After a few days, everyone must have clearly understood the development of the situation. In this asymmetric marriage, in addition to seeing the difficulty of women, we are more about how women should defend themselves and how full-time mothers should defend their rights.

The lovers are divided and reunited, but Wang Leehom and Li Jinglei do not love them deeper and deeper.

To this day, looking back, maybe I have never really loved it.

After a few days, everyone must have clearly understood the development of the situation.

Wang Leehom's apology can also be regarded as an end to the battle between the two.

In this unequal marriage, in addition to seeing the difficulties of women, we are more about how women should defend themselves and how full-time mothers should defend their rights.

This is also a major reason why Li Jinglei was able to quickly gain public support. She stood on the commanding height of defending the value of full-time mothers and expressed the voice of every full-time mother.

How are full-time mothers imprisoned?

As the times continue to develop, women are increasingly aware of the importance of work. They begin to pursue high-quality education and strive to prove their value in the workplace.

As women play an increasingly important role in work, the gender division of labor of "the male leads to the outside and the female leads to the inside" has quietly become history, but the reversal of the prejudice that "caring for the family is a woman's business" is not so easy.

People praise "super mother" while sighing "mother is superman". Many mothers also chose to be the housewife behind him under the packaging of these "starlights". They work hard and are both nannies and drivers. Of course, they are also nannies and tutors. They become omnipotent "superman" and have endured too much weight of life, but they still firmly believe that they have a "happy mythical marriage."

People often ask mothers: "How do you balance work and family?" But fathers who are clearly members of the family are rarely asked like this.

While people believe that women can stand half of the sky, they interpret with practical actions: taking care of the family is a matter for women.

So far, those full-time mothers who don’t go out to work have been pushed to the forefront. They are afraid that they will not do well and dare not say righteously: full-time mothers are also working.

Full-time mothers should learn to fight

Because they don’t have to go out to work, they gradually become free laborers, but their 24-hour housewife identity has not only failed to get the recognition they deserve, but has become a reason to be despised.

Parenting and family care have become a one-man show for mothers, and their efforts and sacrifices are taken for granted.

Unfortunately, even if they lose the opportunity to realize themselves, they fail to get the love and happiness they originally hoped for.

Li Jinglei's 4,000-word long article mentioned:

"Many housewives around me do not have their own savings or income in their accounts. They usually feel embarrassed with the money earned by their husbands, and they will also see their husbands' faces by themselves..."

How hard and helpless the full-time mothers are.

Maybe, mothers should learn to resist, learn to express their needs, and their needs for recognition and respect.

When mothers start to face up to their own value, they have the opportunity to win the honor they deserve; when mothers start to resist unfair division of labor, they have the opportunity to gain time for themselves to improve themselves.

In the book "Chinese Style Love and Love", the writer Wu Zhihong roughly talked about this truth:

Each family has two chairs, an angel's chair, and a devil's chair. Don’t stay in the angel’s chair all the time. You can also try to be a devil. Try to do whatever you want, try to get angry without any scruples, try to be irresponsible once, and be a hand-off boss.

When mothers allow themselves to become devils, their partner may become angels, and if they cannot, they should wake up in time.

Full-time mothers should learn to improve themselves

Li Shanglong Once said:

"Please read yourself in all fields and grow desperately, let these thoughts grow in your body, and let these words be engraved in your memory."

I want to say: Age is not a boundary, any time, as long as you start, there can be changes.Only by constantly learning can we truly arm our brains and have the ability to defend our own rights. Those knowledge engraved in the body eventually have the value and significance of existence. Knowledge is power , this sentence will never be outdated.

Although Li Jinglei, who has received higher education and good knowledge, was unable to avoid the cage of marriage and the shackles of the world, these knowledge that integrates life ultimately gave her the opportunity to fight back.

The 4,000-word long article with clear logic and meticulous thinking made many netizens who were unwilling to read celebrity short compositions and couldn't help but sigh: It's different to be educated.

There has never been a real empathy in this world. Only she knows the hardships and fatigue of a full-time mother.

Fortunately, this era is both bad and good, giving many mothers the opportunity to make breakthroughs.

There are many housewives around me who have changed their destiny through learning. They either learn to write, shoot short videos, set up their own communities, or learn to manage finances.

They have won recognition and respect through learning methods and saved their marriages.

Every mother who has worked hard, it is time to stand up and learn to use the weapons of knowledge to defend her rights.