NEET, also known as NEET, originally originated from the United Kingdom. It refers to people who do not go to school, do not work, and have no ambition to pursue. They live a life of eating and waiting to die.
This word very vividly explains the true meaning of the word nibbling. Because there is nothing, is like a baby. It must rely on its parents in all aspects of eating, drinking, defecation and urination., is why it is called nibbling. old man.
In Japan, this is a very large group, and a special number represents their existence: 8050, that is, 80-year-old parents support 50-year-old children.
This number sounds very sad, but it is a fact. Moreover, Japan’s real gnawing on the elderly is more pathetic than we imagined. After all, they have to face the reality of their parents’ death.
Yutaka Suzuki, a 60-year-old member of the Nian Lao clan in Japan, has almost always lived a life of seclusion, no work, and no contact with the outside world.
One day in 2013, Yutaka Suzuki’s 93-year-old father passed away.
As a result, his life will be in a state of uncertainty. So, he came up with an almost creepy method: not to report the fact that his father had passed away.
In Japan, canceling the account of the deceased is a matter of conscious observance . According to normal people's thinking, after the death of a loved one, they will go to the relevant department to register the death.
Of course, with the registration result of the deceased's information, all his benefits and benefits in this world, such as pensions and pensions, will end.
Yutaka Suzuki knew this very well. He had no job and no other income. Once his father died, the only thing waiting for him would be starvation.
Therefore, he secretly concealed the news of his father's death, wrapped his body in white cloth, put it in a plastic bag, placed it in his room, and lived with it.
This kind of behavior can only be described as perverted. For the sake of inheriting the old age, a person actually ignores the deceased, and even stays in the same room with his corpse. It is simply chilling.
In 2020, during a routine inspection by the elderly care department in Tokyo, Japan, found that Mr. Suzuki (Yutaka Suzuki's father) would be one hundred years old in March. This is a pretty remarkable age, so they are going to visit this old gentleman.
But then a problem arose: Mr. Suzuki’s phone could not be reached. When the contact was fruitless, the elderly care department got in touch with his son Suzuki Yutaka.
After the elderly care department explained its intention, Suzuki Yutaka decisively refused the family's request for normal work , and he tried every means to prevent the elderly care department from visiting.
Obviously, these abnormal behaviors are suspicious. The pension department contacted the police station based on old cases of pension fraud in Japan. With their help, the group went to Suzuki Yutaka's home.
Now they could no longer hide it. When the police and the elderly care department entered Suzuki Yutaka's home, they discovered that "the nearly 100-year-old Mr. Suzuki" had turned into bones . He had been dead for 7 years and had been released by his son. at home.
"I did this to pay for my own living expenses."
Suzuki Yutaka confessed to the fact that he defrauded his pension. According to statistics, he defrauded 12 million yen, which is a pension of 760,000 yuan, in 7 years. The amount was large enough to keep him in prison for the rest of his life.
Yutaka Suzuki probably did not expect that he would be arrested and imprisoned at the age of 58 after living in seclusion at home. From then on, he would start living in seclusion in prison again.
It’s just that if he doesn’t participate in labor there, no one should give him food, right?
However, Suzuki Yutaka is not the most tragic among the old-gnawing clan, because some people eventually starved to death at home because they had no old people to chew!
This is a case mentioned in a special report from Japanese TV station :
Shinichi Makioka once suffered some blows in life when he was young, such as failing to enter college and having trouble finding a job.
However, he eventually overcame these difficulties and became a medical worker.
This is a good ending. After struggling in life, having somewhere to go is the most beautiful thing.
But this is not the case for Shinichi Makioka, because he does not love the work of working overtime every day at all. He wrote in his diary: "It is not interesting to live at all. Without a healthy body, working for the sake of work, the brain A blank."
Soon, because he could not bear the pressure of this kind of work, Makioka Shinichi was fired from his work. . This hit him hard again, and he locked himself in a room, refusing to look for any more work.
At first, the parents were very anxious and distressed, but they were still worried about their son's return to society.
The old man also recorded this feeling in his diary:
"I had an argument with Shinichi again after dinner. I knew he didn't want to hear about finding a job, but I still brought it up unconsciously... thinking that this was my son, I felt so uncomfortable that I almost cried... Today I finally couldn't help but reach out and hit Shinichi, and the corners of his mouth were bleeding."
Perhaps parents feel more helpless than Makioka Shinichi, right? After all, they are getting older and older, and later my mother got Alzheimer's disease and my father was diagnosed with cancer.
The so-called parents, when facing their children, no matter how unsatisfactory they are, they cannot abandon them.
The same is true for Shinichi Makioka's father. He recorded this feeling in his diary: "If parents create misfortune, children will bear the misfortune."
No one knows what this misfortune refers to, but looking at Shinichi Makioka's life, his misfortune is just some setbacks he suffered while growing up, and it really has nothing to do with his parents.
But regardless of whether it is related or not, Shinichi Makioka’s father still bears all the living expenses of his son when he is not working .
Until the son was 56 years old, the old couple passed away one after another.
Shinichi Makioka faces the reality of starving to death at home because he can't do anything and has no ability to survive. The neighbor reminded the relevant departments about this matter: "If this continues, he (Makioka Shinichi) will die."
However, when the staff asked Makioka Shinichi, he did not understand because he did not understand. Unwilling to communicate with others, avoided the support of the staff: "It doesn't matter, it's okay, can you give me some time?"
As a result, 10 days later, Shinichi Makioka died: malnutrition. In the final analysis, this is just a medical term, because it really means starving to death.
When Makioka Shinichi's brother came to collect his belongings, he discovered that the house was filled with garbage and there was not even a place to walk.
Among the garbage, the most common ones are snack packaging bags, without even a trace of fresh food.
This means that Shinichi Makioka never cooked before his death, he relied on snacks and fast food to support his life . Under such circumstances, it is normal to die from malnutrition.
This is the gnawing old people. When they have no old people to gnaw on, the misery of their lives is simply unbearable to look at.
Moreover, in Japan, there are endless such things: living with a corpse, being killed by his father in anger, almost all of which point directly to the social pain point of nibbling the elderly.
In fact, chewing old age is a reality in any country. Many people may have experienced some stimulation or excessive pressure from birth to adulthood, so they escape from reality and close their own world .
This kind of behavior itself is a psychological problem at best, but seriously, it is an education problem. I am afraid that in addition to the fact that the country needs to adjust the reality of some people's survival, parents should also reflect on it, right?
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