The word "sex" has always been ashamed to talk about, but in 2022, it has become the mainstream of the topic.
First, in April this year, many media revealed that a physical education teacher in Huzhou, Zhejiang sexually assaulted several middle school students .
It was September 11, and The male star surnamed Li was arrested for soliciting prostitution . For a moment, domestic entertainment was in full swing.
Then, Actress Zhu Rui also posted a complaint that when he first debuted, he was molested by a male actor on the set and claimed to be responsible for his remarks.
coincidentally, Zhang Han A movie " Gentlemen of the East Eighth District " happened to be online in these few days.
Large-scale lines in the play , the ubiquitous Savage hand , and the lens of objectified women, aroused public outrage from the whole people...
Not long ago, an art exam teacher, the defendant sexually assaulted several girls, and became a hot search.
We are shy about talking about "sex", but we are also most afraid of "sex".
Because when it appears in the public eye, news is often negative.
Pige recently came across a Taiwanese drama, which is also about sex.
Compared with most similar dramas, is explicit, large in scale, but heavy, and profound in .
Countless girls comments: It photographs women in society, the fear that they can truly feel.
The drama is called "She and Her Hers". Pi Ge finished 9 episodes in one go (the whole drama) and was deeply moved by the core of its perverted story.
01, the first episode of workplace, the second episode of time travel, the third episode of suspense... After watching the full 9 episodes, I was so proud of
played by Xu Weining, Lin Chenxi, , is a senior manager of a large headhunting company.
Even if it is included in the entire Chinese drama circle, she is the top match among the 30+ women.
career is booming, but has not become a company executive. annual salary is one million , has its own independent office, and is also quite famous in the entire human resources circle.
TV station often asks her for interviews, and she was also selected as the top ten professional young women in the year of "Financial Magazine".
Because she is too capable, she is unique and has a relatively distant relationship with her colleagues.
In the eyes of colleagues, she is the existence that everyone envies.
Because the person who found someone with an annual salary of more than 1.8 million yuan was only 25% of the commission , and she had resources with an annual salary of more than 6 million yuan, and she had to get a commission of 40%.
A brief calculation, a successful order is 2.4 million, which is not considered the basic salary.
The success of the career has brought about the success of the family. Lin Chenxi bought a house in the most expensive community in the city center in full, worth tens of millions, which is envious.
In addition, Lin Chenxi has a perfect boyfriend Li Haoming who has discussed marriage.
Boyfriend looks like Eng Yuyan , is also an elite white-collar worker, earns a lot of money, is considerate, can clean up the upper part, make a table of good dishes, and buys a big diamond ring for proposals.The heroine like
How do you look at it like a winner in life, right?
Although audiences who are used to watching domestic dramas are very familiar with Lin Chenxi's elite character, no one can predict the development of the story of afterwards.
Behind her seemingly highlighted life, it is actually full of the bitterness of life.
Lin Chenxi suffered trauma when she was a child and had psychological problems. She would be confused about the things she imagined and would not be able to sleep all night at night.
Her nerve-sensitiveness often exposes her anger to her boyfriend, which causes her boyfriend to have no sense of security and eventually breaks down her relationship.
Although Lin Chenxi has strong capabilities, in the company, he has never gained the true trust of the big boss.
The boss let his cousin Du Junru airborne the company, became her immediate boss , and verbally harass him and physically molested him.
In an important case, Du Junru acted in a mess and made a mess. Lin Chenxi successfully got it done.
But even so, it did not change the boss's wishes.
Du Junru not only lied to her to social engagements that she never participated in , but also threatened to expose her job-changing late at night and asked her to go to the company.
While Lin Chenxi was not paying attention, Du Junru knocked her out with a club, tied up in big colors to prepare to infringe on .
At the critical moment, Lin Chenxi grabbed the pen on the table, stabbed Du Junru and ran away.
Unexpectedly, she was in a trance and encountered a car accident on the road. After the first episode of
Pige confirmed that this was a workplace drama, but at the beginning of the second episode, I admitted that I was confused.
