Original title: After the father passed away, facing the paralyzed mother, the daughter made a bold decision...
Yang Yuxia is a student of the Medical School of Three Gorges University. After her father passed away, she took her paralyzed mother to Yichang and rented it in a private house near the school.
For more than a year, this thin girl has not been crushed by the misfortune of life, but has lived a stronger life.
Father died of illness. A girl took her mother to study.
When the weather was good, Yang Yuxia would push her mother out in a wheelchair to bask in the sun.
After dinner, Yang Yuxia would help her mother massage her legs.
1997, Yang Yuxia was born in Enshi Tujia and Miao Autonomous Prefecture, Hubei Province. Her mother Huang Jugui was paralyzed halfway and was bedridden for nearly 40 years. The family's life was entirely due to her father Yang Jicheng working alone outside.
In order to make a living, Yang Jicheng took his wife to work in Lichuan City all year round, earning more than 2,000 yuan a month, and he can also take care of his wife's life.
Since 2016, Yang Jicheng often felt a sore throat, and he never went to the hospital because he couldn't bear to leave his money. In May 2017, Yang Jicheng, who could not stand it, came to the hospital and was diagnosed with advanced esophageal cancer. He spent more than 50,000 yuan to treat it for more than 5 months, but failed to save his life.
Because my brother worked outside, his income was limited and he had no conditions to take care of his mother, Yang Yuxia began to study with her mother.
Love is a warm home
Yang Yuxia is preparing to take her mother out
Yang Yuxia and her daughter live on the first floor of a rental house in Group 2 of Wangzhou Village, near Sanxia University. This is something that Yang Yuxia finally found. The monthly rent is 450 yuan. She gets up at 7 a.m. every day, walks for more than ten minutes and can go to school to attend classes.
The rental house is very simple, only more than 10 square meters, divided into a room and a toilet. There is a bed, a cabinet and a table in the room. There is a large number of medical books and a computer on the table. The computer is a gift from Yang Yuxia when she was just in college. There is a low stool next to the table, with an induction cooker and a rice cooker on it. This is a tool for the mother and daughter to cook.
There are tools for mother and daughter to cook on the small table
After Yang Yuxia went to class in the morning, Huang Jugui made breakfast by himself. Yang Yuxia bought the dish in advance, and it will take two or three days to buy it. When cooking, Huang Jugui can move his body to the edge of the bed with both hands and then slowly move it to the wheelchair.
After breakfast, Huang Jugui sat alone at home.
"In order to save money, my mother always can't bear to turn on the lights when she is alone." Yang Yuxia said that her mother always thinks about her all the time, and she can't bear to use a kilowatt-hour of electricity or a drop of water.
At noon, Yang Yuxia rushed home to cook lunch after class. After evening study, I went home to make supper. In the past two days, they have fried pork with kohlrabi. Yang Yuxia always rushes to eat kohlrabi and leaves the meat for her mother, but her mother is reluctant to eat it.
The weather has been good these days. After lunch, Yang Yuxia pushed her mother out in a wheelchair to bask in the sun. Yang Yuxia, who looked weak, could pick up her mother skillfully and put it gently on the wheelchair.
"Because of being in bed for many years, my mother's legs have been severely shrinking. Helping her rub her legs will make her feel more comfortable." Yang Yuxia said that after dinner, she would massage her legs and chat with her mother while massaging. Her mother likes to listen to her daughter talking about school affairs.
After the massage, Yang Yuxia helped her mother wash and settle down, she took the time to read books or chat with friends.
For more than a year, Yang Yuxia has been repeating such a hurry every day. She said it was very hard, but it was very down-to-earth. "Where is a place where mother is there is a warm home."
The more adversity you are in, the more self-disciplined you are
Yang Yuxia took her mother out and
When filling out her college entrance examination application, Yang Yuxia wanted to apply for a normal school and be a teacher like her two uncles, but thinking that her mother was sick all year round and studying medicine might be more convenient for her, she finally applied for the clinical medicine major of Sanxia University Medical School.
Yang Yuxia knows well that for those who study medicine, the word "serious" is particularly important. It not only requires memorizing the knowledge in the classroom, but also portraying the details in the mind, because any mistake is irresponsible to life.
Medical students are inevitably full of complex experimental classes. Once when doing an experiment, Yang Yuxia was criticized by the teacher. She repeated the experiment many times, and while being familiar with it, she ensured that she would not make similar mistakes again. "Responsible for one's own studies and more responsible for the lives of others." Yang Yuxia said.
Yang Yuxia has a special hobby - running, "running" all the way from high school to college. She likes to run freely in the sun, grasp the pulse of her life in this way, and feel the rhythm of never stopping and striving forward.
Yang Yuxia won the Yichang Marathon medal
On the one hand, she studied hard and took good care of her mother. Over the past year, Yang Yuxia has not lost. With his own efforts, Yang Yuxia won the National Inspirational Scholarship and the Second-Class Scholarship at the School Level, and won the special awards and honors such as the "Self-Strength Star", the first place in the 3,000-meter school sports meeting, the "Top Ten Outstanding Youths" of the Medical School and the "Outstanding League Member" for the May Fourth Evaluation.
"As long as I am here, my mother will definitely live a happy life."
After taking my mother to Yichang, my brother sent him living expenses for several consecutive months, but since March 2018, my brother's financial situation was not good and he never sent any money.
The mother and daughter’s lives are extremely frugal, and many caring people extend a helping hand to them.
Yang Yuxia's family is a targeted poverty alleviation household in the local area, and is assisted by a cadre of Lichuan Municipal Health and Family Planning Bureau. Every month, this poverty alleviation cadre will send 500 yuan in love money and will also send some daily necessities such as clothes and quilts from time to time.
Yang Yuxia takes a picture on campus
Ai Wenbing, director of Yichang Yiling Hospital, will send 5,000 yuan in funding every year after learning about Yang Yuxia's situation.
In addition to the help of kind people, the school has a scholarship of 5,000 yuan a year, and also provides part-time jobs, with a salary of 2,000 yuan a year.
The money solves the life problems of the mother and daughter. The annual tuition fee is funded by two uncles.
Starting from the next semester, Yang Yuxia and her classmates will study at the East Campus of Three Gorges University. The school specially left a room on the first floor of the dormitory area for the mother and daughter to live.
"As long as I am here, my mother will definitely live a happy life." Yang Yuxia said that adversity has taught her to be tenacious, understand responsibility and gratitude, "I will be my mother's legs, take her to a happy life, and see the most beautiful scenery."
The strong Yang Yuxia is also a "cute girl" in private
