Yesterday, Wang Leehom announced his divorce, and many people were shocked and dropped their chins. How could he have a wife-possessed character?
In fact, if you think about it carefully, there are signs of divorce from Leehom Wang. The last interaction between Leehom Wang and Lee K-lei was on Valentine's Day and Father's Day in 2019 respectively.
Before, Wang Leehom would post photos every holiday and show off his food, and even did pull-ups at the concert, and kissed Lee Jinglei in the audience. The big S and next to
and Wang Xiaofei showed his aunt's smile and kissed in public to show his love. The audience was full of eating dog food.
Who would have thought that these two loving couples would announce their divorce in 2021? The reason for the divorce is that one couple is separated from two places, and the other couple is that the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
So will love disappear? Nor, for Wang Leehom and Lee Jinglei, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is just a fuse, and the biggest problem in their marriage is not communication.
Once, Wang Leehom and Lee Jong-lei were a guest interview program, and Lee Jong-lei complained that Wang Leehom was always absent-minded.
Li Jinglei talked to him, but Wang Leehom couldn't hear it at all. Then he would react and answer perfunctorily, and he knew it.
Although Li Jinglei said with a smile, she still felt dissatisfied with Wang Leehom. Communication is the bridge of feelings between people, and a marriage without communication is like a one-man show.
How much does Lee Jinglei love Wang Leehom? After marriage, she was rumored to have taken her husband's surname and gave birth to three children for him in four years.
Reasoning by time, the time when there was a problem with their relationship was after Li Jinglei's third child was born, that is, in 2019.
When Wang Leehom was at the tutoring conference, Tao Zhe asked him to take off his socks, but he didn't expect that he was wearing ripped socks, which shows that Wang Leehom does not value the details of life, and all his thoughts are focused on his music career.
Li Jinglei lives in an widowed marriage . The child is taken care of by himself, and no one listens to all the troubles and can only bear it alone.
Wang Leehom's mother is a strong woman. Wang Leehom talked about two celebrities of the queen level in his past love history, both because Wang Leehom's mother disliked her poor education.
Li Jinglei has a very high education, Master of Columbia University , and has worked as a big-name luxury product operation. Such an elite academic master with high education should be just like Wang Leehom, right?
But my mother-in-law still doesn’t like Li Jinglei very much, but I think it’s useless even if my mother-in-law likes her.
Life is for myself to see. The two of them have not communicated for a long time and talked to each other. The feeling of loneliness is quite suffocating.
Wang Leehom is an artist. He needs to find inspiration when writing songs. He is often immersed in his own world and cannot extricate himself. He is not suitable for marriage.
You see Jay Chou After marriage, I have two children, enjoy the family life of my wife and children, and I have half the inspiration for writing songs. I haven’t released an album for several years.
Why do you say that anger comes from poets? Those talents are all filled with talent and thoughts in adversity, and the love is happy in good times. How can you create something that hits the soul directly?
The harmony of a family must require someone to make sacrifices. After Li Jinglei's marriage, she took the initiative to give up her career and assist Wang Leehom's career.
In recent years, Wang Leehom's career has not improved, he rarely holds concerts and is opening less and less.
Wang Leehom is too focused on programming, writing code and developing music apps, and he is too lazy to take care of his beard and hair. The handsome man once became a middle-aged uncle.
Even if Li Jinglei doesn’t divorce, it is difficult to get happiness. What is the difference between a marriage without communication and a widowed marriage?
Wang Leehom is definitely a good man. Not smoking or drinking is an insulator of scandals, but he may not be a qualified husband.
When you pick up your child, you have to let go of your career. If you focus on your career, you will not care about your family. This is such a contradiction.
As a veteran high-quality idol, Wang Leehom devotes himself to his career. Every time he holds a concert and sings with tens of thousands of people, after the performance, his mood falls to the bottom like a roller coaster.
So Leehom Wang needs a soul mate who understands him, who can open his heart, be willing to listen to his voice, and be willing to share everything about him.
Whether the couple can reach the end depends on whether they have a common language. If you can chat for a long time on a small matter, then the couple will not be able to part.
The fatal damage in marriage is not mother-in-law, not quarrel, but not communication and cold war.
If the couple's hearts are connected, it cannot be broken up by any external force. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is just the last straw that crushes the marriage, and lack of communication is the root of their divorce.
