Recently, a 23-year-old female international student publicly insulted her biological father in the circle of friends because she did not have enough living expenses!
The language is dirty and the attitude is arrogant. Everyone who sees it is shocked! Is this an attitude towards the father who gave birth to himself?
What’s even more exaggerated is that this girl actually made her chat history with her father public. She thought it was her father who made unreasonable trouble, and she was the one who was wronged.
Judging from the chat history, the father and daughter had a dispute because their daughter used their credit card to swipe 50 euros. The father carefully asked about the purpose of the money early in the morning: "Good morning! 14.83 euros are taxi, what should I buy 44.52 euros?" The daughter replied more than 20 minutes later: "44 euros are to go to the supermarket to buy daily necessities."
The father said: "Credit cards are mainly used for emergency response, such as when I had to take a taxi to my residence yesterday. Try not to use it as usual." The daughter explained that these were emergency situations before bank transfers.
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The father said tactfully that he hoped his daughter would save more and that the monthly consumption should be controlled at around 10,000 yuan. My daughter has promised this amount before.
The daughter retorted: "How to save essentials..."
The father began to tell his difficulties: he had a monthly salary of 13,000 yuan, and he gave his daughter 11,000 yuan. He was under great pressure and hoped that his daughter would be sensible and understand himself.
The daughter defended herself that she only bought daily necessities and that she was very nutritious and said that she did not want to have a fight early in the morning. The father couldn't help but nag again: "You must have an independent consciousness. You are already 23 years old, and you must learn to be independent..."
The daughter posted on her Moments in anger, complaining and insulting her father who had just made money for her. After the chat history of
was exposed, it quickly caused heated discussion. This girl studied in Spain. Many local students said: 10,000 yuan is definitely more than enough in Spain, and there will be no situation where there is not enough spending or unbalanced nutrition in the meal!
What makes people even more angry is her insulting her father! The 23-year-old adult was spending his father's money while insulting unscrupulously. What did my father owe her? There is no gratitude, but is full of complaints and hostility.
Under public pressure, the girl admitted that she was wrong and said that she and her father had made up. However, it is hard to imagine that such a person can really recognize her fault.
Studying abroad will definitely encounter various pressures, among which the inevitable pressure is life. Today we will talk about how much money is enough to study in Japan, and what to do if it is not enough.
According to the survey of JASSO Japanese student support agency , the average monthly living expenses of international students are 93,000 yen (equivalent to about 5,200 yuan).
Due to different living standards in different places, the costs incurred by studying abroad are also different. The highest is Tokyo, with an average monthly living expenses of 10,900 yen (about 6,100 yuan); the lowest is Kyushu, with an average average of 75,000 yen (about 4,200 yuan).
International students' living expenses mainly include accommodation fees, catering fees, water and electricity fees, transportation fees, etc., as well as messy expenses such as medical insurance, stationery, and entertainment.
Accommodation fees account for a large part of the living expenses. The average cost of studying abroad in Japan is 35,000 yen (about 2,000 yuan). The highest is still Tokyo, with an average cost of 45,000 yen (about 2,500 yuan). In the lowest Kyushu area, the average accommodation fee is 24,000 yen (about 1,300 yuan).
Specifically, there are three main ways for international students to stay in Japan: dormitory, student association or apartment.
The biggest advantage of staying in dormitories is that they are cheap. The cost of dormitories at National University is basically around 10,000 yen (equivalent to less than 600 yuan). private universities are more expensive, ranging from 20,000 yen to 100,000 yen (equivalent to 1,200 ~ 6,000 yuan).
However, in Japan, only about 25% of international students live in dormitories, because the number of rooms is limited, not all applicants can stay. In addition, some people feel that it is not free and inconvenient. There are strict regulations on curfew and wake-up time in school dormitories, and the bathroom and bathroom are also shared.
The prices of student associations and apartments are not far apart. In Tokyo, the cost of renting a house is about 50,000 to 80,000 yen (equivalent to about 2,800 to 4,500 yuan).Other areas are relatively lower. The dietary expenses of
are also important, and this specificity varies from person to person. For students, of course, they still want to save money.
University canteen packages are usually cheaper than outside, from 250 yen to 600 yen (equivalent to about 12-30 yuan). When the cafeteria does not provide packages, you can eat in an outside restaurant or buy milk, bread, etc. in a convenience store.
The average daily diet cost is about 1,700 yen (about 100 yuan), and it is about 3,000 yuan per month.
Stay outside, transportation costs must also be considered. It is cheaper to buy regular coupons, with an average monthly transportation cost of about 5,000 yen (equivalent to about 300 yuan).
In addition, there will be some extra expenses every month, paying medical insurance, purchasing stationery or snacks, etc., and it will be calculated at 10,000 yen (about 600 yuan).
Let’s make a brief summary. If you are on campus, the monthly living expenses will cost about 4,200 yuan (accommodation RMB 600 yuan + diet RMB 3,000 yuan + additional expense RMB 600).
If you are renting an apartment outside, the living expenses will be about 6,900 yuan (accommodation 3,000 yuan + food 3,000 yuan + transportation 300 yuan + additional expenses 600 yuan).
Prices will fluctuate in various regions, and everyone’s living habits will be different, and specific consumption will definitely be different. However, overall, the monthly living expenses for studying in Japan are more than 5,000 to 8,000 yuan (of course, what we are talking about here is the daily consumption of ordinary students).
What should I do if my family is in trouble and I don’t have enough living expenses? It is definitely wrong to insult or complain about parents. In fact, many Japanese students do some part-time jobs. According to a survey by JASSO Student Support Agency, about 76% of Japanese students have worked part-time. Here we summarize 6 part-time jobs suitable for international students:
1. Restaurant: This is the most popular part-time job, because not only can you get a salary, many restaurants also provide free food. Students can be waiters or dishwashers in the kitchen;
2. Convenience store: This is the most common part-time job, mainly cashiers and shelves. The job is simple and easy to get started. Even if you have no experience, it is easy to apply for a job;
3. Workshop or logistics company: If you are not proficient in Japanese, you can consider working in food, bento workshops or logistics companies. These are generally manual labor;
4. Language teacher : Students who are fluent in both Chinese and English can try to go to a language training company to teach Japanese people to learn Chinese or English, which is also a good choice;
5. Travel-related part-time jobs: mainly provides on-site translation for tourists, but in the past two years, there is not a big demand for such positions;
6. Purchasing agent: Japanese cosmetics, skin care products, and toys have certain markets around the world. Students who are familiar with e-commerce can try to do purchasing agents, but they need a certain amount of time to accumulate customers.
Japan allows students to work, but there are restrictions on working hours: working hours cannot exceed 28 hours per week. If the hourly salary is calculated at the low standard of 50 yuan, you can earn 1,400 yuan per week, which is 5,600 yuan per month.
In addition, international students can also apply for government scholarships. With your own part-time income, coupled with family subsidies and possible scholarships, it is completely fine to spend your international career.
At least, an international student who knows how to be self-reliant will never insult his father because of living expenses.
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