Lei Jiayin has been scolded by Korean netizens recently.
The cause is that Tang Wei movie starring in Korea was shortlisted for Cannes Film Festival .
And the interviews about her and Lei Jiayin in the past two years have become a hot search in Korea.
At that time, the two collaborated to film "Whistleblower " and accepted an interview.
It was this interview that was sprayed into a sieve by Koreans.
At that time, the host asked, what do you can’t stand the other party when cooperating?
Lei Jiayin said that while performing an exciting scene, Tang Wei Lao went to the bathroom.
When Tang Wei heard this, he couldn't help laughing, maybe he felt embarrassed, maybe he was embarrassed.
Lei Jiayin added another sentence at this time:
"I took 10 photos and (Tang Wei) had to go to the toilet three times. As soon as I felt like I was, she told the director that I had to go to the toilet."
Tang Wei became serious and said to Lei Jiayin sincerely: I'm really sorry. As an actor, I really can't stand being out of the show.
But just after she finished speaking, her eyes were filled with tears.
She tried her best to control herself from crying, but there was no way.
I am afraid that Lei Jiayin will be embarrassed, so she smoothed out for him: I'm very happy that you said it.
But Lei Jiayin couldn't hold back any longer. When Tang Wei wiped her tears, she still smiled and joked: You are so good, you are quite decent today.
The host asked him to comfort Tang Wei, and he also said: What are you comforting? I'm back after crying.
After watching the live broadcast, many Chinese viewers also expressed dissatisfaction with Lei Jiayin's "straight man" behavior.
Some people say that he does not respect women and deserves to be scolded.
Lei Jiayin, who has a very popular reputation, has a "turned off" this time.
In fact, many people feel sorry for Tang Wei.
Before filming the movie, Tang Wei gave birth to a child.
comment section, many people empathize with Tang Wei.
Some people say that after giving birth, sneezing, coughing, or even laughing, leaking urine . I want to go to the toilet after leaving the toilet.
Some people say that after getting pregnant, even when going out to play, they will find a place close to the toilet.
Some people say that after giving birth, my cousin frequently leaked urine and went to the toilet, and felt ashamed to speak.
These are all the harms caused by fertility.
Tang Wei can't hold back her urine. There are reasons for giving birth to a child and taking medicine. Too many women know the pain and embarrassment in it, and they will inevitably fall into their own.
Leakage urine is not a joke, but a sadness that women cannot bear.
Taiwanese female star He Yuwen married into a wealthy family, but the 8-year marriage still came to an end.
When she was on the show, she clearly stated that after giving birth to two daughters, her uterus sagged, pressing bladder .
This caused her to go to the toilet three times a night.
However, what is more unbearable than physiological pain is that my husband doesn't understand her at all.
Every time she gets up in the middle of the night, her husband will turn over with dissatisfaction, which puts her in great pressure.
After that, she slept with her husband in separate rooms for two years.
And her situation is just a microcosm of many women.
Whether it is a celebrity or an ordinary person, giving birth makes women face the same dilemma.
How many women have experienced the pain of getting up frequently;
How many women have faced the trouble of postpartum body distorted, stretch marks, and hair loss of ;
How many women have suffered from torture in a series of postpartum sequelae.
They rarely say it, it does not mean that pain does not exist.
"Doctor, can you smell the odor on my body?"
Blogger @ Mr. Liuliu said that he once met a patient. As soon as he entered the clinic, he asked: Doctor, can you smell the odor on my body?
She is a middle school teacher. When she was standing and giving lectures, she didn't find out that she missed her urine until her colleague pointed it out.
Maybe many women can understand the embarrassment and social death.
Postpartum urinary incontinence is the first hurdle that many women need to experience.
A foreign group of data shows that the probability of postpartum urinary incontinence in women is about 1/3.
Someone said, wouldn’t it be enough to drink less water?
If you have a little understanding, you won’t say such things.
During pregnancy, the increasingly larger uterine will compress the pelvic floor for a long time, causing muscle relaxation. When
, if you encounter difficult labor and need to use the midwifery instrument, it will cause damage to pelvic floor muscle .
These are the causes of postpartum urinary incontinence.
Sneeze, laugh, or jump up may have an impact.
And these pains are all pains that women can only experience after giving birth.
TV series " Female Psychologist ", there is a plot:
A child pointed at a second child mother in public and said:
"Look, she wet her pants. She is so old and she still wet her pants."
At that moment, the eyes and teasing of people around her made her collapse and cry.
actress Xie Yilin After giving birth, he posted on Weibo saying:
"I peed with a smile", it turned out to be a verb.
Ella also said that she had faced the embarrassment of postpartum urinary incontinence.
These female celebrities have money to hire month nanny and have the ability to do conditioning. That's it, let alone ordinary women.
fertility has never been an easy task.
pregnancy for ten months, one day of delivery does not mean the end.
Women's battlefield has just begun.
"After giving birth, I dare not wear swimsuits again"
I have a female friend who paid great attention to taking care of her body after giving birth. It looks like it has not changed much from before.
During a chat, she sighed that she never dared to wear a swimsuit again because she could tell at a glance if she had given birth to a child.
stretch marks have become labels for women who have given birth, and they cannot be tear them off.
