The kindness flows eastward like water, and the gratitude is moved by the worry of losing favor.
True love will never be just sweet. It brings more trouble to people, love and hate each other, and makes people love and hate.
The law not only applies to ordinary people, but even big names like Russian President Putin are hard to escape.
In 2013, Putin and his wife Lyudmira announced their divorce after watching the last ballet performance together in Kremlin . The two of them have been supporting each other. This sudden divorce caught everyone off guard.
But it's interesting. The two did not break up after divorce, and they would occasionally go to the park together. Lyudmira was more like Putin's soul mate at this time.
In 2022, Russia-Ukraine relations were tense, and Putin once again showed the world what it means to be president with a life-threatening attitude.
How could Lyudmira be willing to divorce him for such a mighty and domineering man? You should know that there is such a song in Russia: "Marry a Man Like Putin" . Lyudmira is undoubtedly the object of envy among girls in Russia.
But in Lyudmira's eyes, her husband is not perfect, and it can even be said to be "flawed". In Putin's biography "The Road to Power", Lyudmira showed everyone a unique Putin from the perspective of his wife.
In fact, before meeting Putin, Lyudmira had a good career, that is, a flight attendant. Although her income was not very high, she was quite comfortable.
, and Putin had fulfilled his childhood wish at that time and became a state agent. Although was eating state meals, in the Soviet Union at that time, this profession was still quite limited.
As an agent, Putin must maintain a low-key and keen observation to avoid contact with strangers, but meeting Lyudmira is considered an example.
In the spring of 1980, 22-year-old Lyudmira received an invitation from a friend. Alkaki, a very popular musical actor in the Soviet Union, held a performance in St. Petersburg , , which was a well-known male star in the Soviet Union at that time. Many young couples bought tickets to watch it.
Of course, Lyudmira's friend did not invite her alone, but , but also brought a man who looked short, with blond hair that was neither long nor short, with deep eyes and melancholy.
This person is Putin, 26 years old. Of course, Putin claimed to the public that his work would never be an agent, but a "police."
Putin's first impression on Lyudmira was that he was calm, so calm that he felt fearful.
But on that day, Putin, who has always been low-key and introverted, made an amazing move. he actually took the initiative to write down his contact information and stuffed it into Lyudmira's hands. You should know that a qualified agent never leaves his own traces.
Lyudmira's cheerfulness completely conquered Putin, which can be regarded as falling in love at first sight.
In fact, Lyudmila was quite beautiful when she was young. Her eyes were big and bright, her face was a little baby fat but she didn't look bloated at all. So she also has many suitors, and the job of stewardess has many people. Lyudmila has no worries about no one falling in love.
But after she met Putin, she deeply felt that this man was definitely different, and she began to take the initiative to contact Putin.
Since then, the two have been in contact. Putin often goes out for field operations, and Lyudmira does not often live in the same place. As a flight attendant, she needs to fly from all over the country.
Actually, this looks a bit like a long-distance relationship, but Putin completely turned his life into a honeymoon. Wherever Putin is, Lyudmira will adjust the flight and go to where Putin is. The two will continue to date, and their relationship will not be affected at all, and they will even be more intimate.After
Putin suggested that Lyudmira improve her education, go to Leningrad University to study, and change her job after graduation. Lyudmira also did it. It is not difficult to see that in this relationship, Putin is still the one who takes the initiative.
Everyone says that there is no fairness in love, and there is always someone who wants to give more. This is true. Lyudmira is the one who gives more. may be driven by the kindness in his character and the domineering manly spirit. He can be said to be obedient to Putin.
After arriving at Leningrad University, the two of them spent more time together, but Lyudmira was unhappy.
As the saying goes, distance produces beauty. Now that distance has, "beauty" is gone, Lyudmira discovered that Putin was almost a late madman and had never arrived at the date on time. If Lyudmira hadn't been soft-hearted, she would have broken up with Putin long ago.
Countless times Lyudmira waited for Putin in the station and bridge hole in the cold wind for several hours. Sometimes Lyudmira waited for three hours but Putin released the pigeon.
But in fact Putin's "late" is also a habit developed by being an agent. He is a person who follows the plan and needs to prepare a lot of details every time he dates.
, and at that time he was still a KGB agent, and he often received temporary small tasks, so being late became common.
