Life and death are the two ends of life. The personal experience in the middle, which is long or short, happy or unfortunate, bumpy or smooth, sweet or salty, is the key point that an individual cannot skip when he is alive.

often doubts the saying " Life is all small matters except life and death."

Sometimes, the hardships and tortures of life and the torture of body and mind are far less than the pleasure of death.

Life and death are the two ends of life. The personal experience in the middle, which is long or short, happy or unfortunate, bumpy or smooth, sweet or salty, is the key point that an individual cannot skip when he is alive.

The movie " Life Events " tells the story of a person's living state.

For the protagonist of the film, Mo Sanmei, death is something he is used to, and it is sparse and ordinary. His current life event is to get his father's house, change his father's funeral shop to a mother and baby shop, marry his girlfriend, and live the life he wants.

However, this kind of daily life is extremely difficult for Mo Sanmei.

The father's eyes are ignorant of doing serious things, the girlfriend's eyes are immaturity, and the discrimination of squatting in prison in the eyes of the world are all labels on him.

It is definitely not a matter of a day or a night to turn the tables.

1. Life downwards

"Mo Sanmei" has indescribable anxiety and panic in her heart.

My father asked him to inherit the funeral career and not change his career. His idea was that the change must be changed, and it must be changed to his girlfriend's maternal and child store. But for the sake of the property certificate, he swallowed his anger and dealt with his father lip service.

For his girlfriend, he fought with his love rival and was in prison.

Girlfriend is his only spiritual pillar. When he ran to his girlfriend excitedly with the property certificate, he found that the other party had already been secretly secretly.

This huge blow directly sentenced Mo Sanmei to death with .

Mo Sanmei's card is really bad enough.

He feels that his life is shattered.

How can you sink to this point in your life?

2. Seeing others, seeing yourself, seeing your heart, seeing love, seeing life and death

He was lost and met Xiaowen, a little girl who was helpless after his grandmother passed away.

Two people don’t know each other until they fight.

Xiaowen, who maintains the image of Little Nezha , first poked Mo Sanmei who was cleaning up her grandmother with Red Tassel Gun , and then ran to ask him for her grandmother. During the conflict, Xiaowen also opened his mouth and bit Mo Sanmei.

Grandma is Xiaowen's only relative. Xiaowen has no choice but to rely on it since then.

Mo Sanmei became chivalrous.

From temporary custody of Xiaowen for three days to voluntary custody, until finally, he decided to adopt her. During this period, it was a process of healing each other by two people, one big and one small.

Xiaowen makes a big fuss in the funeral home just to find a grandmother who is in a big box.

Until Mo Sanmei told her that her grandmother had been burned to ashes, turned into smoke, and floated away. Xiaowen has to accept this cruel reality. She could only use crying to vent her fear, loneliness, and grievances in her heart.

The only person in the world who loves her will never come back.

Xiaowen scribbles on the customized urns of customers. Thoughts that he couldn't get in the job, Mo Sanmei saw the miraculous effect. It turns out that the client's deceased daughter also likes to doodle.

Xiaowen has changed from a disaster star to a lucky star of Mo Sanmei.

When he was forced by his father to buy a shop with 300,000 yuan, he didn't expect that the most righteous one would be Xiaowen.

The little child is simply a savage. She found her grandmother’s dance partner, Lao Liu, and asked Lao Liu to come forward to organize a living funeral with Mo Sanmei, and the cost was as high as 300,000. Xiaowen wanted to give his grandmother's money to Mo Sanmei without any trace. In Xiaowen's value system, things like

coins are useless, and they are not as good as her to Mo Sanmei.

Mo Sanmei wanted to ask her father to come out and restore the unbearable enemy to his original appearance, Xiaowen took him to surrender the white flag.

The father and son are open and honest, and begin to reconcile in the tenderness of a little girl.

The little article is real Nezha. It is urgent to save Mo Sanmei everywhere.

Mo Sanmei saw the greatest sincerity and light of human nature in Xiaowen's childish and innocent behavior.

Some part of his heart has revived, illuminated, softened, and delicate. He started to heal himself and learned to love and give love.

