Recently, a recent photo of " Little Dragon Girl " Wu Zhuolin was exposed. The girl, who is only 22 years old, is full of vicissitudes and cannot eat; however, her half-brother "brother" is full of energy.
In May last year, Jean Chan-ming was photographed driving a luxury car out and finding friends to have afternoon tea.
Not only that, it was also revealed that it would launch its own brand new Mandarin album, which shows that it has long been out of the shadow of the scandal.
As the father who has the same international superstar, the endings of the two are very different. After many years, Jaycee Chan went to the left and Wu Zhuolin went to the right. The original sin of this contrast caused by
is because Wu Zhuolin is a shameful illegitimate daughter.
This heartbreaking girl started her life of being despised before she was born.
01. Born is a tragedy
1999, Wu Qili took the initiative to contact the media and publicly pregnant with Jackie Chan child. As soon as the news came out, public opinion was in an uproar.
During the interview with the reporter, Wu Qili put her hands on her high bulge with a calm look on her face, with a smile of victory that could not be hidden.
However, life is not a TV series. Missionaries cannot get promoted. The unborn child is destined to be a shameless "illegitimate child".
. Jackie Chan, the other party involved, looked bitter and revenge at the press conference, and ended with "I did something wrong for many men around the world," and chose to return to his family.
A drama that was abandoned all the time, Jackie Chan never lost.
Back then, Wu Qili swore to the point that she gave birth to a daughter because she couldn't bear it and hoped to protect her for her whole life.
However, in the name of his daughter Wu Zhuolin, it seems that those unknown "truths" have long been hidden -
, Wu Qili surpasses Lin Fengjiao (the original wife of Jackie Chan).
. The Feng Shui master said that this name can cut off the affection between children and fathers.
So, as the little dragon girl Wu Zhuolin grew up, the stain on Jackie Chan's body became bigger and bigger.
Every time it makes headlines, it is forced into a desperate situation by the reporter and flees in a hurry.
And every time, Wu Qili and Xiaolongnu snuggled together, they always look like they are peaceful.
and even, Wu Qili seemed to take it indifferently: "I don't want to mention his matter, it's over."
At that time, she was a strong single mother, a considerate and responsible mother. The press releases about praise and praise were always flying all over the sky.
However, is this really true?
In 2015, Hong Kong often received a call from the police, and a girl claimed that she had been suffering from domestic violence from her mother.
And this girl is Wu Zhuolin, the little dragon girl.
Although, Wu Zhuolin then changed his confession, claiming that his mother Wu Qili did not hit her, but because her mother was drunk day and night, she wanted to seek help from the outside world.
However, netizens with great powers followed the clues and delved into their mother and daughter's daily life before they realized: Wu Zhuolin has been living a miserable life.
She beat and scolded Wu Zhuolin, and asked the child to put the thick " Cihai " on his head, stood for a few hours, and punished her to copy for several hours.
Grandma added fuel to the fire. She scolded Wu Qili for selling and forced Wu Qili to ask Jackie Chan for money with a knife. What's more, he threw the money on the ground and asked Wu Qili to kneel down and pick it up one by one. Wu Zhuolin stared at her horrified gaze and watched her mother kneel from the living room to the room.
Grandma's madness and weirdness, mother's harshness and either beating or scolding made the little Wu Zhuolin grow up tremblingly.
There is no warmth and peace in the family, and Wu Zhuolin also has a difficult life in school.
Stationery is often lost, and the sarcastic and strange eyes are even more common for her. What's more, because of his disgrace, he was beaten up by a group of classmates.
In this depressing growth environment, Wu Zhuolin's personality gradually became fragile, autistic and weird.
02. Who can save the misfortune of the original family?
Wu Zhuolin in adolescence gradually evolved into self-harm through continuous internal friction.
The media has photographed it more than once, and there were even more than 20 scars on her arm.
The relationship between mother and daughter gradually became worse at this time.
Wu Zhuolin kept calling the police and was abused; Wu Qili could only make public clarifications again and again.
Later, Wu Zhuolin began to run away from home, once, twice, three times...
Until, she publicly admitted that she came out, and that the other party was a Canadian internet celebrity 12 years older than her, Andi.
In 2018, the two showed off their marriage certificate .
Just when everyone thought that this unfortunate girl could finally be healed in the warmth, she realized that all this may not be the truth.
Wu Zhuolin found a job to make a living and supported Andi who was not working, but they were still very struggling.
Every time she appears in the public eye, she always looks very miserable.
Not only that, after half a year of marriage, Andi always dislikes Wu Zhuolin for not making progress: "I abandoned everything and followed you, but you are like a pig. Don't you want us to fly together?"
Under the difficulties of the day, his wife Andi always dislikes Wu Zhuolin for lack of ability and filed for divorce many times.
She has not been blessed since birth and has reaped the rare warmth in the world, but even the last straw seems to be unable to grasp it.
When Wu Zhuolin came to this world, he was born without being chosen. Why did Wu Zhuolin make a mistake?
However, it was this young girl who bears this consequence.
is not recognized by parents and is tragically despised by the world. She was swaying and tried her best, just hoping to keep a little warmth, even if there were lies and exploits behind her.
It’s a pity that she can’t keep it.
In July 2021, her mother Wu Qili was interviewed. She said she felt lonely and would consider freezing her eggs and giving birth to a second child.
Compared to the correction, she seemed to choose to give up her daughter and be reborn.
And Wu Zhuolin's life continues.
This 22-year-old girl has just started, but she has lived through vicissitudes and difficulties. Where should she go...
Who can save the misfortune encountered by her original family? Is it only necessary to be excellent and "obedient" to be worthy of being loved?
The breakdown of the parental relationship and the mistakes made by adults should not be borne by young children...
What's wrong with children?
03. Don’t let children become "victims" of emotional breakdown
In today’s society, it seems that it is common to have a breakdown of parents’ relationships.
However, it is difficult to have an accurate answer to how much harm a parent will harm his child after divorce.
The pain and pain that children cannot tell in their hearts are often covered up and are not easy to detect, especially when children enter specific peer groups, sometimes they will be amplified in comparison.
Usually for each child, they form a triangle relationship with their parents, with the three vertices being the father, mother and child.
Once parents are separated, it means that the most stable relationship of the triangle is disintegrated. Although the custody may belong to the mother or father, the family is no longer complete for the child.
This will have a strong impact on children's sense of psychological security. Some children become taciturn as a result, while others will feel psychological inferiority complex...
As we grow older, many children will still fall into trouble because they have no sense of family responsibility.
Family responsibility comes from everyone's loyalty to marriage, self-dedication, tolerance and understanding, and deep love for children. It is difficult for children from divorced families to establish this perception during parents' quarrels.
This negative role model set by parents is very easy to make it difficult for children to form a correct view of the family. What's more, negative slackness in a single-parent family will make the children lack psychological security and care, which will lead to serious personality defects.
Some people will have weak personalities, while others will have the opposite personality, extreme and irritable personality, suspicious nature, and even violent tendencies.
This is undoubtedly extremely unfavorable for the growth of children.
Children are originally the "crystal of love", but after the relationship between parents breaks down, they become victims of feelings. This is a great disrespect for the children themselves.
Parents' beloved son will have a far-reaching plan for it.
The breakdown of parents' relationship is not the reason why children form personality defects and become withdrawn, but the different ways of parenting are the fundamental reasons that determine how far children can go.
Do not divorce love, either parent should assume the responsibility of education and love children.
Do your responsibilities to give your children the best care and let them understand that the support given to them by their parents is the correct way to enable their children to grow better.