And Putin is often late, this "fine tradition" has been maintained until now. Until now, Putin still asks him to wait for half a day when he meets leaders of some countries, including Trump and Queen of England Elizabeth .
But Putin has many advantages, such as his tenacity, self-discipline and masculinity. Fortunately, these advantages can cleverly overcome his frequent lateness.
So it's strange that the problem of "late" is an impolite behavior for many people, but it happens to Putin but makes people think that this is his personality label.
Lyudmira once said: "Although he is often late, it always makes me feel very reliable."
is good, During the days of falling in love, Lyudmira never broke up with him, but what is unexpected is that the person who often talks about breaking up is Putin.
Of course, this is not Putin's fickleness or empathy, is his "jealous jar" that is not ordinary.
Almost every time Lyudmira takes Putin to a banquet and dance, Putin will go home with airbags. The reason is that he can't stand Lyudmira chatting and laughing with other men.
You should know that women are socializing outside or socializing, they will inevitably come into contact with other opposite sexes. This is inevitable. Many men will also relax their partner.
But Putin is indeed different. As long as Lyudmira communicates with other men for more than a few minutes, his "jealous jar" was overturned. He broke up directly after the dance party and went home by himself.
No one would have thought that when Emperor Putin was young, he was so jealous, but this was just an angry word. Putin could not bear Lyudmira's heart. In less than three days, he got Lyudmira's family admitted the mistake and asked for forgiveness.
But Putin is also very interesting. He is jealous and has been retained until middle age. Once, Lyudmira communicated with , Bush, Jr., in the conference hall for a while, Putin immediately pulled the two of them away and raised his hand to end the talks.
Although Putin likes to be "jealous", he is also an absolute "wife-protecting maniac". Lyudmira has gradually become accustomed to this point over time, because she will only be "jealous" when she loves someone deeply.
After three years of love, Putin decided that the time was right before he began to enter the palace of marriage. His proposal was also extremely hardcore, which was more like a negotiation.
When he proposed, Putin revealed his true identity, and then Lyudmira realized that his police boyfriend was actually a senior national agent.
During the relationship, Putin never revealed his identity to Lyudmila. This is also out of professional confidentiality, and it is also a test for Lyudmila. He has been observing whether Lyudmila is a simple and sensible girl.
In 1983, Putin said to Lyudmira on the day of his proposal: "You already know who I am. I am obscene, have a bad temper, and have a dangerous job. If I hadn't met you, I might be lonely for the rest of my life."
"If you have no objection, I am formally proposing to you now, please marry me!"
Lyudmira loves Putin too much. In fact, she doesn't care about Putin's identity at all. Even if he is an international fugitive, Lyudmira will follow him to the ends of the world.
Lyudmira agreed to Putin's proposal on the spot and became Putin's wife.
Back then, the two held their wedding on the ferry on the Neva River. Because of Putin's identity as a special agent, did not invite too many guests at the wedding, nor was it that lively, but Lyudmira did not take these things to heart.
After getting married, Lyudmira also did what a good wife and mother should do. Because of the superior dispatch, Putin needed to go to East Germany to perform special tasks, and Lyudmira was willing to abandon everything and move with him to a small house in East Germany.
And Lyudmira also found a job in East Germany. While compensating for German , she shared the pressure from her family for Putin. Two years after marriage, Lyudmira gave birth to two lovely daughters for Putin during this special period.
But just like when he was in love, Lyudmira once said that Putin had a lot of minor problems after marriage. Putin is very picky about food. Sometimes he will not move his mouth when he makes some good ingredients, but he eats the bread and jam on the table in big mouthfuls.
And Putin's "boredom" is also part of Lyudmira's complaints. Putin speaks less in life than at work, and is very harsh. He will not praise people easily, but he teaches people one by one.
Not only that, As an agent Putin often "makes a small meal" to train Lyudmila to teach her how to deal with unexpected situations. Lyudmila also "mixed" with Putin and became half an agent.
But how could Lyudmira bear this? As a woman, how could Lyudmira bear this? It made Lyudmira complain, but in return only Putin's "two-word mantra": "Hold on."
But despite this, Lyudmira has always been the strong backing behind Putin, because she knew Putin was such a knife-mouthed person.
But in Lyudmira's eyes, their beautiful married life "died" in 1990.
In 1990, the international situation changed, Germany returned to unification, The Soviet Union no longer needed to install agents in East Germany, and Putin's family was taken back to St. Petersburg.