Lin Chenxi woke up and found herself lying on the small bed in her hometown.
I am no longer a white-collar elite in big cities, but The teacher in the town .
The dead father and brother are resurrected, and their boyfriend and Du Junru do not exist. They have always had a bad relationship with her mother. At this time, they treat her very well.
Did she travel through time?
Lin Chenxi thought she was dreaming, but all of this was very real.
Her best friend, her photos, everything from her past, really appeared in her life.
Lin Chenxi is very happy that she can get rid of her previous life and start over. The only thing she feels owed is her boyfriend Li Haoming.
God may have heard her call because She met a policeman who looked exactly the same as her boyfriend, named Xiao Liu .
It’s a pity that Xiao Liu is no longer Li Haoming. He has no white-collar temperament. He is a policeman who lives a sloppy life, tries to quit smoking, and swears from time to time.
The appearance of Xiao Liu once again pulled the audience into the big pit of this drama type, because at the beginning of the third episode, a murder case of occupied the main space.
Lin Chenxi's physical and chemistry teacher Teacher Xie Zhizhong was strangled to death in the nursing home, and Xiao Liu was in charge of investigating the case.
The most suspected is Lin Chenxi's senior sister Yan Shenghua ( Alyssa Chia decoration) .
Yan Shenghua is a nursing home in this nursing home. Xie ZhizhongAfter the teacher died, she disappeared for no reason.
and Lin Chenxi and Yan Shenghua have a good relationship, so Xiao Liu asked her to find out the situation.
The first episode of workplace drama, the second episode of time travel drama, and to the third episode, it became a suspense drama...
It turns out that the original drama can still be filmed like this?
Don't worry, on the surface, "She and Her" has rich elements and uncertain types, But in fact, the kernel and theme interspersed in the story have never changed.
That is the profound presentation of the perpetrator, victim and surrounding people when facing sexual assault and sexual harassment.
02. From three different angles, we talked about everything about "sexual assault"
We are very far away from sex, but we are very close to sex .
It is not only a topic that adults cannot avoid, but also the reason why women are most likely to suffer sexual harassment, assault, and even crimes .
"She and Her" deeply reveals all the moments in society that can make women collapse in a combination of multiple elements.
In order to deconstruct these problems more sharply, the episodes use three different angles to enter.
The first angle is the heroine Lin Chenxi.
As a career woman, Lin Chenxi is very successful and inspiring, but she lives in this patriarchal society. No matter how hard she works, she can't get out of it. The cage of gender infringement .
The main creator uses Lin Chenxi as the first person, taking each of us through her The painful moments experienced since childhood .
White-collar Lin Chenxi is the employee who makes the most money in the company, second only to the boss.
But even so, I still can't do anything. I just got involved with my boss and I'm bullied by the hypocrite who came to power.
This person is Du Junru.
Du Junru is simply a model for infringing on women in the workplace. At the beginning, he just verbally insulted Lin Chenxi and harassed him.
Later, because of his poor ability, needed Lin Chenxi to wipe his butt . He was very jealous. While Lin Chenxi was not prepared, forced to kiss her face and .
After kissing, you still have to wipe your mouth. In front of your colleague, you will have a wave of "slut humiliation" , and splash dirty water on Lin Chenxi.
Finally, when he learned that Lin Chenxi was going to change jobs, he simply did it all the time, and became a rapist .
. Lin Chenxi, who endured all this, had no choice but to to avoid, cry, and escape .
After being hit by a car on the road, The reason why Lin Chenxi "traveled" back to her hometown was because of , The painful experience she had when she was a child, was aroused again.
0 years ago, Lin Chenxi, who was in high school, was a good "Other people's children" .
Not only do you take the first place in the exam every time, you also have to go to the teacher's house to study your homework.
But she didn't know that Her teacher Xie Zhizhong is a habitual offender .
