As society develops faster and faster, the requirements for women in this era are getting higher and higher. As a new era woman in the 21st century, she must not only be as beautiful as a flower, but also be self-reliant and economically independent. There is a profession full of girls like this. They not only have beautiful faces, but also have a living room and a kitchen. However, as such a perfect girl, many people say "I don't want to marry". Why...
Speaking of long-distance travel, especially cross-border travel, fast and safer aircraft have become the first choice for many people. Although the space in the cabin is limited and sitting for a long time makes people feel sore in the waist, back, and numb in the hands, the sweet voice and smile of the flight attendant can bring great comfort to passengers, making our flight no longer boring and boring. They have also become dazzling stars in the aviation industry.
However, recently, a topic titled "Will you choose a flight attendant as a wife?" has sparked strong discussions among netizens online. Surprisingly, the flight attendant, who was known for her beauty, elegance and gentleness, was not a "hot commodity" for her wife. Many people even said that they would not consider stewardess when they have a girlfriend or choose a partner. Why is this? The editor has compiled the answers from netizens, and the answers are roughly divided into two points. First, deep water and bad reputation, second, ignore the family.
About the first point. Many netizens who do not want to marry a flight attendant are very concerned about the reputation of the flight attendant and believe that this profession is "very deep" is not a circle that ordinary people can enter. Many people say that flight attendants either fly everywhere across the country or go anywhere in every country around the world. They naturally have more experience and play more naturally. Some netizens even posted their "personal experience" of meeting a flight attendant in a bar to prove that the flight attendant has a very "social" heart under the beautiful and intellectual appearance.
In fact, netizens will not deliberately slander the flight attendant if they have such an interpretation. Because of its beautiful appearance and good figure, the profession of flight attendant naturally has attracted more attention from the society. However, with more attention, the news will naturally be of varying quality. Similar to the stewardess who are willing to be unwritten for the sake of being superior, stewardess who like to accompany wealthy people, stewardess plastic surgery and other news emerge one after another, and this profession is also shrouded in people's hearts with a mysterious veil.
The second reason why many netizens do not choose flight attendants as their partner is that they are worried that the flight attendant will ignore their family. Due to professional reasons, flight attendants do wander around various places all year round. Unlike ordinary office white-collar workers who are busy with work, there is always a place to see people. Because the flight attendant is flying all year round, he sometimes doesn’t know what city and country he will be in tomorrow.
According to the survey, the top ranks as a post-90s college student, the criterion for choosing a spouse is to be gentle, considerate and have a family concept. However, due to the huge elasticity and uncontrollable work nature, many flight attendants choose to compress the time left for their family members. If they take care of their family, they will become seldom and feathered.
Back to the first point, the editor believes that every industry has its unknown side, and no one can guarantee that people who do a certain profession are good people with dignified character. Similarly, no one can be sure that people who do another profession will be morally corrupt. As a service-oriented profession, flight attendants live in the public eye and have high exposure. Once some negative news appears, they will be widely circulated. However, as receiving information, we cannot "block the mountain of Mount Tai". It is understandable to choose a partner to understand her career, but what we really should focus on is the person we face, feeling her character through our own eyes and heart, rather than one-sidedly looking at what others think of the entire career online. Everyone has different experiences and different values, so naturally they make different evaluations. It is truly wise to use their own experience to choose the person who suits them.
Let’s talk about the second point, “If I hold the brick, I can’t hold you, and if I put the brick, I can’t support you!” This is what many husbands say to their wives. However, as society’s requirements for women are getting higher and higher, many women are also asked to take care of their family while working hard. This is obviously unequal. While we ask our partner, we should also put ourselves in our shoes and think about whether we can do it.Having a family concept is indeed one of the factors that make family happiness and fulfillment, but as a couple, what they should do is to sacrifice for each other and understand each other together.
Recently, aviation accidents have occurred frequently, and most people have focused on the responsibility and claims of airlines and aircraft manufacturers. However, we often ignore that there is a group of people on the plane, who, like us, entrust their lives to the plane. But when the real danger comes, they are the only people we can rely on except the captain. They are also using their professional knowledge to protect the safety of every passenger. In 1986, Nilja Banot, a gangster from India, was fighting wits and courage with the gangsters for 17 hours. In the end, he rescued 359 passengers, but was shot and killed. When we are confused by all kinds of negative news, don’t forget the firm smiles on their faces every time they fly.
But then again, although netizens are unwilling to say that the grapes are sour and smell more like they can't eat grapes. Anyway, my friends around me are very willing and said that the netizens are unwilling, so let us leave it.
