Two pigeon fanciers who usually have a very good relationship got into a dispute over borrowing pigeons. They made a lot of noise in the pigeon club, blaming each other, and it even escalated to the point of making a fight. Similar things happened in the pigeon club. The world has become accustomed to this, and I believe many pigeon fanciers have experienced it personally.
Some people say that if the relationship is good, then borrow it. If the relationship is not good, then just reject it. Whether to borrow or not is completely up to you. But sometimes it is really difficult to make a choice. A borrowed pigeon is like a poured water. It is easy to borrow but difficult to get back.
What's more, the pigeons you get back are probably no longer the same as the ones you borrowed them from. You can't say that they don't cherish your pigeons. It's just that everyone has the same way of cultivating their strength, which causes the pigeons they get back to be poor in most cases. All unsatisfactory. I had good intentions to help you, but in the end I became sulky and had to ask for trouble.
Borrowing pigeons will have no good results anyway. If you don't use it well, it will just make people scold you behind your back. If you use it well and you win money, there will be more problems. In most cases, it is not made clear in advance. No matter how the relationship is divided, one party will be dissatisfied, which affects the relationship between friends. It's better not to have any contact with each other from now on. There were too many cases of lawsuits and fights. Before the accident, the elder brother was the bigger brother, but after the accident, they couldn't even be friends.
Many big guys in the pigeon world often say that "pigeons and wives are not loaned out". This statement sounds impersonal, but if you taste it carefully, you will understand the truth behind it!
The pigeon world is too deep. The relationship between pigeon fanciers is more difficult than officialdom, and there are more unspoken rules than the entertainment industry. There are no benefits to getting along, and it is also a technical job. As a pigeon breeder, it is inevitable that someone will ask you to borrow pigeons, but we must have our own principles and learn the art of saying no. Otherwise, no matter how good the relationship is, it will not stand up to scrutiny.
