came across a topic two days ago: What are things you only know when you grow up?
hot reviews are: It takes a lot of courage to admit your ordinaryness.
When we were young, we always thought that we were the most special one, and we fantasized that we would definitely do a big career when we grew up, but when we really grew up, we found that we were just a drop in the ocean.
But is it really inferior to being an ordinary person?
After watching this Taiwanese drama, you must have an answer in your heart -
" The Fresh Girls' Cultivation Notes "
initially paid attention to this drama because it was called the Taiwanese version of "Please Answer 1988". There is more than one "Please Answer" series, but "1988" is still the most healing existence in many people's hearts.
I thought it was a boring low-end version of "1988", but after watching 10 episodes in one go, I found that Douban's 9.1 points were really low.
Carina Chen (Xie Yingxuan decoration) is a typical urban older "three no" woman... middle-aged.
people to 40, no house, no car, no husband, lived in Taipei for 20 years, but he was a "Beijing drifter" who had never been integrated into it.
Although I have a cohabitation boyfriend who has been in love for four years, I have long been worn out by life and have sex with my bed and sleeping every day is not like a couple, but more like a roommate.
After being interviewed by a street photographer, he joked that he was like an old couple and his wife, he was determined to "do it" a big deal and rekindle the love fire.
The battle suits are all on
At the critical moment, Chen Jialing suddenly found that she had a "relative". Not only did the two of them feel depressed, but they both breathed a sigh of relief.
Look at your Star Wars, I flip through my fashion magazines, how harmonious it is~
Live a relationship, and your personal life is not easy either.
The landlord’s wife always likes to pile useless debris into Carina’s house. She talked about the dressing table that was in trouble and appeared in the living room the next day as usual.
The most unacceptable thing is that she, who has a spare key, often comes in and searches for things on her own, eats and drinks, and calls herself: Clean the refrigerator for you!
Personal privacy, does not exist!
Jialing, whose life and relationship are not going well, has a job that is equally bad.
The special assistant of the general manager with an unlimited appearance is actually a 24-hour private nanny.
Supervise the boss’s wife to take medicine and fruits and vegetables for the boss;
Take care of the boss’s "miss three" externally;
Get time to go to the toilet to pick up the boss’s wife’s deathly call;
Don’t forget to accompany the "miss three" to see the house on holidays.
Do you think this is over? No, life can always give you a fatal blow when you are at your most "depressed"!
Carina Chen received the invitation. The ex-boyfriend who used to be a sloppy and sloppy otaku who used to play electric power all day is actually getting married!
Can such top-quality get married? Chen Jialing went to the appointment happily with the mentality of watching the show.
As a result, he was stunned when he came to the scene... Why did this otaku become a handsome guy? And the bride next to me is still a best-selling writer who is as beautiful as a flower? !
The story successfully deviated from Chen Jialing's expectations. Her former friend at the deskmate talked about her "parenting skills", while advising Jialing not to be too picky and marry quickly.
Can't get in and don't want to laugh with Jialing, but she had to numb herself with alcohol. The so-called alcohol makes cowards brave, and Chen Jialing, who was so excited, grabbed the bride and talked randomly.
I don’t know if this wedding was a mess, at least Chen Jialing is really happy!
Since you are happy, you must be happy to the end. Chen Jialing, who is unwilling to be confined to the lifeless life in front of her, finally decided to start resisting!
work, I quit!
Friendship, I don’t want it anymore!
However, just as she walked out of the office bravely in the last second and cried helplessly the next second, Chen Jialing, who left her boyfriend and quit her job, began to give up.
sings with wine during the day, and feel sorry for yourself at night.
Until my younger brother Chen Jiaming came to pull her out of the "ruins" and decided to take her home.
If you look at it as a "mourning" drama, then the part of Chen Jialing when she was a child was full of healing.
When Chen Jialing was a child, she lived with her parents, grandpa and grandma and younger brother.
They have three generations living together and run a Chinese medicine church. Although their family is not rich, there are always laughter and joy.
