Gu Beixi in " Please " started with his wholehearted love for Yu Dengdeng.
It’s just that before he confessed, Yu Dengdeng fell in love with Lu Yan, whom he met later.
Gu Beixi was of course not convinced. He and Yu Dengdeng grew up together, and they seemed to be very suitable for all aspects.
Unfortunately, love affairs are often like this by chance and , and the frequency of the two people will not be the same.
Gu Beixi's love became a one-on-one love. Even if he saw Yu Dengdeng and Lu Yan having a party and seeing Lu Yan never love Yu Dengdeng, he had no intention of quitting.
is still very determined to be the huge light bulb, following them inappropriately and never leaving them.
Always show your attitude to others, confidently thinking that Yu Dengdeng will eventually become his woman.
includes saying such things to his fiancée Bai Shiqi, whom he has never met.
Bai Shiqi and Gu Beixi were ordered by their father since childhood.
He also knew about this, but he never took it seriously.
His father has passed away, and he never responded to the letter of urging him to marry Bai Shiqi's father.
When he met Bai Shiqi, he didn't know that the girl in front of him was his baby's wife.
But Bai Shiqi knew about it and had liked him for a long time.
When Bai Shiqi discovered that Gu Beixi did not intend to marry him and liked Yu Dengdeng, he was naturally disappointed.
She reminded Gu Beixi: You have never seen her before, maybe you will like her when you see her?
Gu Beixi said it was impossible without hesitation. He thought his liking for Dengdeng must be indestructible.
But according to this plot, most of the ones who were with him in the end were Bai Shiqi.
or no matter what the plot is going, according to common sense or real life examples, he and Bai Shiqi can also be together.
Bai Shiqi can become his "second best". This "second" does not mean that Bai Shiqi is worse than Yu Dengdeng, but that she is a latecomer and a person Gu Beixi only met and came into contact with.
At the beginning, if we do our best to like the person we like, or if we already have someone we like, then we don’t have to stick to the person we like for the rest of our lives.
Most of the time they will fall in love or get married to others.
It’s just that many people still can’t take back their hearts even if they have a new lover or partner.
This can easily cause harm to the current person, and it will also feel that "retreating second best" is just a helpless move.
With this mentality, I live with others with a willingness.
People with better character, treat each other with courtesy, polite and considerate, but love has been sealed.
It is hard to say that the character is not good, and it is very likely that he will ignore all kinds of harms in the current employee.
This is naturally wrong, because the person who once loved but could not get it has his life, and you can no longer participate, so you should let it go.
Only by letting go is the best blessing to him and the best explanation to yourself.
If you keep entangled with people from the past, you will only bring unfair treatment to people from the present.
If you really want to be so affectionate and persistent, then don’t start a new relationship.
Once a new relationship begins, don’t think it’s a very forced thing to “take the next best”.
Don’t just find a "secondary" to live a random life.
Because You can still meet a good partner, still have a beautiful relationship, or start a loving marriage.
For example, Bai Shiqi in the play looks good, has a good personality and a good character.
If Gu Beixi gets along well with her, he will also find that there are many likable addresses on her and that she will actually suit her very well.
So, when you don’t choose first, don’t think you will never meet someone you like so much again.
There are many possibilities in life. If you have never started to have a single love life, it is probably just a beautiful one that you imagine. It is a blessing to get
. If you can't get it, then take your eyes back and pay attention to your side and behind you.
will also have people worthy of love and will also have a good marriage.
If you have a correct attitude, you won’t feel too regretful.
Otherwise, it would be useless to be with anyone, and even if the people who came later were better than they did not get before.
Therefore, you must have a rational and calm understanding of the love you cannot get, do not exaggerate and exaggerate, and do not think that it is necessary.
Don’t be prejudiced or preconceive what you get there later. Actively discover the goodness of later generations, and your love flower can also bloom sweetly.
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