You are worried about this, should this marriage be divorced? It is scary to think about the harm to children, property division, and other people's strabismus. What if you can't find a better one? What if the days get worse?
So, in the midst of many inner difficulties, you are guarding a half-dead marriage, wasting your years, pretending to be a smile that squeezed out for the family perfection, and even laughing at them, those divorced women and single mothers seem to be proclaiming victory. Look, my marriage is still complete!
You are hesitating, should this marriage be married? What if the other party is a scumbag? What if you get cheated? What if the days are not as good as now? What if you get divorced?
So, in the plot that you have been thinking about again and again, you are wandering around, struggling to guard the life that seems safe but is actually lacking, and carefully endure the days. At least, I will not be hurt again. At least I am safe, as if I am a person in a condom, and I have automatically given up the courage to experience the completeness of life in a human being!
and Wang Xiaofei got married less than a month after they met, less than 4 months old, and they married their former love 20 years ago. How could this woman named Big S play so unreasonably? Doesn’t she have any worries? I was upset about love and was willful, so a bunch of negative words were posted on her, and you couldn't help but secretly rejoice for your prudence.
It’s just that what you don’t know is that in fact, she just has more freedom to choose than you!
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as smart as her, she is actually very clear about what her trump card is?
sister, have the strength! She is a person who came out to play at the age of 17. She sings, hosts, acts, and is proficient in everything. The role of " Shancai " became popular. She won the Best Actress Award at the Taiwan TV Golden Bell Awards; the book " Beauty King " became popular. It was reprinted seven times in two weeks, with sales of 100,000 copies; the Nominated for Best Actress at the 28th Hong Kong Film Awards Best Actress, the 14th Shanghai TV Festival Magnolia Awards, and the Best Actress Award Ceremony of the 14th Chinese List and the Asian Influence Ceremony. She is simply a "big heroine"!
sister, some have a good attitude! She was born into a family that favored boys over girls and was discriminated against since childhood. What's worse is that her parents had a disagreement. Not only did her father get involved in trouble outside, but she also lost money in business and lost millions of funds, and sometimes even abused her mother. Growing up in this environment, she has already developed the tenacity and courage to deal with problems. She can confront her father in person to protect her mother, and she can yell in order to protect her sister, "Whoever wants to bully her, I will break her legs!" What is this wolf-like woman who is not afraid of heaven or earth, divorce or remarriage to her?
Sister, there is money! Not to mention living in a luxury house worth hundreds of millions or how much cash reserves she has, even if she has nothing, she still has fame. Who doesn’t know that there is a woman named Big S in Taiwan? Nowadays, being famous is beneficial. You can start with all endorsements and variety shows. Before you can leave, my sister will still be a billionaire! Not to mention, what she still has is strength and hard skills, which is much better than those little flowers and grass who only know how to scan their faces and show off?
What's more, she has never been a brainless vase, and she is also a thriller in her marriage calculations. Didn't she already say that? After marrying Korean star , Gu Junye, he will not have children anymore, nor will he settle down in South Korea, and he will keep the bottom line firmly. As Taiwan media said, the fact that she was able to escape from her divorce with Wang Xiaofei was enough to show her intelligence. Obviously, she would not dig a hole in this regard.
is a winner, and even a step back may not be a loser. How could she have the entanglements and hobbies like ordinary women, worrying and fear?
I can choose to divorce this person or marry that person. Don’t worry about so much, just love it! No longer dominated by the outside world, surroundings, and public opinion, nor to the left with the deep thoughts in my heart. This is indeed very big. This should be the freedom to choose!
But this freedom of choice should only be available to only a few people, just as Zeng Luhao said in "Summer Past": "What a transcendent power is it to have the right to choose to leave or stay.This world is filled with choices, left or left, and cannot tolerate a few free people.
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read again, and hesitation is like you!
Don’t you dare to enter the siege? Perhaps, you are used to seeing men and women struggling in the siege. Perhaps, your pain has not healed. Even if you are not young, even if your aunts and aunts at home are urging you, you are still just wandering on the edge of the siege. At most, you can only have the courage to fall in love, but you are afraid to walk in for a long time. All kinds of unbearable emotions such as entanglement, fear, and worry are wrapped around you. You dare not face the inner lack, and you dare not look directly at the scars in your heart. As weak as you, when facing a lonely and brave S, you can only sigh or be jealous!
Don’t you dare to walk out of the siege? After so many years of life in the siege, you have long been used to each other. Even if it is really not suitable, even if it is just a marriage in name only, even if you are not happy inside, you are unwilling or dare not come out! You are afraid of the label of a divorced woman, you are afraid of meeting someone wrong again, you are afraid of taking on the storm of life alone, so you can only survive in the siege of the city. Occasionally, you will be scared and quickly retracted. How can you understand that you are as powerful as Big S to come and go freely?
You are not independent, so you are afraid that you cannot support yourself; you are not strong, so you are afraid of all kinds of rumors!
Let’s go! For freedom, after Nara ran away, if she was not strong enough, she would become Xiao Hong !
go in! For the sake of life, but the former Shanghai No. 1 beauty Shen Lijun still fell to death, making you even more worried and scared when you wander outside the siege!
"As long as he goes out, even if the weather is good, he always wears overshoes, brings an umbrella, and must wear a warm cotton coat. His umbrella is in the cover, his pocket watch is in the gray deerskin hood. Sometimes he takes out a small folding knife and sharpens the pencil, and the knife is in the cover. Even his face seems to be in the cover, because he always hides his face in the upright collar."
remembers the "person in the cover" written by Chekhov, and lives trembling at every moment, as if he can only feel at ease if he wraps himself tightly in the cover.
is not about advancement or retreating. "Freedom of choice" seems to be just a distant and beautiful legend to you.
It’s better to think carefully about how to change, either break through your heart, be financially independent, or improve your strength. Otherwise, you are destined to be just the group of people in this world who are chosen, left behind or left!
For a woman like Big S who is free to advance and retreat, you are probably destined to be jealous!
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