Ma Weiwei said that love is that there are crocodiles in the deep pool, and some people have warned me, but I have to go there; there are vicious dogs in the yard, so I insist on rushing in. Because my princess is on the tower and my prince is at the bottom of the water.
Recently, a friend encountered something bad to tell me.
Her sister is pregnant and not married yet. Before this incident, both parents had met and knew that the two were in love.
Now that such a thing has happened, you can quickly discuss the marriage.
result: The boy's attitude was unstable after knowing that the girl was pregnant. What's even more annoying is that he ran away when he was about to face the girl's parents, and once left the girl alone to blame her parents.
The girl's parents were shaking because of the boy's attitude and were irresponsible. In anger, the woman had an abortion, which caused the two families to suffer a great harm.
The girl was heartbroken when she was betrayed by her boyfriend and scolded her. She ran away from home under the words "not self-respect" from her relatives and did not contact her family for several months.
Now my family is looking for her like crazy, and everyone is worried about her. The relative also knew that she was wrong, but it was not intentional. She was just angry that she did not protect herself well, and she was angry that she was confused about people.
now doesn't know how to end.
Xiaoyi also felt secretly worried about this girl when he heard this, but he wanted to share his feelings with the girl more.
Parents are your strongest backing
"Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans." As parents, they usually consider a lot for their children.
When you are born, you will consider how to raise you and how to grow up healthily; when you are in school, you will consider how to help you pass puberty smoothly and how to help you study hard; when you graduate, you will consider whether your money can support yourself, and whether you are wandering outside and lonely.
A few days ago, I accidentally saw "The Leftover is King", which happened to be a monologue of Jin Shijie as the partner of his father and Ruxi.
In the eyes of people outside, Dr. Bai is the most suitable marriage partner for his daughter.
But he knew his daughter didn't like him.
He doesn't want his daughter to get married because of her age and other people's rumors.
even doesn't want his daughter to get married because of her mother's illness.
The person you know best is father.
My daughter is a strong person. She is used to being alone outside. As long as she can solve the problem in front of her, she will definitely do things that harm oneself and not benefit oneself.
He said: "My daughter should be married to the person she likes. She had a regretless marriage. She held a man's hand with her head held high and came to him." Seeing this, it instantly hit the softest part of my heart, and tears shone.
The rest is king
I couldn't help but think of my father. Since childhood, he has always been as long as I want to do things, and he will never stop or interfere.
I remember that I was very impressed. When I first came to Beijing, my life was very difficult and the salary paid by the unit was very low.
Once when I went home during the holiday, I actually had 100 yuan in my pocket, but I didn’t want my family to worry. During the meal, I kept saying how well I ate at work and how free I was. My father didn't say anything. When I left home the next day, my father took out an envelope from his pocket, "Child, take it, eat well outside, and come back if you can't get through." Tears came down at that time. The one who knows you best is your parents, and your strong backing is also your parents. So don’t believe that you can marry far away for love and fly away. You will have a hard time without the support of your parents.
The people in the world who know you best are your parents. The one who will not harm you the most in the world is your parents. So when you have conflicts with your parents, you must communicate well. Maybe they won’t understand what you are going to do at that time, maybe they will be angry with you, maybe they feel that you don’t meet their expectations of you.
But he will understand you and help you. If you have difficulties, he will spare no effort to help you, and they will definitely support you 100%.
If a man loves you, he should take on all the responsibilities and admit his mistakes with your parents and will not leave you alone.
If a man loves you, he should spend a lot of effort. Please marry him, rather than just saying sweet words to you.
If a man loves you, he should protect you well, not just to solve his physiological needs.
There is only one reason for the final compromise of parents: the silly girl, I am afraid that you will be wronged.
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Love yourself and love others
Wu Zhihong said, Only by loving yourself well can you love others. If you don’t love yourself, how can you have the ability to love others?
On Xiao S39th birthday, she drank alone and recorded videos until she cried and broke.
When asked about her wishes, her daughter said depressedly: I don’t want to get married at all.
The small s in memory When she was doing " Kangxi is Coming ", her funny complaints were accurate and sharp.
every time I read it, I feel very daring to say it. I savored the seemingly nonsensical answers and felt that it makes sense. Whether watching "Kangxi is Coming" or "Ours are Real Friends", I think Xiao S is really ugly. Compared with the S, I feel that it is too different from sisters. But Xiao S, who became confident, was shining with radiance.
She can be the mother of the three sisters, hardworking and strong;
She can be the host who boldly controls the audience in "Kangxi is Coming";
She can be the weird and funny person in "We Are Real Friends";
She can be like a ever-changing elf, kind, cute, funny and humorous, bringing more joy to everyone invisibly. However, after meeting his husband, Xu Yajun, , such a confident light gradually adds to his fatigue.
"Domestic violence, scandals, nightclubs" began to spread since marriage. Until the scandal of using joint flavors and emulsifiers to pretend to be high-end products for detoxification of natural yeast, Xiao S was silently curbing the aftermath and bowing to the public as soon as possible. When she met him, she was humble and timid.
She is afraid. She was afraid that she would be abandoned and divorced like her mother. She was afraid that her daughter would grow up in a single-parent family like she did. So all her aftermath was tolerate. The male protagonist she defended never explained half of it.
You see a woman who loves the wrong person. A marriage that is not favored not only consumes a woman's youth but also has a yearning for love being sucked.
Silly girl, love yourself well. If you don’t love yourself, how can you have the ability to love others?
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charging in time, be the best self
Some people may ask, girls who study so much and read so many books, in the end they still have to go back to an ordinary city, work an ordinary job, marry a wife, do laundry and cook, and take care of their husbands and children, why bother?
Yang Lan said, I think our persistence is for, even if we eventually fall into cumbersomeness and wash into the grass, the same job, but the same mood; the same family, but different moods; the same descendants, but different qualities.
This society will not treat you preferentially just because you are a woman, nor will it increase your salary because you are a woman. You will still like a man in the workplace, working overtime for three meals and working more comfortably for your own life.
Read more books, read more newspapers, and "recharge" your body more, so as to improve our own horizons, broaden our thinking, and become our wealth.
Silly girl, I wish you to be a woman with fragrance and soul.
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Evenly matched, love can be kept fresh
All love is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. Only you know whether you are happy or not. As long as it continues one day, there will be something happy inside it.
The pace of life is too fast now, so it is fire-proof, theft-proof, mistress-proof.
When you are old, your husband is still handsome and elegant.
When you are experiencing ten months of pregnancy, your husband is fluttering in the red flag.
This world is too harsh on women. Women will face the aging of age, the pain of childbirth, and the competition in the workplace. . . .
can keep love fresh. At least you won’t have to endure your husband’s sanctions just because you don’t have a job, and you won’t have to endure your husband’s ridicule because you need to buy what you like.
Money is not omnipotent, but it is absolutely impossible to have no money. There are too many temptations outside, money can best test human nature, and human nature cannot withstand the test.
Not everyone can meet a Jiang Defu, not every woman is An Jie. In the end, they all became Fan Shengmei, who was plagued by a mess.
Be a confident girl, and you can avoid panic when an accident comes. Like Tang Jing, you will regret missing me.
Girl, you can fall in love freely, but please love yourself more for the rest of your life.