I watched a simulation video before, using plastic bags to simulate the belly of a pregnant mother.
When the plastic bag is constantly being aired, the plastic bag slowly becomes swelling, and then tear-opening lines appear. The pattern of
is the same as the stretch marks on the belly of the mother.
Even if you no longer continue to put pressure on, the lines will be difficult to eliminate. This video of
made my stomach hurt.
When the belly grows bigger day by day like a blowjob, it is hard to imagine what women are experiencing.
is supported to the limit, with a lot of traces. Even if you "unload the goods", these traces may be accompanied by a long time.
This is enough to make every woman who loves beauty feel frustrated.
Even if you comfort yourself, it is a "donor" for childbirth, how many women dare to wear beautiful swimsuits in the swimming pool and the beach calmly?
"That's so ugly, how dare you wear a swimsuit?"
"I really have courage."
These light comments, with ridicule and peeping, have made countless women fall into body anxiety. The impact of fertility is far more than this.
"Give birth makes people older 11 years old"
American scientists have done a study to collect thousands of women aged 20 to 44 years old DNA data.
The results found that having children will speed up women's aging, which may be up to 11 years.
In addition to the impact of hormone levels, there is another major reason, which is the hardship of raising children.
During the breastfeeding period, you have to keep getting up at night and lack sleep. Debt is a huge amount of energy for women. If they have poor rest, they will easily become fatigued and accelerate aging.
At this time, you will find that female friends who used to have exquisite makeup now often face the sky with plain faces, so they wear clothes as comfortable as they can. The biggest change in
The reason why they are particularly prone to forget things and their concentration is not as good as before.
A saying circulates in society: One pregnancy is stupid for three years.
Many people talk about it as a joke. In fact, isn’t this also an ignorance of women’s dilemma?
Who doesn’t want to be a smart girl who is brave and courageous? Who doesn’t want to become the refined self of the past?
But they chose the mission given by nature and used themselves to nurture new life.
This is great and deserves the understanding and care.
In addition, postpartum obesity, hair loss, Postpartum depression , etc. are all problems that women have to face. Before
, a set of comparison pictures before and after production on the Internet made many women feel deeply the same.
Before, she had a slim figure, went shopping, ate, and had fun, and became round after giving birth, and was tired of being with her children all day long. Before
, he was a long-legged back killer, and after giving birth, he was an ordinary mother. Before
, she was a casual woman traveling everywhere, and after giving birth, she was a mother with a look of no eyes and a tired face.
Physical discomfort and huge psychological gaps. These changes are the most real experiences of women.
I am a father and a husband.
To be honest, before that, all my understanding of fertility was just that I knew that the delivery process would be particularly painful. How painful does
and how long does it hurt? I don't know what I'll face after the pain.
till my child was born.
I realized that it turns out that mothers have to experience the huge pain of breastfeeding in order to successfully breastfeed.
It turns out that after giving birth, those women who are thin all over and only have a "fat" stomach do not eat too much, but are separated from rectus abdominal muscles.
It turns out that waking up in the middle of the night to feed the child and change the diapers is such a great consumption for people's energy.
Later, I began to learn to change my child's diapers and coax him to sleep. While eating, hold the child and let the wife eat first.
I can't replace the pain in her body. But at least, I have the ability to do such things.
Getting married and having children is indeed what most women will experience.
As a husband, I cannot take the pain of my wife for granted.
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shouldn’t be lost when raising a life.
In fact, what is more difficult to accept than physiological difficulties and pains is not understood.
"Why are other women doing well, you have too much trouble?" Such words are a disaster for women.
They have experienced pain that no one knows, and faced with long-term postpartum sequelae, and are criticized for being "pretentious".
Many women gradually remain silent in such suppression.
According to relevant surveys, in Beijing, only 7.4% of women have sought professional help due to postpartum urinary incontinence.
Many women have endured the harm caused by the sequelae of delivery for life.
A previous news, Ms. Wang felt a piece of "meat" on her body fell down while dancing in the square dance.
Only when I arrived at the hospital did I find out that this piece of "meat" turned out to be the uterus.
She was diagnosed with " uterine prolapse and stress urinary incontinence". There is more than one woman like
.
Some middle-aged and elderly women even need to shift the uterus that has fallen aside when going to the toilet.
Because of being ashamed to speak out or the society does not understand, many women endure this pain for the rest of their lives.
If they don’t say it, who knows the sadness in it?
It is not to promote the inability to marry or childbirth.
Whether to be born or not, women have the freedom to decide their own body.
But I hope everyone can understand what difficulties a woman will face after giving birth.
Those moments accompanied by embarrassment and pain should not become a shame for women, and do not endure it.
You have experienced a lot of pain and tears in a moment when no one knows, and are brave enough.
For the sake of my husband and children, I have become a strong fighter. I must love myself well for the rest of my life.
also hopes that their partners and more people know that becoming a mother is not easy.
They did not deliberately do the inconveniences in work and life.
Please give more kindness and understanding.
Before they became mothers, they were innocent girls. After becoming mothers, they also need to be understood and taken care of.
