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If someone wants to choose between becoming a Gu stone or a diamond, then who doesn’t want to become a diamond? But without pressure, there will be no diamonds. To become a shiny diamond, you not only need to think about it, but also need to bear the pressure first, especially the pressure from your parents.
2. In one year, Zeng Yani, who was only 22 years old, won the Australian Golf Celebrity Championship. She not only became the world's number one female golfer, but also had five Grand Slam championships, breaking the record of former world football king Tiger Woods when she was 24 years old. These two "diamonds" are products of pressure.
Zeng Yani's family is from a good place. Her parents like to play golf. She was influenced by her. She showed her spontaneous interest in golf at the age of five. So her parents customized a small ball for her and taught her how to play. He participated in his first golf game in his life at the age of six, which is impressive. But the key is that Zeng's father, who is successful in business, decided to "manage his daughter as a business."
When he was eight years old, his father hired a coach for her. He went to the driving range to practice for two hours every day, and then went to the stadium to play nine and eighteen holes on weekends. Since the age of twelve, he went abroad to participate in this competition and training every summer vacation. Later, he asked coaches to train separately in terms of physical fitness, swing and psychology. Mr. Zeng is not ruthless in his daughter's investment, but he is never ruthless in his requests. When Zeng Yani is not good at playing or has a loose attitude, he will force her to ask and even scold her, putting pressure on her. In this regard, Zeng’s father has his own logic: “To put pressure on her, pressure is a way to raise her heart.”
Perhaps it is because of a lot of pressure. Zeng Yani, who was in the rebellious period, began to talk back to her father.
When he was thirteen, he was even more addicted to the stadium and refused to play golf again. Fortunately, the coach came forward and gave her kind words and enlightened her with emotion, which made her feel changed. In fact, Mr. Zeng is very considerate to his daughter in daily life. For example, he can cook himself, make the garlic seedlings that his daughter likes to eat, and also has to make lovely dishes with less oil to help her daughter lose weight. With this kind of soft and hard work, Zeng Yani was finally able to face the pressure with a smile and treat it as a kind of enjoyment. In terms of golf experience, Tiger Woods became aware of it earlier than Zeng Yani. He was taken to the practice court by his father, who was also a golf enthusiast, to practice. He quickly showed his talent in this area. He won the world championship in the 9- to 10-year-old youth group at the age of eight and was known as a genius child.
As a mixed-race black man, Woods' father is not well-off, and his son is mainly trained by him. The so-called "the court is like a battlefield". In addition to football skills, Woods' father, who has retired from the Vietnam War, specially trained his son with his own experience to maintain his ability to remain calm in danger and remain calm in the face of changes in a tense atmosphere.
He also has strict requirements for his son. He often throws poles during training and scolds him. Later, he jokes himself, "I made my son so angry that I want to kill me." But just when his son is about to explode, he will immediately become soft. Of course, all of this is deep love and harshness. Until one day, when his son smiled like him and stopped boycotting, Woods' father breathed a sigh of relief and said, "Son, the training is over. I can guarantee that no one will be stronger than your will."
Therefore, "Taishan collapses before his color remains unchanged, and the elk is rising on the left without a momentary eye" has become Tiger's distinguished ability on the court, and it is the key to his victory. Zeng Yani and Tiger first showed their spontaneous interest in golf before their father guided him according to his aptitude. But why put so much pressure on your children? Zeng’s father said, “You have to be better than others, of course you have to work harder than others.” But what if you suffer but your dream fails? Woods' father said: "My goal is to train Tiger to become an outstanding person."
In fact, after such training, even if you don't play golf, you can perform extraordinaryly in other fields.
If you want to be a diamond, then the pressure on your parents will not only not complain, but also thank you.
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