But Putin, who returned to China, was not idle either and began to slowly transform. transformed from a soldier to a politician, and assisted his former teacher and took the position of deputy mayor of St. Petersburg.
, and Lyudmira became a German teacher at Leningrad University. There was a civil servant and a teacher at home. This was enviable to others, but Lyudmira couldn't laugh.
She only discovered since Putin was in politics that Her husband is a workaholic. Although he is the deputy mayor, he does the most work, and sometimes he rarely goes home when he is busy.
Lyudmira revealed that Putin was working when she was resting, Putin was working on her birthday, and even on the day she had surgery, Putin was still working.
Not long after Putin got the position of deputy mayor that year, Lyudmira was in a car accident and almost died. But Putin did not come, but just asked his subordinates to keep inquiring about Lyudmira's injuries.
After knowing that Lyudmila was out of danger, Putin still did not show up, but asked his deputy to bring some food to visit.
This is not Putin's cold-blooded and ruthlessness, Because the mayor of St. Petersburg is his mentor, and this job opportunity is also given by his mentor, and he must be foolproof at work.
In addition to her usual "indifference", Putin also put forward a new requirement for Lyudmila, that is, to be a qualified "official wife". Lyudmila must re-learn social etiquette, which is a big problem for her who yearn for freedom.
Afterwards, Putin's mentor stepped down, Putin's work was also lost, and it was a blessing to lose his fortune. Lyudmira thought life would return to the right track, but she didn't expect that she was happy too early.
In 1998, Putin was appreciated by Yeltsin and became Russia's alternative president, and the following year he became Russia's official president.
At that time, many people called Lyudmira to congratulate her. After all, there is only one first lady in a country, which means that she has endured hardships and suffered for so many years.
But Lyudmira knew that she was going to be the first lady but the reaction was abnormal. She cried: "I can't live a normal life again."
Many people say "will be so exaggerated"? It won't be "Versailles"? How can a woman not want to be the first lady?
But what Lyudmira said is true, and this is what Lyudmira dares to say this, let us know the real life of the First Lady.
First of all, Lyudmira is not allowed to contact friends abroad. In addition, she has to always have bodyguards around her. She usually wants to go shopping and apply in advance, which means that she no longer has her own life.
More importantly, . Almost all her private time with Putin was cancelled. Lyudmira and Putin's every move would be seen, but she had no choice.
Although the family moved from a 50-square-meter cottage to a luxurious "Presidential Suite", Lyudmira was still quite pleased, but when she thought about using freedom, she felt uncomfortable.
You should know that Lyudmira is not a person who loves money and power. If he likes money and power, he would not have started a family with the poor Putin when he was young.
and the big tree attracts wind. As Putin took the lead in 's second Chechnya War, Russia regained its strength, Putin's life safety also became a problem. As the first lady, Lyudmira was also easily "inadvertently injured".
Lyudmira has always hoped that such days will pass quickly, She has always hoped that Putin will not be re-elected. If she retires like this, the family will return to the happy and happy time.
But who would have thought that Putin's presidential position would be so steadily, one after another, and Putin's reputation became increasingly greater and no one could shake his position.
"He no longer belongs to me, he belongs to the entire country, the entire Russia."
Lyudmira was relieved and regretful when she said this. When she learned the news that Putin had succeeded for his third re-election in 2012, she cried into tears.
Finally in 2013, Lyudmira chose a decent way to withdraw from Putin's life, and the two announced their divorce very casually.
It is said that the divorce between two people was also Putin's idea. Since Putin became president, he began to govern the country with an iron fist. He has experienced at least 30 assassinations, and each time is very dangerous, so he is unwilling to let his wife continue such a worried life.
But Putin had no choice. He had to drive Russia's development and give up this small family that once made him feel extremely happy.
Although the divorce was announced so calmly, the thirty years of marriage life is definitely a unique beautiful memory for Putin and Lyudmira. Lyudmira has still said: "I often dream of living with him in East Germany, so comfortable."
Lyudmira even talked about Putin's "little problem" of being late and jealous after divorce, but every time she talked about this, the corners of her mouth would rise slightly. Even if she divorced, she still did not hesitate to praise Putin. often called Putin the "most reliable man" .
This may be the magic of love. Even though he knows the other person’s shortcomings, he is still willing to spend his youth with him.
