Recently " Love Apartment 5" was released. I followed a few episodes and found that the plot has changed its previous style, and there are many newcomers added to it.
The first two episodes mainly talk about two things. One is that Mei Jia and Lu Ziqiao , Hu Yifei and Zeng Xiaoxian got married, and the other is that Hu Yifei bought a house.
Mijia is pregnant and Lu Ziqiao is going to be a father.
The child came unexpectedly. Meijia is unemployed, and Lu Ziqiao is not only good at having girlfriends, but has always been careless and has no formality.
The two people are both happy about the birth of their children and worry about their future lives.
Just as everyone was helping Lu Ziqiao write his resume, a courier came outside the door, and Hu Yifei's real estate book arrived.
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Then, everyone followed Hu Yifei to see the house. Lu Ziqiao sighed and said, Yifei, such a big thing, I won’t tell everyone.
Hu Yifei said politely that she caught up with the real estate promotion and gave a discount, so she quickly paid the deposit.
After seeing the apartment, everyone ridiculed Hu Yifei for a while, but I have to say that this is a smart decision. Even if it is a bad apartment, it is better than renting a house all the time.
Sometimes, it seems that everyone is on the same horizontal line, and you are still muddling, but I have everything.
In fact, Hu Yifei and Meijia represent two types of people around us, two classes. At present, everyone seems to be laughing and it is very lively together. Once they have children, there will be obvious differences in the education they receive.
Hu Yifei University teacher and Zeng Zixian radio anchor, in our era, that is the iron rice bowl. They are what everyone often calls white-collar workers.
Mika and Ziqiao, perhaps because of the beautification of the camera, handsome men and beautiful women look like they have no worries about food and clothing. But if you put it in life and remove the filter, you will be passerby A and passerby B, just like us.
After the child was born, he was still crowded in a large apartment with a group of single men and women, and he was inevitably a little sad.
I want to get married and get married. It is not only a change in the identity of a family, but also a symbol of an adult starting to fulfill his responsibilities.
And this responsibility is what kind of life I want my family to live.
02
Some time ago, I made an appointment with a friend. During the chat with
, she said that she bought a house near a first-tier city.
She asked me before whether to buy a suite for my child together. I smiled bitterly and said, "Let's wait in the future."
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In half a year, she has bought a house of more than 60 square meters, plus a garage.
And in our second-tier city, they already have two full-payment houses and independent garages, which can be said to be without any financial burden.
Of course, she didn't go well.
She said that she almost divorced her husband not long ago.
This friend has good family conditions and her husband's family conditions are also very good. With the help of the middleman, he became a family.
Since getting married, her and her husband’s salary have been equivalent to AA, each earning their own money, and they don’t get involved with each other.
It was not until they bought a house this time that they needed to print their husband’s personal credit, and they found that their husband owed more than 500,000 yuan outside.
It turns out that before the two of them met, her husband had been trading stocks and made a lot of money in between. After marriage, he continued to hype, but never mentioned it to this friend. Later, the stock fell and he thought about getting out the capital, so he invested more and more, just like snowballing, and owed more and more.
is not a big deal, but it’s really a burden for families with stable income.
html is more than 0.5 million, not too much, not too little. Every time I think of this money late at night, my friend feels heartbroken. .Naturally, something happened and the parents of both sides persuaded each other that for the sake of the children, life would continue, and the whole family should work together to face it together.
So she withdrew 200,000 yuan from her provident fund, and her parents each received more than 100,000 yuan, and the matter was finally resolved.
This small disaster caused some trouble in such a family and finally returned to peace.
Think about it carefully, her lowest point may be the highest point I yearn for, and it even takes a lot of effort.
However, some people's gap has widened since they were born, so there is nothing to complain about, but it is often regrettable that children eventually became us and once again distanced themselves from others.
If life is destined to be full of regrets, if possible, why can't children's lives be allowed to stand on the same starting line?
03
"My life is up to me, not to God", I like this sentence very much.
2020, if it weren't for the epidemic problem, many people were controlling their destiny, setting up flg, working hard for their dreams, and family.
However, after experiencing this war, I believe many people have a new understanding of life.
Once saw this passage in the book:
Jack Ma said: "Dreams still need to be there, what if they come true?" I want to say: "Things should be done quickly, what if they die?" In short, you should act quickly while you are alive.
Sometimes it is either a natural disaster or a man-made disaster, and there are not many opportunities that can be given to us.
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During the epidemic, many people were trapped at home. Some people were anxious like ants on a hot pan, and some people were having a great time taking vacations.
Many netizens said that they wanted to go to work quickly, and that car loans and mortgages were all problems after taking a month.
Some entrepreneurial bosses are very anxious. The career cannot be carried out, rent, water and electricity must be paid, and employees must pay wages. They are obviously thinking about doing a big fight this year, but who would have thought it would be so miserable.
and some self-media big Vs regard the period of self-isolation at home as a reshaping themselves, reading and writing courseware every day to do PTT.
There are also medical staff struggling on the front line, fighting against death every day. When they see that they have not seen their children for many days, they almost burst into tears. Who doesn’t want to live a peaceful life? But in the face of their mission, they have no choice.
If you are one of the virus-infected people, are you satisfied with your current life? If that's the case, are you willing?
Listen to your own voice, what kind of future you want, what kind of education you want to give to your children, and what kind of protection you want to give to elderly parents. This time, you have enough time, please consider it carefully.
No matter what you want, during this period, some people never give up running and never give up their goals. Some people sleep and play games every day, while others stay up late to play cards and drink big wine. Is the second lifestyle wrong? Of course not.
Some people certainly say that I am doing this to contribute to the country, but after the disaster has passed, some people have never been disturbed. They have a fulfilling life and are full of energy, and you have nothing.
The lyrics of Mayday are very good. You are not afraid of being blocked by thousands of people, but you are afraid of surrendering yourself. No matter what environment the best people are in, they have never stopped working hard.
There is a saying that goes:
Your actions should have been "100 points", but now you only have "1 point". From the perspective of "habitualization", this point is also very important. It is very different from doing nothing
. The difference between people, the difference between families and families, often comes from the accumulated 1 point every day.
