Due to the impact of the epidemic, this special graduation season this year is believed to be an unforgettable memory for many people. It’s not that simple to love this university.

It is the graduation season of the year again.

Due to the impact of the epidemic, this special graduation season this year is believed to be an unforgettable memory for many people. ​

Academics, as long as you are down-to-earth and serious, it is not difficult to graduate;

Cute love this university, but it is not that simple.

Some people still don’t know how to deal with it throughout their lives. The new drama recently launched by

can be called the designated textbook of "Love University".

" Love Life "

Love Life

The heroine on the poster, Anna Kendrick .

has played the role of Jessica in the famous "Twilight" series, and starred in the music movie " Perfect Tone ".

However, what impressed Anna the most was her " in the cloud " , co-starring her with Hollywood male god George Clooney .

She also won nominations and recognition for many awards including Oscar for Best Supporting Actress .

Movie "In the Clouds" Stills

This new work "Love Life" can clearly see her maturity and progress. At the beginning of the episode

, it presented us with an interesting set of statistics.

summarizes a person's love experience in his life.

"On average, a person will experience seven relationships before finding true love."

"In these relationships, the two are often long-term, and the rest are short-term indulgence, casual dating, and one-night stands."

"On average, a person will fall in love twice and break twice in these relationships."

of course, "love" itself cannot be accurately calculated.

This data may not be scientific and does not have guiding significance. What I really want to express is:

"Behind every love, there are wonderful and rich stories."

She is not a female classmate without stories.

There are 10 episodes in this drama, each episode shows the protagonist a different relationship.

In other words, will change to a boyfriend in one episode.

also honestly uses each boyfriend as the title of the corresponding set . Under the design of

, the scene where the protagonist stands in the station waiting for the bus at the beginning of the first episode is even more meaningful.

seems to indicate that she is about to take a train called "Love" and head to an unknown destination after another.

This protagonist has a long and bumpy love story, named Dabby Carter (played by Anna Kendrick).

The parents divorced early in her childhood, and the young Darby had to wander between the two families.

She described herself as a "permanent hotel guest" . The family environment like

naturally had some impact on Darby's view of love .

lacks enough attention and warmth, and easily feels that she is not worthy of being loved , which are more or less reflected in future relationships.

After going to New York to go to college, Darby began his first relationship.

at a friend’s birthday party, under the dim and ambiguous lights.

She met her true first love , Aoji .

Aoji is a very attractive boy.

is cheerful, gentle and considerate, and getting along with him makes Darby feel very happy.

The two are attracted to each other, and their relationship is born naturally.

Dabi cherishes this first love very much.

After the two had sex for the first time, Dabi looked at Obi who was sleeping soundly beside him.

shot follows her gaze, gently stroked naked Aoji from her head to her feet.

After the desire fades, the warm aftertaste is particularly touching.

The sweetness and warmth in Dabi's heart almost overflowed from the screen, which makes people feel empathetic.

It’s a pity that this relationship did not leave too much time for Darby to slowly experience it.

After spending a wonderful few months together, Aoji received a job transfer from to and needed to take up a job in Washington.

This opportunity is of great significance to Aoji. If you can grasp it, your future will be bright.

But at the same time, this also means that he has to separate from Dabi .

This is the classic choice between "love" and "bread" .

thinks that long-distance relationship has no result Aoji chose the latter and frankly explained everything to Darby.

Despite his reluctance, Darby accepted and expressed his congratulations.

In the end, the two of them broke up peacefully with regret.

This short but beautiful relationship is coming to an end, and both of them are actually very sad.

Darby valued this first love, and although she pretended to be calm, her heart was full of bitterness;

Aoji's attitude seemed to be more free and easy.

But this is not because he doesn't care about this relationship, nor is it "slag".

The reason is perhaps because he lived in a happy and happy family since childhood and developed a healthier and stronger view of emotions.

When you are in love, you will be sincere. When

ends, you can also calmly regard it as a beautiful experience.

This first love that ended in failure actually taught Dabi a lesson in a sense.

Although the two are in love, they may also be forced to separate due to various realistic reasons.

The out-synchronization of life planning and tracks is a very common reason for these reasons.

Darby's fourth relationship also deviates from his life tracks between his partners.

This time, Darby met a chef from a high-end restaurant, Megus .

Miges not only grabbed her stomach, but also caught her heart. The two soon entered a cohesive life.

However, the strong emotions caused a crisis due to the changes in the work of the two.

After a long period of hard work, Darby finally successfully promoted to and got the job he had always dreamed of.

, while Megus had a serious conflict because of the disagreement with the restaurant owner, and was finally fired .

