Some things that are left in my heart for a long time may be just a misunderstanding, and can be solved in just one sentence. But because of embarrassment, I can't speak. This is the case with this founding major general with thick eyebrows, big eyes, wide mouth and violent personality. When he fought, he held a gun in his left hand and a knife in his right hand, rushed into the enemy's formation and fought fiercely. His name is Qi Dinggen.
by chance, Qi Dinggen discovered a "secret" of his newlywed wife. He was worried about it for 36 years and did not tell anyone. It was not until a woman came to the door that he smiled embarrassedly. Unexpectedly, he was "self-righteous" and tossed himself for 36 years.
Qidian root, from Dongqi Village, Liangjiaduhe, Jinxian County, Nanchang, Jiangxi Province. His father Qi Fulu made a living by brewing wine. He had three acres of land and half a house in his family. At the age of 40, he married a young and beautiful wife. Because Qi Fulu worked abroad for a long time, his wife could not stand the loneliness and hang out with a slut. Later, Qi Fulu was seriously ill and his wife ran away with her lover.
When Qi Dinggen was a boy, he understood something a little bit and was very stubborn. Because he hated his mother's actions, he was sent to a town hundreds of miles away to learn carpentry. His father died of illness, and Qi Dinggen was unable to meet again.
In December 1930, 13-year-old Qi Dinggen participated in Red Army . Someone asked him why he wanted to join the army, and he said that he would not be beaten or scolded if he wanted to get a job. It can be seen that he has also suffered a lot of torture from his old society and his original family. Except for the first "anti-encirclement and suppression" war, he participated in the other four "anti-encirclement and suppression" wars. 25,000 miles Long March , also did not fall. He participated in the life-threatening bloody battle in the Xiangjiang River battle to protect the transfer of the main force.
Qi Dinggen is like a fire, not only in combat, but also in pursuit of his partner. He met his wife Chen Yu for the first time. He had a good date on the first two dates. On the third date, he took the initiative to confess, hoping that Chen Yu could make a statement on the relationship between the two. As a young woman under the new idea, Chen Yu thought it was a bit too early and did not rush to think about it, so he remained silent.
This made Qi Dinggen so anxious that he asked relentlessly: First, he asked whether it was OK or not, then he nodded or shook his head, and finally he was like giving orders to his subordinates - if you don’t express your opinion today, I won’t let you go! It makes me laugh and cry. Fortunately, Chen Yu is a good girl and has a good impression of Qi Dinggen. Finally, he agreed and got married soon after. Although Qi Dinggen looks arrogant, he is actually delicate, understanding and treats people very well.
In a very philosophical sentence, it is: "There is a tiger in the heart, and sniff the rose . The iron man also has a tender and "worried" side. The two had a bad time just after getting married, or Qi Dinggen was unilaterally angry and wronged, and Chen Yu didn't know this at all. Qi Dinggen takes it to heart and keeps it for 36 years. He still remembers it clearly when he is in his eighties.
is like this: Once, Qi Dinggen looked through his wife Chen Yu's album and accidentally found Chen Yu taking a photo with a boy, his actions were very intimate, and the boy's name was Gong Dawei. Qi Dinggen was almost angry when he looked at the photo. But then I thought about it, this was something that Chen Yu had before he met her. It might be that her ex-boyfriend was not in charge. Besides, Chen Yu was already wronged by her being able to marry a rough man, and she could not get angry at her casually.
So, Qi Dinggen pretended that he had never seen this photo and did not mention it to his wife; however, the anger and grievance in his heart still existed, after all, Chen Yu actually put the photo of "ex-boyfriend" into the treasured album for souvenir. Time changes, 36 years have passed. One day, Chen Yu told Qi Dinggen that he had an old classmate whom he hadn't seen for many years came to visit him and went to see him together. Qi Dinggen asked who it was, and Chen Yu replied without hesitation: "Gong Dawei."
Qi Dinggen was stunned. Why did he let me see your ex-boyfriend? I must take a good look today. How many are worth remembering! But when he saw Gong Dawei, Qi Dinggen was stunned - Why is Gong Dawei a woman? Qi Dinggen told his wife Chen Yu about the "secret". After hearing this, Chen Yu and Gong Dawei laughed so hard that they were about to cry.
Then explained: Gong Dawei looked like a tomboy when he was young and dressed like a tomboy. Chen Yu himself became accustomed to it, so he didn't explain it with his husband. As a result, I misunderstood for so many years. When Chen Yu thought about it, he was deeply moved by Qi Dinggen's actions: he was so anxious, but he could endure it for so long.
Why is this? It’s not because of the word “love”.
