Japan TBS TV has a variety show,
is called "Zhongjukuん大めて!",
What troubles do people have in their lives?
can confide in the host Zhongju Masahiro ,
Finally, Zhongju Masahiro and the guest
will give some of their own opinions and reference suggestions.
In this episode aired on February 11, 2019, a 23-year-old female idol Kemi Naomi came to ask for help.
Kemi Naomi's problem is that she is already 23 years old, but she still takes a bath with her father and brother at home. This family habit, which I developed since childhood, is still the same.
Although Kitami herself didn't mind taking a bath with her family, her friends were very surprised after they learned about it and looked at her strangely since then.
So Kitami Naomi hesitated, should we stop bathing with our family, or should we continue?
If the mixed bath suddenly stops, will my father feel hurt?
Although some Japanese families have the habit of having a father and daughter bathing in a mixed bath, they are generally only limited to when the daughter is still young. After the child becomes sensible, due to some reasons that everyone understands, few people will continue to bathe in a mixed bathing in a relatively small way.
So for this question - "A girl in her 20s should take a bath with a member of the opposite sex family?"
For this, the female guests in the show all expressed their rejection and would never accept it.
In order to find out, after obtaining consent, the program team came to Kitami Naomi's house for on-site shooting and interview. Kitami Naomi was born in , Kanagawa Prefecture. She is the youngest at home and has 3 older brothers on it. Her father Kitami Tomoyuki is 51 years old this year.
Currently, 23-year-old Kitami Naomi lives with her 26-year-old third brother in Tokyo.
Kemi Naomi returns to her hometown every month, and the program team also took pictures of her bathing with her family.
Although taking a bath with my father and brother will be discredited, in Naomi Kitami himself, this has its own reasons: "First of all, everyone needs to take a bath for about an hour. If one takes one turn, it will take too much time.
So sometimes even after my father goes in first, I will go in halfway, or if I go in first, my father may come in later."
Secondly, Naomi Kitami believes that taking a bath with her family is an opportunity to easily communicate your thoughts. When taking a bath with my third brother, the two of them would sometimes watch anime videos on their phones together,
or if their brother has any worries or encounters a love problem, they would also discuss with her. In the third brother's opinion, Kitanami Naomi is a "buddy-like existence", and there is nothing to be embarrassed about.
After the brother finished taking a bath, the father came in and took a bath. Usually, at this time, Kitami Naomi would talk to her father about topics such as work and family travel plans.
So at Kitaji Home, the bathroom is not just a place to cleanse your body, but also an important space for "true and honest" to talk about your worries. In the eyes of Beijian's parents, there is nothing strange about the mixed bathing incident. "It's like everyone is hiding together in the furnace. Sometimes even if they have a quarrel, they will still take a bath together."
After watching the situation of Beijian's family through the video, Zhongju Masahiro said: "At first, I thought this was exaggerated, but after watching the video, (the family relationship is so harmonious that they can take a bath together), I was actually a little envious."
After all, this family doesn't talk much in the living room, but instead talks in the bathroom. It can be seen that the bathroom is a common communication space for Beijian's family.
" There are 100 families, and there are 100 habits. There is no need to compare one of the habits with other families. "
" so I think there are 100 correct solutions, so there is nothing wrong with (continue to mix and bath)."
The last suggestion given by the program is: In the future, we should continue to take a bath together as usual.
However, after the program was broadcast, compared with the host and guests' more "tolerance and open" attitude, netizens set off a wave of criticism: "Although the communication methods between families in different families are different, isn't it better to change the place where family members gather into a dining table or living room?
Basically, men and women have different bodies and hearts, and this also has great problems in social coordination, general education and sex education. "
" Although the situation in each family is different, if I were a mother, I would stop (this kind of mixed bath). ... "
" There are always family habits that are contrary to the general social concepts.
23 A year old adult woman, taking a bath with her father and brother, feels so strange.
If it is a large bathhouse or an open-air bathhouse like in a hotel,
Everyone is wearing swimsuits or something, it is understandable. "
" Although there are different families, this kind of thing should not be publicly promoted.
Previously attended a parent-teacher meeting held at the school. Someone said in a proud tone that he was taking a bath with his 15-year-old daughter. Since then, everyone's eyes have changed when they look at that person.
I personally think it is better to stop (mixed bath). "
" Although each family has its own habits, this still doesn't work. Because this is not normal.
It is really unfortunate to grow up in a family environment where mixed baths are taken for granted.
At a certain period of time, you should refuse to bathe together, so that you are serious parents. "
" The person involved thinks it is OK, so it is not a big problem, but for me, it is rejected.
My daughter has reached a certain age and should still stop it. "
" For me, this is a very disgusting thing, but it happens to someone else's house, so it's just casual.
If your boyfriend is bathing with his mother, girlfriend and father, it will definitely not work.
Maybe in that family, mixed bathing is a very common thing, but in the eyes of the world, it is actually not ordinary... "
" If such a thing happened in the United States, my parents and brother might be arrested.
Even if the person involved thinks this is OK, he should not publicly promote it. "
" If it is for saving time, just take a bath with your mother.
Even if the father invites him to take a bath together, a daughter of this age should refuse on the grounds of being embarrassed. "
shouldn't consider whether your father will be sad, but what will happen to you, right?
is rumored. If you hate it, just stop bathing.
can communicate through other ways, but if your father disagrees, it will be disgusting. "
" This is really abnormal and cannot be joked about. Just talk casually.
The mother who did not stop the mixed bath was so strange, and the father and brother who did not refuse were also so strange.
This is not the story of a warm family that everyone imagined, but it is really abnormal.
To put it seriously, this is equivalent to a crime. "
Although the host and guests of the program team of "Zhongjuku ん めて!" mostly think that since the relationship is so good, you can continue to have a mixed bath. But I don’t know what I think after reading the one-sided criticism from netizens…
