I am a twin mother who is married late and has a late childbirth. I was very lucky to have two little angels descended on my first child. I came to Toutiao to share with you the pregnancy process. I hope that expectant mothers with the same experience will not be overly worried and avoid getting angry!
Since I became pregnant, I have downloaded Xiaohongshu to find some experiences about twin mothers, and added some twin mother groups for this.
Seeing others' sharing, many premature babies have many miracles, and I am even more worried, and I am always glassy every day!
I felt it was okay in the first five months. I went outside every day, walked by the river, stroll around the bamboo forest, garden, etc.! Seeing other people’s unfortunate experiences, I feel really lucky. Every prenatal check-up went smoothly, and I didn’t feel much uncomfortable every day!
By the sixth month, I never went out for a walk because I live on the fifth floor and I occasionally go down the stairs. I feel so tired after walking about 100 meters. Moreover, I am very difficult to walk slowly, mainly because of my thoughts and falling. In addition, I used to be very thin and it was difficult to adapt to the physical changes brought by twins. My hips became very wide, and even I didn’t want to look in the mirror. Fortunately, it was summer, so I bought a fat skirt to cover everything!
Because the hips are too large, the pubic bone hurts severely every day and the belly is getting bigger and bigger. When I go out occasionally, someone asks me, you are about to give birth, and I say it's not seven months. . . . Alas
7 months later, I can’t walk, so I can only drag my stomach to move little by little. I usually lie half-lying on the sofa most of the time because I can’t lie flat. As long as I lie flat, I can’t turn over and breathe alone, and I can’t get up! I have been through the last two months.
When I go to bed at night, I will first choose the right side because the ribs on the left will be squeezed and painful. After a long time on the right side, I will slowly drag my stomach up bit by bit, and then slowly turn my body with my stomach, turning it into the left side bit by bit. I always have to hold my stomach with my hands. If I am not careful, I will contract. Usually, I contract less than ten times a day! I never slept well during pregnancy. Alas, it’s really hard to be a mother!
I also often have constipation, which is the most troublesome thing because I dare not use force and cannot get out without force. The most serious time was that I had been in a whole night and it was not discharged the next morning. A daddy made me exhausted and embarrassed!
Although the entire pregnancy period is very tiring, I think it's a day to go through, and it's a day to endure more. Every week I feel very lucky. I saw that the mothers in the group were encouraging each other. Some were born prematurely in 29 weeks. Fortunately, in the Beijing hospital, the children were saved, and some were born until full term . The babies were very healthy. The mother and baby were in the same room. I was thinking that I would be lucky if I stayed until 35 weeks, so I went directly to the hospital to arrange the operation!
After a prenatal check-up of more than 34 weeks, the doctor directly detained me, which caught me off guard and said that there was a growth restriction and he quickly arranged for hospitalization. He was shocked. Fortunately, I had already prepared the things and put them in my suitcase! After the
examination, I arranged the hospitalization procedures directly. My husband went home and took all his luggage and called the house. My mother told me not to be nervous. I have never been sick since I was a child, nor have I received an injection. Don’t be afraid of surgery! I didn't expect that she would say this first, because her mother loved her the most.
Let’s talk about the operation next time. In short, it’s very tiring to be pregnant with twins, but you don’t need to be too nervous. The babies will also be very strong waiting to meet with their mothers.
