful healthy girl.
American mothers never conceal that Pan Tiantian is an adopted child, and frankly told Pan Tiantian that they are not related by blood. And in order for Pan Tiantian to remember Chinese culture,American mothers often dress Pan Tiantian as a Chinese child, and will cook a bowl of noodles for Pan Tiantian on her birthday every year. Tell her that it is a Chinese custom to eat "longevity noodles" on her birthday, which means health and longevity.
Not only that, American mothers often educate Pan Tiantian not to forget their hometown. Remember that you are from China, let alone Chinese culture. And in his spare time, register for Pan Tiantian to learn Chinese dance, fan dance , ribbon dance. Cultivate Pan Tiantian's oriental temperament.
is not only the American mother who loves her wholeheartedly, the American grandparents also like this granddaughter from China very much, and often buy gifts for Pan Tiantian. Pan Tiantian grew up in an environment full of love.
After graduating from college and returning to China to find relatives, my wish was temporarily lost.
reached the age of enrollment, the American mother applied to a school in Boston for Pan Tiantian. There are many adopted children like Pan Tiantian. In order to let Pan Tiantian see the world and have a long experience, American mothers will often take Pan Tiantian out on trips, visiting and learning all over the world. Pan Tiantian is very clever. Under the careful guidance of her American mother, she has made rapid progress and has excellent grades.
When Pan Tiantian was 18 years old, there was no suspense. She was admitted to the university and became an excellent college student. The choice of universities in the United States is quite free. As long as you are good enough, you can apply to a good university. Pan Tiantian first entered Wheaton University in Boston, Massachusetts for two years, and then was accepted by Harvard University .
Harvard University’s position in the world need not be explained,Being favored by Harvard shows how excellent Pan Tiantian is. But the tuition fees at Harvard University are extremely high, and American mothers are under great financial pressure. The sensible Pan Tiantian has transferred to Suffolk. Finally, I finished university courses there and graduated successfully. After graduation, Pan Tiantian worked in a cancer research company in Boston. While working while planning to apply to Harvard University for graduate studies.
Pan Tiantian is 22 years old at this time. Become a beautiful girl. As an adult, Pan Tiantian thinks of her biological parents from time to time. Although Pan Tiantian was abandoned in six months , has no impression of his biological parents , 3 strong _strong span2 _span strong span2_span4 strong span2 _span strong span2_span4 Tiantian still hopes to find them , to see what the parents who gave her life look like , also wants to know why she abandoned span2 _span4strong span2.
American mothers are very supportive of Pan Tiantian's idea of looking for relatives.I also hope that my daughter can fulfill her wish. The American mother loves this Chinese daughter very much and only hopes that she is healthy and happy. In 2018, Pan Tiantian returned to her hometown and embarked on the road of finding relatives.
first went to the orphanage where she once lived to look for clues, but the aunt who knew about it was also old. There were very few clues left in the past, and this aunt can't remember it because of the age. So after searching for a period of time, the search for relatives failed, and Pan Tiantian had to go back to the United States temporarily.
Pan Tiantian did not give up in despair, she said that she would come back and continue searching. I hope that one day I can find her biological parents, tell them that she is doing well now, and thank them for giving her life.
Pan Tiantian didn't have any resentment towards his parents from beginning to end, but was looking for it with love. She was able to understand with a tolerant mentality that her parents had to abandon her back then, and she always believed that her parents loved her, leaving her behind was just helpless.
Concluding remarks
Maternal love is the greatest and most selfless love in the world , Let American mothers teach Pan Tiantian in the way of love, 3 _span4 _strong _strong A child abandoned by her parents is full of warmth and love , allows her to face everything actively.
I don't know if Pan Tiantian's future family search will go smoothly, and if he can recognize each other, I believe this girl full of positive energy will definitely get a happy life that belongs to her.
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