Not long ago, the Wu Xieyu case came to an end. Wu Xieyu was sentenced to death in the first instance for killing her mother and defrauding relatives and friends of more than 1.44 million yuan.
After the verdict, Wu Xieyu chose to appeal, and his lawyer said that Wu Xieyu would personally write the appeal.
Although the final judgment is still unclear, many people think that the possibility of changing the judgment is unlikely based on our country's legal system and its severity.
But in fact, in early 2021, a similar case committed by a Japanese woman, the final second instance sentence was only 10 years in prison.
Nozomi Kiryu, 31, was arrested according to law in September 2018 on suspicion of killing his 58-year-old mother Kiryu Shinobu and shattering her body.
In March 2020, Kiryu Nozomi was sentenced to 15 years in prison. This is already a very long sentence in Japan. Refer to the murderer who brutally killed Jiangge , and he was sentenced to only 20 years.
However, after Kiryu Nozomi appealed, the court changed her sentence to 10 years, and her sentence was greatly reduced.
The reason for the court's change of sentence was "there is something worthy of sympathy."
An adult who kills his mother, not only shatters the corpse but also throws the corpse. Why does the court think she has something to sympathize with and even amend the sentence?
After watching Kiryu Nozomi's growth story, it is indeed a bit tearful.
The suffocating mother-child relationship,Driving Kiryu Nozomi to death
The source of the tragedy of Kiryu Shinobu and Kiryu Nozomi's mother and daughter is the mentality of "Hope for a girl to become a phoenix".
Kiryu was indoctrinated by his mother since he was a child, and must be admitted to the National University of Medicine Department of Medicine.
She had the same dream when she was a child, but because of the very high requirements for grades in the medical department, Kiryu Nozomi was very difficult to learn, so she was reluctant to continue.
However, his mother insisted on taking the test once if he failed to pass the test. In the end, Kiryu Nozomi re-study for 9 years before he was admitted to the Department of Nursing at the Faculty of Medicine.
During these 9 years, Kiryu Nozomi has been living a life of imprisonment that suffocates her.
It’s a basic requirement to study frantically. What’s more frightening is that Kiryu Nozomi must stay with his mother all the time, even going to the bathroom to take a bath.
Nozomi Kiryu ran away from home three times, but was eventually caught by her mother by various means. Powerless to resist, she can only continue to endure the torture of her mother.
After finally entering the university, Kiryu Nozomi thought he was relieved, but in fact, there was no relief at all.
mother ordered her to pass the midwife course exam.
After failing to do so, Kiryu Nozomi was forced to write a promise to never be a nurse. Just because my mother felt that it was too shameful to be a nurse.
Even though she got an offer from the affiliated hospital of the Medical University when she graduated, her mother refused,Ask her to continue taking the midwife exam.
Kiryu Nozomi asked her mother to let her be a nurse for the last time, but after she was still rejected, she was completely desperate and thought of killing her mother.
She used an excuse to massage her mother and killed her with a kitchen knife prepared in advance while her mother was asleep. After
, she posted on the social platform: "Finally defeated the monster, so you can rest assured."
Then Kiryu was next to her mother's body and she thought about seeing her a long time ago. TV series.
After that, she divided her mother's body, burned her hands and feet, and threw the body parts to the bank of the river several hundred meters away.
Later in an interview, Kiryu Nozomi said that the fuse of her decision to kill her mother was that she had been cursed by her mother all night for failing the exam, which led to her mental breakdown.
As for life in the detention center, she thinks it is better than living with her mother.
Although the detention center has a lot of rules, at least she doesn't have to endure unwarranted abuse and all kinds of mental abuse.
The mental violence of his parents was a long delay
After Wu Xieyu was arrested, a netizen who claimed to be his classmate told a story about him.
This classmate had a good relationship with Wu Xieyu when he was a child, but when he went to play at his house, Wu Xieyu's mother asked how he was doing.
After the classmate answered not very well, he heard Wu Xieyu's mother telling Wu Xieyu, don't interact with him.
Later Wu Xieyu went to his house to play, but Wu Xieyu's mother also sued the teacher.
Later, he never interacted with Wu Xieyu again.
The story is unknown whether it is true or false, but it reflects a lot of distortions in the parent-child relationship in reality.
Many parents use the name "be good for you" and "love you too much", justifiably controlling their children and even using mental violence to abuse them.
The reason why Kiryu Shinobu asked Kiryu Nozomi abnormally is because in her cognition, only doctors are superior, and other positions are very humble.
She doesn't care what her children think or like, she insists on letting her grow up in her own way.
In fact, such parents do not love their children at all, but use their children to fulfill their dreams.
Just like what a psychology professor said:
All parents who put their needs before their children's needs do not really love their children.
If you are a child and realize that your parents are doing this, you should refuse and show your attitude in time;
If you are a parent,Realize that this is wrong, correct your words and deeds in a timely manner, and communicate more with your children.
Of course, many parents are not aware of this matter, and there is no way to correct it. So what should the child do?
At the end of the interview, Nozomi Kiryu gave the answer: Think about your parents and understand their pain and anxiety.
If necessary, if possible, ask outside for help.
Of course, the best way is for parents to learn to face their own problems and to change their educational methods to ease the tense parent-child relationship.
