No one in this world can succeed casually, and there are even many times, even if we make efforts, we may not get the desired results.
But if you give up easily when facing a failure, then there will be no possibility of success in this long journey of life.
This road in life cannot be smooth sailing, and if we want to achieve something, we must know how to survive those sufferings and make our own efforts.
The gap between people is nothing more than the different choices in the face of suffering.
can eventually become powerful people. They have made unremitting efforts. They all have a strong heart. They all have an unbearable will that ordinary people cannot bear. Step by step, get up after falling, work hard after getting up, and move towards a brilliant life.
The suffering left to us by fate is a gift. But if we want to get this gift, we need to keep going.
Lin Qingxuan once said:
"There is nothing wrong with the dark night in life. The darker the night, the more beautiful the moon and stars are."
Suffering is the norm in life. No matter what background we have and what age we are at, we will encounter all kinds of sufferings.
When you encounter suffering, don’t just blame others, but know how to calm your mind and don’t be petty in everything.
You must understand that anyone and thing you meet in life has the necessity of existence,
Everything happens in life and everyone who appears in life has special meaning and can help me learn something.
Life has always been through storms. If you can endure the hardships, you will naturally see the rainbow.
There are three hardships in life. If you survive, the rest of your life will be easier.
01: The bitterness of loneliness
There is a saying in "Hundred Years of Solitude":
"All the brilliance that has ever been in life needs to be repaid with loneliness."
The long journey of life, if someone is willing to accompany him to experience the ups and downs, it is certainly a rare luck, but even if someone is really willing to accompany him to experience the ups and downs, at most he can only accompany him for a long time, and he can only survive the rest of the years by himself.
Not everyone can become friends, not all friends can accompany you to the end. In the end, the hardships of life can only be sustained by yourself, and in the end, the difficulties of life can only be faced by yourself.
Those lonely years are a test. As long as you can survive, you can pass the test.
The lonely years may not be with you, or no one understands it, but so what? There is no real empathy in this world. Others do not understand your suffering, so they naturally cannot understand the decisions you make.
In fact, the road is long. If you want to achieve your career, you must survive that lonely period.
Find yourself in loneliness, think about the future in loneliness, and chase your own life in loneliness.
02: The bitterness of parting
Zhang Xiaoxian once said:
"Farewell and reunion are dramas that keep playing in life. Once you get used to it, you will no longer be sad."
When we were young, we also thought that being with us was a lifelong thing, but later, standing at the crossroads of life, we finally walked towards our respective life paths.
Farewell has always been the norm in life. Those long-lasting vows made once may have been true at that time, but the subsequent farewell was indeed true.
In the world of love, we always experience all kinds of pains of love but not getting, and we always experience all kinds of powerless sufferings, allowing one fate after another to slip away from the gaps of our fingers, and let one sincerity after another fall in the lie.
can do what if it is unacceptable.
In any relationship, as long as one party chooses to give up, the other party has no right to refuse, and that relationship means the end.
Only by choosing to let go and only by letting go can you slowly endure it and wait until the future will be bright.
03: The pain of failure
Napoleon once said:
"People who will not find lessons from failure, their road to success is far away."
Everything in life has only two options, either success or failure. If you are not successful, you can only accept failure. If you cannot accept failure, you can only continue to fall.
No matter what kind of storm and storm road of life, you will inevitably have the possibility of falling. If you choose to lie flat after falling, life will only be like that.
Failure is not terrible. What is terrible is that you do not have the courage to face failure. After all, if a person cannot cheer up, no one can help him.
Water to a desperate situation is a waterfall, and people to a desperate situation should be rebirth. If you survive, the rest of your life will be better.
has not survived the pain of failure. Such success has little meaning. Only those sufferings that can truly train one's will are a treasure in life. If you keep going
, you can win.
There are three sufferings in life: the suffering of loneliness, the suffering of parting, and the suffering of failure.
survive and the rest of the days will be easier.
I am Aya, the writer of warm emotions. How lucky I can meet you in this life! Click to follow and let’s learn together!
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