One has a promotion and salary increase, and the other has lost his job . The psychological gap after comparison of

can be imagined.

Darby did not dare to express his joy too clearly because she was afraid of hurting her boyfriend.

In order to take care of his boyfriend's emotions, even couldn't bear to blame his behavior of staying at home after he was unemployed, thinking that this was a normal reaction of a frustrated person.

always feels that it will be better after a while.

But the accident of this work also exposed the cowardly personality of Megus and a high-spirited and low-key personality.

doesn't look down on restaurants that are not high-end enough, but you can't find a better job. After rubbing several times, Darby finally couldn't bear it anymore and urged Meggs to get out of the shadows and look for a job well.

In fact, she just hopes that the other party will cheer up;

But Megus thinks that Darby looks down on herself after being promoted, and dislikes him for being soft (the glass heart is damaged).

One day, Meggs was out of the ordinary and dressed in a suit and told Darby that he finally decided to go out and find a job.

Who knew that this time, lost the message .

The whole person disappeared out of thin air.

In the process of finding her missing boyfriend, Darby discovered that during the period of unemployment, Megus had already gone bankrupt and was even heavily in debt.

This relationship does not end here.

As for the ending, Uncle Yu is allowed to keep an eye on him here.

Such incomplete emotional experiences are everywhere in this drama.

For example, the partner of a certain relationship is her former boss, Bradley .

By chance, the two met again.

At this time, Bradley was divorced and regained his freedom. Darby had just walked out of the shadow of the previous failed relationship.

The two of them went around and sparked by a strange thing.

Bradley's most attractive thing is that he belongs to the charm of a mature man in .

Confident and calm, decent behavior, can give Darby a full sense of security .

However, the difference that made the two of them get together at first gradually made the two of them go further and further away.

Age gap is the most direct problem facing their lives.

belongs to the lifestyle of young people like Darby, which often makes Bradley unable to do so.

For love, Darby can only choose to sacrifice and compromise.

There are even bigger problems hidden behind the differences in interest.

Darby and Bradley think differently, the life difficulties that need to be faced, and the social class they live in is even more different.

For these, Darby can only work hard to improve himself and try to adapt and cater to them.

and , a relationship that is almost dominated by Bradley, also Darby gradually felt at a loss for .

Although no one can deny that Dabi has put in this relationship.

may have some objective differences, and it may be impossible to fill them out through hard work.

If you choose the wrong direction at the beginning, then the so-called running-in in love is just a useless effort to torture yourself.

Immersed in the touch brought by hard work and sacrifice, and it is often only backfire.

And these compromises cater to the accumulated negative emotions, and will eventually become time bombs buried in the future.

director Li Shaohong in his early years once evaluated movie star Zhou Xun , which is "to understand the world through acting and love" .

For some people who are born with sensibility, love is an important way to learn how to get along with the world and an integral part of life .

So, we can always see their frustrated figures in the love field, fighting again and again, vowing to break through the south wall before we stop.

Although the ten love stories in the play are concentrated on Darby, these are also based on the different love stories of thousands of people in reality.

Her repeated failures are a timely vaccination for "insiders" who are in a similar situation or newbies on the road to love.

There is no doubt that love is not a constant concept, but a dynamic process.

The so-called running-in in love is the process of giving in and changing each other and finding the most suitable way to get along with each other.

But this does not mean that you can just compromise and lower your posture.

Because once you place yourself in the position of "sacrifice", what you face afterwards is the bottomless pit that you cannot fill.

You will only be lower, so low that you even look down on yourself.

Unequal feelings, barely maintain, will only hurt yourself more.

Before loving others, learn to love yourself and believe that you are worthy of love. This is more important and easier to be ignored.

In addition, Darby's experience also allows us to see some regrettable reality.

The failure of a relationship is sometimes due to bad encounters, and sometimes due to fate.

Even if they are good people, they may also be inappropriate to be together due to various reasons.

Personality, age, future planning, life encounter may make the two people in love drift away gradually and write a relationship into an ending of fate.

But this does not mean you have to have a negative attitude towards love.

on the contrary, it makes people see the positive side that love can bring to us:

about yourself, about growth.

Whether it is love or life, it is a process of constant trial and error.

The most wonderful thing is the scenery along the way, and the biggest gain is the growth after experiencing it.

Love has the power to break people's heartbreaking, but it can also make people find a better self through it.

Only after finding the true "self" will you finally understand that love is just an episode of life, and that you are the protagonist of life.

Maybe one day love will come unexpectedly, or maybe not.

But even without love, what's the harm?

What determines whether your life is exciting is not a certain relationship or a certain person.

can only be yourself.