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Big S is on the hot search again. Big S and her husband Gu Junye took a photo together on the VOGUE inner page interview and said this:
"I have had enough of everything about getting married. We are both so old, and we don't need those. Oppa and I are both people who like tattoos very much. When he kneels down to propose, I told him not to buy diamond rings and ask him to stab my wedding rings in his hand. Then he bought a tattoo machine The instrument is practiced with its own flesh every day. Therefore, the rings on our hands are all thorned by him."
Big S also said: "I was afraid that everyone would not accept it at the beginning, and that everyone would think I was crazy. But life is not as long as you imagined. I feel those processes very deeply..."
I have to say that Big S is really brave, dares to love and hate, and lives freely and freely. Among the many actresses in the entertainment industry, Big S is also a maverick existence. Whether she leaves a man decisively or chooses to be with a man bravely, she always follows her original heart and is not influenced by external voices. Happiness is your own, just pursue it bravely.
Da S's two marriages are both flash marriages. The last marriage with Wang Xiaofei was just a 20-day marriage. This time, 107 days after divorce from Wang Xiaofei, she announced that she had married her ex-boyfriend Gu Junye 20 years ago. What is even more surprising is that due to the epidemic, they had never seen each other before they got the marriage certificate. The marriage between
and Ju Junye did not hold a wedding, nor did they have a diamond ring in the actual sense, just like Big S: "We are both so old and don't need those." Indeed, compared to some forms of nothingness, true love is what she pursues.
To be honest, it is rare to see brave women like Big S. In reality, many women escaped from a broken marriage. After experiencing the pain of marriage, they no longer yearn for marriage and no longer have fantasies about love. Even though Big S had just experienced a failed marriage and was injured in love, she still chose to believe in love and bravely embrace love and enter marriage.
Big S lives in a transparent and elegant manner. She can say goodbye to the past cleanly and neatly, and move towards a new life boldly and confidently, without complaining or being discouraged, live a glittering life, and live the way a woman should be.
The fundamental reason why many people feel that life is so tiring is that they care too much about the worldly perspective and are confined by the world, and they will never be able to truly be themselves. The biggest characteristic of those who live freely and happily is that they dare to follow their original intentions and live their lives according to their own ideas.
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This reminds me of Liu Mintao who walked out of the haze of marriage and lived out bravely. It can be said that Liu Mintao's life has two turning points, one is marriage and the other is divorce.
Before getting married at the age of 30, her life was relatively smooth, and her acting career was at its peak. Since she started filming, she has played the leading female role. The classic role she played is impressive. Nie Xiaoqian in "Love in Human and Ghosts", Chen Jiazhen in "Richness"...
Entering marriage at the age of thirty is a turning point in her life. Her husband is a real estate tycoon, and the two gave birth to a daughter shortly after they got married. For this reason, Liu Mintao gave up his acting career that he had always loved and became a housewife.
However, seven years of wholehearted efforts did not keep the husband's heart. The husband gradually became disliked to go home. The most excessive thing was that he had not come home to see himself and his daughter for two years. In his heart, he always looked down on Liu Mintao, who is a full-time housewife.
After discovering that her husband cheated, Liu Mintao was deeply hit. She finally saw the marriage clearly and realized how unworthy her efforts over the years were.
bravely and decisively ended his seven-year marriage and ended his seven-year career as a full-time housewife. In the future life, she must live for herself.
She said this: "Since the life of following the rules and following the trends has not brought me the expected happiness, but has made me live humble and pale in the great years that should have been full of spirit. Then it is better to be myself, rely on myself, let myself go, achieve myself, and take risks and live as I wish! Try my limits, where is it."
From then on, "independence" and "self" have become Liu Mintao's life labels. At the age of 37, she started the second journey of her life. In this journey, she bravely lived out herself!
, Liu Mintao, who returned to her acting career, has created one classic role after another with her years of acting skills: Mingjing in "The Pretender", Jingfei in "Langya Bang", Guan Mu in "Ode to Joy"... Participated in "The Birth of an Actor", "The Voice Comes into the Scene"...
She broke free from the shackles that bound her heart, lived the life she wanted soberly and seriously, and thus gained different beauty and happiness.
Sanmao said: A human life does not depend on its length, but on whether it is a happy life.
Indeed, life will not be in vain if you can live happily for a lifetime. Life is not that long. Instead of being deeply in trouble and unable to extricate yourself, it is better to be brave enough to be yourself.
Just like Xi Murong said in "Traces of Growth": "A person should live for himself and should like himself. Don't care too much about how others think of me, or what others think of me."
