Recently, there have been many Laotian daughters-in-law who married to China on the headlines as self-media. In the past, I focused on Vietnamese daughters-in-law who married into China, but now I have discovered that more and more Laotian daughters-in-law are marrying into China.
She has now started to learn Chinese and is preparing to live in China.
More and more young men are coming to Laos to find wives.
In the past two years, Vietnam's economy has developed rapidly and people's living standards have improved day by day. Many rural families have built beautiful villas like Chinese rural families. The urban construction of Ho Chi Minh and Hanoi is changing with each passing day. Chinese boys who go to Vietnam to find wives no longer have the same sense of superiority as before. Vietnamese girls who are getting richer are more willing to stay with their parents in China.
As a result, many Chinese young people have set their sights on Laos, which is relatively economically backward. In fact, the gap between rich and poor in Laos is also very large. For example, the Laotian daughter-in-law Xiaoya's natal family is in the countryside of Pakse. Her parents are doing business and the family has built a small villa.
A Laotian girl works in a hot pot restaurant, earning a monthly salary of 400 yuan.
Many girls in Laos are willing to marry to China.
The Laotian girls Xiaomeng and Ada who married in Sichuan are from a rural area in the Miao mountainous area. The economy is very backward. Many local girls are willing to marry in China. They entrusted their Laotian wives in China to help them introduce partners.
Someone asked the husband of his Laotian daughter-in-law Ada why he didn’t start a China-Laos marriage agency business. If he successfully introduces a person, he can get a few thousand yuan in reward. This is also a way to get rich quickly.
Ada's husband said that some cross-border marriage introductions are illegal. The man and woman don't know each other well, and they get married after only a few days of knowing each other. There are many problems after marriage. Others are engaged in fraudulent marriages, taking the bride price and then disappearing. If you go to a rogue intermediary to get your money back, you won't get that much back.
Ada's husband is unwilling to help acquaintances introduce partners, mainly because if they have conflicts after marriage, they will find him, and he does not want to cause such trouble. Of course, there were also close relatives who couldn't shirk it. He introduced two Laotian girls to the Chinese guys one after another, and told WeChat to let them chat on their own, but none of them succeeded.
How much does it cost to marry a Laotian daughter-in-law
Marrying a Laotian girl requires no bride price, no house or car, is the cost low? In fact, it is not. Ada's husband gave her a gift of 50,000 yuan, and entrusted an agency to apply for documents, which cost tens of thousands of yuan, totaling more than 100,000 yuan.
In China, when many families marry their daughters, the bride price is taken back to the husband's family when the girl gets married, and some money is added. This is mainly because they are afraid that the girl will be wronged by her husband's family.
Moreover, applying for a marriage certificate in Laos is very complicated, with a lot of materials and procedures. The Chinese guy didn't understand the language and was unfamiliar with the place, so he had to spend money to entrust an agency that specializes in issuing certificates.
Laotian girls are very filial and love their families after getting married. If it were not for the epidemic, they hope to return to their parents’ homes every year. The round trip fare is also a big expense. Because most Laotian girls’ natal families have financial difficulties, they often have to send money to support their natal families.
The life of Laotian people is still very difficult.
After they came to China, they could not work and could only do housework and take care of the children at home. Of course, there are capable Laotian wives who started working in self-media. Earning some pocket money not only subsidizes their families, but also supports their parents' families.
From an economic perspective, marrying a foreign girl actually costs more. If you can find a suitable one in China, it is better to look for one at home. Of course, after all, there are more men than women now, so you really can’t find a partner. Choosing a Laotian wife is also a good choice.
It is better to find a Laotian wife by yourself. After the two got to know each other through contact, they developed feelings for each other. After getting married, the marriage will be stronger and there will be no worries about the Laotian girl running away in the future.
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