This scene is quite like "1988"
Dad accidentally rented an adult video disc, and the family was in a hurry to block the picture, afraid that Carina Lau should not have seen it.
Take this opportunity to prepare to officially popularize the relationship between [sexuals] to Jialing. Grandpa muttered and couldn't say it. His mother was very tactful, but grandma was just direct. In a word, she summed up: she was a virgin before marriage, and she was happy after marriage!
Hearing this sentence, Jialing was confused, but the adults behind her were panicked.
Dad: "We don't count, we are all engaged."
My grandpa: "You promised to marry me at that time!"
Light grandma again, crying and making a fuss: "Everyone said he didn't want it, you insisted..."
emmmm...
In order not to let Jialing be alone with the boy, the mother tilted the door handle.
Jialing, who was cheated by "You were picked up by your father", ran away from home. As soon as she made a "find broadcast", she was turned into a family melon-eating party by her grandma.
Jia Ling is going to study in Taipei, and her father and grandma cosplayed the "How to refuse the 108 style when meeting a bad boy on a motorcycle" series of tutorials.
These funny little things have become beautiful memories in Jialing's heart when she grows up. When she is confused, she always thinks about going home, but she is afraid to go home.
Because she seems to be that disappointing child all the time.
When she was a child, Jialing was naughty by nature, had poor grades, and always mingled with a group of boys. Her mother often compared her with her cousin with excellent grades and accused Jialing of not being a "girl".
When I was in college, my mother wanted her to stay in Tainan, but she secretly changed her volunteer to Taipei.
When I was a child, my grandma always said that girls should not think too much. The later they get married, the worse they get. But at the age of 40, she still willfully cancel the engagement.
However, home is called a safe haven because it always embraces us infinitely.
Mother learned that Carina was admitted to Taipei school and ignored her in anger, but secretly got up in the middle of the night to record videos for her, putting everything in a neat way, for fear that she would leave something behind.
Grandma comforts Carina: The times are different now, and many children don’t get married.
Grandpa named Chen Jialing, "Jia" means beauty, and "Ling" means good.
Carinale for grandpa
is the best. The most beautiful child
what Carinale said to grandpa
are the best
Dad said that we Carinale was innocent and lively, very cute.
younger brother Chen Jiaming is homosexual. His mother knew about it when he was in high school. She did not blame him or asked him, but secretly searched books and asked volunteers.
is not anxious to "break straight" his son, but is worried about how hard his son is, who is still in his 30s and dare not tell outsiders how hard it is, and wants to tell him that he is not alone.
These things seem to be small things that are so ordinary that they cannot be more ordinary. They are not overly sensational, but there is always something that touches the heart.
There is a clip in the play that I remember very clearly that my grandfather was suppressed and persecuted when he was young, which made him very afraid of the police. After Carina ran away from home, he wandered outside the police station for a long time, but still gritted his teeth and went in to report the case.
It’s not that he is not afraid anymore, but that compared with his granddaughter’s safety, his own affairs are nothing.
Maybe this is the meaning of family. It is not usually touching or exciting. But when you are frustrated and sad, you can always think of these sporadic clips when you get along. It is precisely because of the existence of family that gives us the motivation to move forward.
When we were young, we always thought we would become special people, but when we grew up, we found that we were just one of thousands of ordinary people.
It is not terrible not to live as you expect. Ordinary people also have the joy and happiness of ordinary people, and they can also shine in their respective tracks.
The most important thing is that whether it is a lady or a vulgar girl, no matter what kind of person she becomes, the existence of her family is that we can accept our courage calmly.
As Chen Jialing said:
This life is actually very long.
grows until you fall and stand up again,
wake up in a dream.
This life is actually very short.
is so short that you don’t have time to force yourself, and
doesn’t have time to hate yourself anymore.
So now you are still sticking to your own bad enough, so you might as well relax and face yourself again. After all, mothers only hope that we: is safe and healthy, which is enough.
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