Usually, he would use to "treat Lin Chenxi as his biological daughter" for the reason, touch her waist and kiss her face .
Until it rained, Xie Zhizhong became very beastly , forcibly suppressing the underage Lin Chenxi, and sexually assaulting the little girl on her bed.
Lin Chenxi was very scared. Her parents saw through her thoughts, but when she mustered up the courage to tell her parents all this, The first reaction of her father was that she lies.
Then asked her: Why don’t you resist? Why don't you push him away?
Why should victims of sexual assault suffer such questions?
Since her parents are unreliable, Lin Chenxi can only seek comfort from her best friend. After getting the promise of "never tell anyone" from her two best friend, She told the matter.
Unexpectedly, her best friend Yang Jiaying was jealous of Lin Chenxi and had both talent and beauty, and she broke the matter out .
"Lin Chenxi seduces Teacher Xie" The topic spread throughout the campus in an instant.
Lin Chenxi not only suffered three injuries, but also had serious problems in his entire mental and psychological state.
This is where the subsequent "time travel" drama is created.
The second angle is the people around Lin Chenxi, especially women.
Ironically, in the face of female sexual assault, not all women can think about the problem from the perspective of the victim .
Some of them remain silent, some do not care about themselves, some are willing to fall into depravity, and some even become accomplices.
Lin Chenxi's father and mother are the first to be affected.
As a mother, she faces such a big deal of her daughter being sexually assaulted.
What Lin’s mother considered at the first time was not the harm her daughter was hurt, but with Lin’s father, is afraid of rumors, shame, and public order and good customs .
The weakness of Lin's mother and Lin's father directly led to Xie Zhizhong and his wife "The perpetrator is reasonable" , and with more confidence, he denied the fact of the infringement and continued to to slut and humiliate Lin Chenxi .
Secondly, it is Lin Chenxi's friends and best friends.
Among the two best friends, Yang Jiaying was jealous of Lin Chenxi and , and did not hesitate to inform her to hurt her.
When she grew up, Yang Jiaying's family was in a good place, but in the eyes of her parents, her marriage became a tool in their business .
Yang Jiaying, who lacks gender awareness, eventually fell into the cycle of "evil will be retribution" .
In The sex of her bed , she was photographed by her boyfriend, , and spread throughout the Internet and even to her parents.
The young jade girl of a wealthy family instantly turned into a "lustful girl".
At this moment, Yang Jiaying finally understood how deep the damage she brought to Lin Chenxi was.
And best friend Chen Zhiling, , chose to watch when she was a child. In fact, she couldn't do anything except comfort Lin Chenxi.
When she grew up, Chen Zhiling worked in Datong Company. She saw her own depraved colleagues. worked as a white-collar worker in the office during the day, and at night, she changed into a sexy outfit and went to the bar to be a cocktail girl to earn extra money.
Chen Zhiling resigned in anger, can't figure it out, why do some women do this?
Compared with two best friends, Yan Shenghua , which is not very familiar with Lin Chenxi, has the completely opposite performance.
She was also sexually assaulted by Xie Zhizhong and fell into deep psychological problems.
This directly led to her not going to high school and going to nursing school and becoming a nursing worker after graduation.
Later She participated in the murder of Xie Zhizhong , which also shows that such infringement left a permanent scar in Yan Shenghua's heart and could never be erased.
Finally, it is Xie Zhizhong's wife and Lin Chenxi's teacher's wife.
If Lin’s mother just does nothing, then this so-called teacher’s wife is completely Xie Zhizhong’s accomplice .
It is no exaggeration to say that it is precisely because of her indulgence that Xie Zhizhong is so unscrupulous.
The afternoon when Xie Zhizhong sexually assaulted Lin Chenxi, the teacher's wife was the first to discover it.
She pushed open the half-closed door, witnessed the whole process .
But in order to maintain the identity of "teacher's wife" and the completeness of the family , , she chose to remain silent, quietly close the door, and turned on the volume of the radio.
