" Star Han Qiang " finale, everyone's relationship is complete, except for the poisonous tongue Yuan Shanjian.
Cheng Shaoshang has three relationships. It’s a pity that Yuan Shanjian is the man who first met her and was moved by her.
That year, she calculated the puzzle he temporarily added, and probably he had an idea about her at that time.
Look carefully, he actually did a lot for her:
Congratulations to Cheng's house for his joy of moving in. In the crowd, his eyes were always looking for her;
At the birthday banquet of Princess Yuchang, she beat Wang Wen out of her internal injuries to escape punishment, and she did not hesitate to hurt her eyes. , He kindly gave her purple jade paste;
The fifth princess pushed her into the water. In order to return her justice, he and Ling Buyi sang and convicted Yuan Jingshi and the father of the participants;
Shao Shang's father was framed, the Cheng family was imprisoned, Shao Shang forged a clearance token and went to prison. I wanted to see the Cheng family almost be discovered, and he helped her confuse her.
In addition to taking advantage of official positions in the officialdom, he also loved her so crazy.
learned that she wanted to share life and death with her relatives, and he asked for an imperial edict to escort the Cheng family, just to reassure Shaoshang. After her marriage with Ling Buyi was terminated, she was willing to regret her marriage and was beaten by the Cai family in order to win Shaoshang's heart.
During the five years when Huo Buyi was exiled, Cheng Shaoshang became a broken joke. He never left her, stayed with her wholeheartedly, took care of her body and emotions, and calmed down all rumors for her.
With his efforts, she finally came back to life and agreed to get engaged to him. Although he knew that this was just her expedient measure and an unintentional use of him, he didn't care as long as he could be with her.
He is Yuan Shanxing. The son-in-law whom the girl in Mandu wants to marry is so proud and conceited. For love, she is willing to change.
The five years of Huo Buyi's exile were his happiest five years. If Huo Buyi was not, Yuan Shanjian, who seemed to have become gentle, would be good for Cheng Shaoshang. Unfortunately, he had met the best person, no matter how good the others were, he could only give in.
"A single slow, the whole plate is full of ropes."
He and Cheng Shaoshang are destined to be unsatisfied.
He has many problems. Say the same thing.
He initially pursued her, arrogant and paranoid, and seemed to be attentive but could only push her further.
His biggest problem is his "soft-heartedness" that goes against love.
He gave her ointment even though he was concerned about her, but he said that her injuries were shady;
He clearly wanted to see her when she wanted to see her, but he said that the wife of the Yuan family must be dignified and virtuous, and could not be like her and she could not be like her.
Because he was half a beat slow, others took the lead. To break up the marriage, either tell Lou Yao that Cheng Shaoshang is deeply plotting and full of calculating, reminding him not to be deceived by her superficial gentleness, or brainwashing Cheng Shaoshang, asking her to consider the marriage carefully.
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I want to ask, what is the benefit of such efforts not thankful for pursuing girls?
Who would like someone who is so jealous of himself all day long?
But the reason he did this was because he didn't know how to please the girl. Before meeting Cheng Shaoshang, he even rejected the marriage.
The deeper reason is that he grew up in a family with his parents' lovelessness. He could only ask for future marriages based on his family background, so he put the woman's "lecture, dignified, dignified and virtuous" on his lips.
It was only after he met Shaoshang that he wanted to get married. But over the years, family status, family background and ruthlessness of both parents have had a great impact on him, which has always made his relationship with Shaoshang half a beat slower than others because he never knew what it was like to like a girl, and he had to take time to confirm his relationship with Shaoshang.
Hesitated again and again and eventually became a passerby.
But if you think about it carefully, this kind of missing is inevitable, just because they are essentially the same type of people.
The two grew up in a loving family. Shaoshang lacks the love of his parents, and Yuan Shanjian cannot feel his parents' love. From another perspective, Yuan Shanjian is another Cheng Shaoshang, who is also insecure, unable to trust others, has a deep mind, and is lonely inside. People like
need more proactive and enthusiastic love from others.