He saw Xiaowen sitting alone outside the door, listening to the voice of his grandmother in the phone watch and crying silently, and aroused great compassion in his heart. The feeling of being abandoned by the world was the same as him.

Xiaowen let him see his isolated self in his childhood.

He told Xiaowen that grandmother did not disappear, but became a star in the sky. As long as I look at the stars in the sky, my grandmother is accompanying her.

. I am not sure whether this fairy tale is believed or not, but Mo Sanmei believes it herself. He began to face his heart, focus on his family's funeral business, and send everyone who left for the last journey.

In order to repair Xiaowen's phone watch, he went to almost all repair shops. Finally, it was finally realized with former customers, and finally restored the voice of Xiaowen's grandmother whom he was thinking about day and night.

This is tantamount to an adult fairy tale. It is not only Xiaowen who cures it, but also Mo Sanmei herself. The recognition and help of customers invisibly increased his confidence and strengthened his determination to do his career.

It turns out that the world can be beautiful!

Your heart is slanted, and you see the world is slanted. As long as you keep your heart straight, everything will be right and smooth. With value, life has meaning, and hope has the motivation to live.

In order to adopt Xiaowen, Mo Sanmei planned to find someone to get married casually.

He participated in parent-child activities and worked hard to perform various performances. He became a delicate father, caring for a small seed of love.

Dang Xiaowen said: Without grandma's voice, I am not afraid anymore, because I have a father!

Mo Sanmei turned out to be very responsible.

Immature people will eventually mature. But there was only one point that touched him.

Rather than saying that Mo Sanmei gave Xiaowen endless love and care, it is better to say that it is these efforts and actions that heal the lonely Mo Sanmei.

He understands what true love is and how to do it, and how wonderful it is to feel love.

Two people have become real father and daughter relatives. The father-daughter relationship formed here will eventually warm each other's lives.

Mo Sanmei's anxiety and panic disappeared, and at the same time, he completely reconciled with his father. When a person is promoted to being a parent, that is, he truly understands his parents, accepts his parents, and even lives as his parents surpasses his parents.

gives love and accept love, has the same healing power and magical power.

The so-called major events in life, for Mo Sanmei, it is that she finally learned to love, possess love, and walk in the world with love.

Isn’t this the same growth of many people?

Instead of counting and accusing the sins of the original family, it is better to open the knot in your heart, swallow the glass of wine of the past, and let it ferment - turn pain into courage and motivation, find the corner you are missing, with a firm attitude, in your own experience, form your own principles and strong defense system, find the most important things in your life, and live well.

3. Faults

As a commercial film, "The Big Events in Life" has met the box office standards.

But in terms of the visual and expression level of life and death, it is far inferior to the similar " Devourer ".

There is always a problem with our movies. All emotions are always expressed in full, such as "It is better to send people to the bridal chamber than to send people to heaven." The two shops are standing side by side, which already has a very strong contrast effect and inner language. After comparing it several times, I personally feel that this treatment is like a fool.

Leave blanks and put some in it, which is more tension and rendering, and can attract deep thought and aftertaste.

Also, the plot of forcibly implanting Xiaowen's biological mother to seize love is definitely a vulgar dog tail sequel, and it is a completely unnecessary failure and unfinished ending. This plot should be left to the audience to look forward to.

Two people who agree and heal do not need a far-fetched relationship with others, nor can they separate them.

Their lives are actually quite rich.

A happy ending, it is better to imagine.

4. To accept the joy of life, you must also face the coming of death calmly

Mo Sanmei's own boredom with the industry comes from worldly perspectives and prejudice. After experiencing a series of events, he was finally able to face it calmly.

In Mo Sanmei's later funeral, work became a career where he devoted his feelings. There was full of respect in the shouting of carrying the coffin down the layers of stairs.

The prejudice and discrimination in the social level of the funeral profession should be thrown into the garbage dump of history.

People have life, and there is death. Some people deliver their babies, and some people attend funerals.

The last journey of giving away people is the last respect and care of the deceased in this world.

Life and death are the norm. We must not only accept the joy of life, but also learn to face the coming of death calmly. Give respect and care to those who are dying professionals, not discrimination. It is also the greatest respect and care for ourselves.

Just imagine, do you hope that your last self or your relatives and friends will be rejected or sent away with respect