On the evening of April 17, on the Lupu Bridge in Shanghai, a boy suddenly rushed out of the car door and jumped down from the viaduct. The woman chasing behind him sat down and cried bitterly because she didn't catch him.

On the evening of April 17, on Shanghai Lupu Bridge , a boy suddenly rushed out of the car door and jumped down from the viaduct. The woman chasing behind him sat down and cried because she didn't catch him. At first the reporter thought the video was fake, but it was soon confirmed to be true. The person who committed suicide was a 17-year-old boy, followed by his mother. Just a few days ago, during an interview with the city central hospital, I learned about this: I often meet children taking various medications in the pediatric emergency department, and some are admitted to the hospital more than once.

Reality: Children often "take the wrong medicine"...

"The child eats the wrong thing". Ma Junyi, head nurse of the pediatrics department of the city central hospital, has already gained experience. Most parents anxiously bring their children to the emergency room and say this, they will quickly prepare things for gastric lavage, because most children have taken medicine. Cockroach medicine, ant medicine, antihypertensive medicine, sleeping medicine, organophosphate pesticides, paraquat, and a child ran to the subway station to place the rat poison and stole rat poison. "The medical staff got together and discussed why? What happened to the children? The pressure of learning is high? Rebellious psychology?

A little girl took dozens of tablets of six or seven medicines stored at home. After the parents found out, they sent them to the pediatric department for gastric lavage and blood purification. During the hospitalization, she was eager for her classmates to come to visit her. Whenever the classmates came, she had to wash her hair and asked her to wear a hospital gown. "Our pediatric ward was afraid of increasing her fear of the hospital, so she didn't get a children's hospital gown, but she had to wear it. We couldn't borrow a set to go to the adult ward to borrow her. "She was very happy that day, and several classmates came to visit her. After that, she begged the nurse several times not to let her be discharged from the hospital. She pulled the nurse and said, "Sister, I will definitely not take medicine here, and I will definitely not cause trouble for you. Let me live here. "Why is she unwilling to be discharged from the hospital?" Maybe she likes to be cared for by medical staff and some classmates come to visit her? "This is just everyone's guess.

There is also a high school student who came to the emergency room because of excessive sleeping pills. When the nurse was washing her stomach, she saw layers of wounds on her wrist. Not long after that, she committed suicide on the Internet. Someone called the police and sent it to the hospital. At that time, the hospital invited a psychiatrist to her and her parents, but was rejected. Most of these children were middle school students, most of whom came from single-parent families. This is the maximum that medical staff can understand. Most of the children and parents who came to the hospital would not say a word. There was also a father of a child who once yelled in the corridor: "I tell you, no one is allowed to say it, if anyone says it..."

talks to the doctor: When the child is emotional...

Yesterday, the reporter interviewed Liu Hong, director of the appraisal department of the Seventh People's Hospital of the city. He said that when he realized that his child had thoughts of suicide, the most important thing is to ensure the safety of the child, accompany the child, and stabilize the child's excitement.

How do we face the child, how do children face us? The reporter talked a lot with the psychologist, but in the end he didn't know how to put it on paper. Perhaps this is the current situation we are facing. When he saw that the child who should be energetic chose to die, he fell into a confused state after feeling distressed: Why is this?

Just after the interview, the reporter accidentally saw a video of a foreign father facing his tantrums. He hugged his daughter and said, "You can lose your temper, but don't immerse yourself in it." It’s no big deal to be angry, you can vent and throw your pillow. If you want to tell me where your bottom line is, I will never cross it. If you don’t want to joke, I won’t open it. You have to tell me. "He said to his daughter gentlely: "We still love you." "This short video, which is only more than one minute, has received rave reviews on the Internet. Maybe you should ask yourself, have you ever been treated like this by your parents? Have you ever treated your children like this?

Please pay attention! Have you ever had negative thoughts?

In a person's life, many people may have thought about this problem, and even everyone has thought about it. When you encounter some setbacks or uneven emotions, you will think that this is not terrible.What should I do if I have negative thoughts in

?

Some people may just pass by a thought, while some people may start thinking about specific methods such as taking medicine, jumping into the sea, etc. What if

is serious?

, such as buying the corresponding item, or choosing a location, etc. This is a high-risk group, and all need to conduct crisis intervention in . First, protecting life is the first priority and communicate with the parties involved. If you prepare items, you need to remove dangerous items. Those who have had negative behavior need to take action and intervene immediately. Most people who have negative ideas or behaviors are manifestations of depression, and can be hospitalized for treatment.

text: Dalian Evening News reporter Chang Ting