It is impossible for him to take the initiative to show his love to her. People cannot give others what they don’t have, and they have never felt the strong and firm love from others.
The most important thing is that he is too pampered and has never experienced the difficulty of not having the care of his parents and lacking food and clothing. He cannot understand why she behaves erraticly, so he always regards her agility as a kind of dishonestness.
His initial request for his partner was to have a "literate and reasonable" female lady, so he always talked about the glory of "ranking among the three public" and did not understand the preciousness of Shaoshang at all. So he always wanted to change her, but he didn't know that she, like him, wanted warm and full and free love.
In the early stage, because he wanted to change her too much (he was pampered and famous, and was spoiled by his parents and the world), and his inappropriate performance, it can be said that every time he got along with Shaoshang, his every word and deed was to comfort Shaoshang's rebellion.
Needless to say, those sarcasm are simply a fatal blow to a girl like Shao Shang who longs to be loved.
's look is always arrogant and verbal, which also makes Shaoshang, who adheres to the concept of " equality between men and women ".
plus he always compares her with other gentle and virtuous girls. She hates this the most. After all, since she was a child, she was annoyed by her family to compare with others.
His love was used in the wrong place, and it really came too late.
Even marrying a woman she doesn't love threatens her, wanting her to taste the loss and pain...it's very funny. In this regard, he is really not as good as Huo Buyi, and even worse than Lou Yao.
Fu Yao is innocent and enthusiastic. I like it, just like it. If I like it, follow her, praise her, look at her every day, and do things that make her happy.
Huo Buyi is even more amazing. He has ten thousand hearts, always expresses passionately, and is heart-wrenching. He protects her, trusts her, understands her, and gives her freedom when others bully her.
beside Huo Buyi, she was able to take back her disguise and become her innocent self.
Love always flows to those who understand love better.
On the other hand, Yuan Shanjian said that his parents and master were both addicted to the past and were "hidden by love" and lived in depression and pain. He had never seen flowing love, so he couldn't learn how to love someone.
So he had to test and explore alone. Even if he met love, he only knew how to avoid it and could not see his own feelings clearly. He could not say the word "love". It is also caused by
, and he is always one step slower than others in terms of feelings. When Cheng Shaoshang had never had anyone in his mind, he did not dare to take a step first. When Cheng Shaoshang had someone in his heart, his efforts were destined to be unrewarded.
Yuan Shanjian If he had not met Cheng Shaoshang, it would be great to marry a famous lady like the Cai family, because the bride he carefully selected was definitely not so tempted in his safety circle, but he could live his life without any trouble.
What a pity. After meeting a better person, he can no longer settle for it.
There is a passage in the original work of Yuan Shanjian's highlight confession to Cheng Shaoshang. He said:
"I want to marry you, just because I like you. Over the years, I have seen you grow up, learn to be safe and considerate, and learn to be free from water. I suddenly miss you when you hit someone in the Yin family if you have a disagreement. I also think that you will never grow up, and you will always be full of thorns. Shaoshang, I like to stay with you, listen to you secretly speaking bad things, see your happy self-satisfaction, the long sun and moon, and the years are long, and you and I will eventually grow old together and be buried together."
However, none of these dramas were broadcast, without five years of companionship, not being beaten to retire from the bride, not having worked hard to take care of Shao Shang's life, and not even having such a affectionate confession.
has only, he knew that she had always had no doubts in her heart. Even if he got her, he couldn't get her heart, so he took the initiative to ask Wendi to break off the engagement and make the two of them.
like this Well, he was always half a beat slower than others, but he still understood: it is better not to love late than to love.
In the end, his ending was very sad. He never married in his life. He was so old that he didn't know anyone but still thought about Cheng Shaoshang (it is said that Yuan Shanjian was written by the author compared to her first love)...
Life is long, love is short, there is always a girl who passes by the world and changes your life from then on.
