Recently, the People's Daily published an article titled "Where is the root cause of marriage?" The article said that my country's marriage rate hits a new low in ten years. Many young people said that they do not get married because they are poor, but is this really the case? The answer is no! . Although sometimes money has a great effect, there is never a shortage of girls who are not materialistic in this world. Then why does it lead to so many singles? Let’s briefly analyze what is the reason for !
In fact, being single is not scary. What is scary is that we ourselves cannot figure out the main reason why we are single. If you don't understand the root cause of being single. You can always stand still. There is a saying that "If you don't advance, you will retreat." If this phenomenon is the case for a long time, it is easy to lose yourself. Because I have had such an experience myself, without further ado, let’s get to the topic. It is mainly divided into several points:
1 Low emotional intelligence:
Men even know that they have low emotional intelligence but don’t know how to improve their emotional intelligence. They can only let them go. There is no passive in the love field, only more passive. Whether men with low emotional intelligence talk to women or do things, men with low emotional intelligence will be reluctant to do things, and then perform abnormally. They have never or rarely performed normally and have performed normally.
2 Less experience in love:
If you are single for a long time, you will fall into a vicious cycle. Love is also applicable to those who are difficult, and will not be difficult for those who are . If you have no experience in love or have never been in love at all, in this case, there is no way to talk about whether it is experience or lessons learned, and communication with the other party will be hindered. In this case, you want to get a perfect result is equivalent to wishful thinking.
3 thin-skinned:
Everyone will often have a crush on others, from beginning to end, and will interpret the crush into a protracted war. Often, you dare not confess to the other party, and the other party does not know your intentions, so a phenomenon will arise. From a crush on this person to a crush on another person, it has been repeated over and over again. He dares not confess or confess, and misses one fate after another.
4 looks ordinary:
After all, this society is an era of looking at faces. A person has no appearance and is not enterprising and has a depression! If this continues, it will lead to self-abandonment. It is originally very ordinary, and some of your poor behaviors. The other person will feel disliked the more he looks. He either dislikes his appearance or hates your behavior. Although people cannot behave like a person, if the other person does not understand you, some behaviors in your life will be a plus.
5: No money to support
Even if you work hard or start a business, you have not accumulated a certain amount of wealth. In the end, you will still live a life of being alone and not hungry for the whole family. Although you can barely support the other party, you have children, forget it! This causes you to be discouraged from the other person because the other person is unattainable to you.
6 lack of routines:
People interact with people and often copy them, and often use low-level and backward methods to pursue each other. The result can be imagined that your beloved woman (man) will be taken first by others. After all, opportunities are often left to prepared people. People who lack routines have no competitiveness in the love field. The final result is that you will be ruthlessly eliminated by love, so everyone should learn more routines and strive to learn the thirty-six strategies of love. When you apply what you have learned, it will be the day you get rid of singleness.
7 Life circle is too small:
The circle of life is relatively small and lacks the opposite sex. Some people rarely have the opportunity to come into contact with a large number of opposite sex due to work or working hours. This is also a major factor in being single.
8 is more home-friendly:
stay at home all day and don’t want to go out and complain that you are single. There is no need for this. Please open your door and your heart and walk out bravely.
9 Lack of self-confidence:
Lack of self-confidence will lead to many people who are only willing to contact the same-sex and are unwilling to contact the opposite sex, which will lead to the opposite sex around them that cannot make deep friendships.
10 suffered a broken love:
Some people failed to get out of the psychological shadow after ending a relationship. This makes me unable to start a new relationship.
11 Age factor:
Some people feel old after the age of 30, and they often encounter setbacks in their long-term life and career. In fact, all this is psychological. Age is not a problem at all. It's the 21st century. . . . . .
12 Strong career aspirations:
is busy with work and is busy meeting some material needs, resulting in singleness. In fact, money is endless. You can make money while falling in love.
Are you hit? Welcome to follow @Suifeng 520Suixin, or send a private message. Let’s discuss emotional issues together. Next issue I will share with you some tips for quickly getting out of singleness. Comments and forwarding are welcome. . . . .
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