She knew that Yan Shenghua was also a victim, but she did not consider the problem from the perspective of a woman at all, and blindly criticized the two underage girls for "seducing" her husband.
can be seen for the sake of that false social reputation and face , the teacher's wife has gone astray. Women from three perspectives,
, almost summarize the attitude of the entire female group in this society towards "sexual assault".
Lin Chenxi's first perspective is the most intuitive and the most heart-wrenching.
And the perspective of best friend, mother and teacher's wife is the reaction of people around you after they are attacked by familiar women.
Not all women stand on the united front, which causes women to alienate in the process of fighting for their own rights.
And in the patriarchal and patriarchal society, those ethical dogmas and facial reputation are still what most girls consider when they are infringed.
do not speak out, the matter has happened and the harm has been formed.
And every time you comfort, the victim's harm will be reduced by one point. Every time you make a voice, one less potential victim will be reduced.
This is Lin Chenxi's story, telling us the real truth.
03. Men are also victims. To eliminate sexual harassment and sexual assault, these three points are the key
Generally, we talk about "sexual harassment" or "sexual assault" . Often, the thinking pattern is fixed, and the victim is defaulted to female.
In fact, men are also victims.
"She and Her" did not avoid the issue of male victimization , Instead, such a secretary was arranged in the unit of Lin Chenxi's best friend Chen Zhiling.
He has no family background and has been working for a short time. Although everyone knows that every time he goes to Fang Se office, he will be "eat tofu" by . , but everyone is still silent and only watches him make a joke about "soft rice man" in private.
When Chen Zhiling arrived at Tong, she saw him walking into Fang Mi's office again. Then an indescribable sound came from in the room.
In order to save him from water and fire, Chen Zhiling rushed in in the name of beating cockroaches and found that he was indeed being eaten by Fang Secretly.
Whenever I ask about this, my male colleague seems helpless.
He has no connections and no resources, and is unwilling to be the underlying for the rest of his life, and he also needs this job very much. Once does not agree to the requirements of Fang Secret, it is easy to be worn.
So, every time he endured it silently, even if this kind of alternative sexual harassment has become a public secret of the entire company.
Sexual assault, regardless of gender, age or poverty.
All victims have only one common name, that is, "victim". The appearance of this male victim,
, has also raised the level of the show.
interprets the moral and legal dilemmas of society about "sex" from a more inclusive perspective.
In the face of sexual assault that is everywhere and may occur everywhere. What should we do?
First of all, we must educate the next generation of children well.
We should cultivate their Gender awareness , carry out healthy sexual guidance and sex education, teach little girls how to protect themselves and teach little boys how to respect women.
teach them at the same time, should speak bravely in the face of infringement, and in the face of victims, comfort empathize with and do not wear tinted glasses.
Secondly, you must dare to lose face and dare to expose it.
"Face" has never been more important than being hurt.
In recent years, with the awakening of female consciousness, more and more girls have begun to speak out and expose scum and defend their rights.
also has Many celebrities and bigwigs, because of this kind of revelation, they ended up having a free lunch.
Even if the bad guys end up is difficult to be brought to justice , letting other girls (boys) know them clearly is also a kind of protection for potential victims.
Finally, everyone must establish a legal awareness about sexual assault and promote the moral and legal progress of the whole society.
If everyone is a silent or even a perpetrator, then one day, bad things will happen to you.
From a social perspective, sexual assault can only be avoided as much as possible through the efforts of the whole people. Only when everyone's gender awareness and legal awareness can be improved , the possibility of sexual assault will be minimized.
In addition to being daughters, wives and mothers, they are all women.
The equality and safety of women is the equality and safety of all people.
Currently, "She and Her Her" has also been ranked first in the online hot list due to its high reputation.
I hope that more and more dramas can expose such reality with such quality, so that such a girl in the drama who cannot get out of the shadow of "sexual assault" will completely disappear.
also hopes that viewers who have watched these dramas can understand the injuries of sexual assault and become fighters who are incompatible with "sexual assault".
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