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Recently, Joey Wong and her husband were photographed going to Putuo Mountain to seek a child.
Zhong Liti responded to this, " Because her mother-in-law is more traditional, she only has one son ."
then emphasized that I hope to have my own baby with Zhang Lunshuo.
At the age of "knowing destiny", no woman wants to walk on the road to having a baby, and she has experienced it 3 times.
If you want to say that there is no pressure from my mother-in-law behind this, I don’t believe it!
As early in the program "Mother-in-law and Mom", Joey Chung once asked her mother-in-law carefully and tentatively:
"What would you do if I really don't have children?"
Mother-in-law said unhappyly: "I can't not want a child."
Joey Chung asked again in disbelief: "So I said if I don't have children..."
Before he finished speaking, he was interrupted by his mother-in-law: "I will be very regretful, I will feel unhappy!"
In a recent program, Joey Chung asked tentatively again.
Mother-in-law's answer was even more affirmative, " If you say you don't want it, that's impossible !"
failed to let her grandmother hold her grandson, and Zhong Liti has always felt guilty about this.
program "My Favorite Women" has a conversation about calling out to my mother-in-law from a high altitude.
Jong Liti gave herself nine points, the less was because she didn't let her mother-in-law hold her grandson.
so don’t tell me that Joey Wong has a fourth child, just because she loves Zhang Lunshuo too much. If there were no strong mother-in-law, who would take great risks to have a son at this age?
Asian sexy actress who was once very popular, but now she is over 50 years old but has to fight for her fourth child. This is really heartbreaking.
Whether she loves Zhang Lunshuo or her freedom, it is a fact that her mother-in-law "refers boys over girls".
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We cannot deny that there are many people who are as gender biased as her mother-in-law.
There are quite a few people who stubbornly believe that boys are offspring! Only by raising children can you prevent old age! The water splashed by the married daughter...
These "favorable boys over girls" ideas have influenced the lives of many girls.
There is a topic on Zhihu: What happened to those girls who prefer boys over girls?
There is an @anonymous user who shared his experience:
Basically all the housework at home, but you still have to be scolded.
grew up independently since childhood. When you are hungry, you dare not speak even more when you are too hungry, for fear of causing more trouble.
When I had a fever, my mother stood at the door and said, "You are born to be a waste."
The brother had a headache, and his mother went to buy medicine under the scorching sun, staring at her baby son and drinking it.
Others want to give a little bit of good attitude and care, and they want to repay them with all their efforts to die. They live a humble and humiliating life.
I want to go away from these so-called family members, but I am afraid that I will be lonely for the rest of my life from now on.
Girls under "Preferring boys over girls" often live cautiously, humble and cautiously, and she is a microcosm of many girls.
Some time ago, a girl's name change touched everyone's hearts and became a hot search.
Before changing her name, she was called "Zhaodi". Her family hoped that her birth would bring good luck: to have a son.
family members "get what they want". Her younger brother was born when she was four years old and named Shu Chang.
She asked her parents why she couldn't call her Shu Chang. Her parents said, " because you were born is really not happy. "
When she realized the meaning of the name, she wanted to change the name several times, but her family deceived her that she couldn't change it.
After going to school, the "humiliation" brought by her name follows her like a shadow, and she is always asked by classmates and teachers, "Do you have a younger brother at home?"
gradually grows up, and the difference between parents is more obvious. Her parents have no money when learning to drive, but in a blink of an eye, she took out hundreds of thousands to buy a house for her younger brother next month.
She wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but her parents called on all relatives to object, saying that she was very optimistic and did not look at her level.
The fact is that everyone wants her to graduate quickly for her younger brother to go to college.
She stubbornly passed the postgraduate entrance examination with the first place. With the encouragement of netizens, she finally changed her name successfully after going through twists and turns.
Now she has finally gotten rid of the name that made her feel "humiliated", which is no less than a new life for her.
Many netizens don’t understand why she is competing with a name.
Names are originally a beautiful confinement, but if you secretly imply the private goods that "refers boys over girls" in your name, it would be fine if you don't want such a name!
In my study, almost every class has a girl named "Shengnan".
Their parents tacitly explained: I hope you have the courage and responsibility that surpasses boys.
I didn’t understand when I was a child, but when I grew up, I suddenly felt a chill in my heart.
Too many parents hide the dream of having a boy in the girl's name , "Yingdi", "Laidi", "Pandi"...
uses girls to express their thoughts of "referring boys over girls", such parents are too selfish.
"Zhaodi" is lucky. Despite the twists and turns, she at least rewritten her destiny.
Not everyone can rewrite themselves like her. There are too many girls who have been ruined by "favoring boys over girls".
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The impact of "favoring boys over girls" on women is not only life, but also accompanied by physical destruction.
In order to have a son, some people use women as a fertility machine and push them to the gates of hell again and again.
documentary "The Gate of Life", naked shows the lack of dignity of women in childbirth.
The protagonist is Zeng Xianchun, facing a series of high-risk problems such as placenta preposition.
Before this, she had a miscarriage twice and the uterine wall was very thin, which means that the child could break out of the uterus at any time, which is very dangerous for a mother.
What is her husband doing when she is fighting death in the operating room?
Her husband is muttering: Have a boy.
is really heartbreaking! Your woman is at the critical moment of life and death, but you only care about your unborn son.
is obsessed with having a son. Could it be that your family has a "throne" to inherit.
Zeng Xianchun couldn't help herself:
"My parents-in-law want grandsons, if you don't have a son, others will laugh at you, and they will scold you for not having this or that."
It's not difficult to imagine how much criticism she has endured in the years when she didn't have a son.
After she gave birth to a son, the family happily followed the doctor to send the child to the custody room.
But no one cares about the mother who just gave birth and also needs their care and care.
Zeng Xianchun's sister-in-law burst into tears: "It's so hard for our family to save this child."
Please take back such tears.
As a woman and a man, turning others into a fertility machine, what else is more sad than this?
If this fetus is not a boy, there may be a fourth and fifth fetus until it gets its wish.
But what can I do if I have a boy?
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Those boys who are favored and "pleased" may not necessarily achieve their goals.
Xiao S once wrote a song for her father, called "I deserve a beating". Only then did everyone know that she once hated her father so much.
Her grandmother gave birth to seven daughters and suffered a great crime to have a baby son as she wished, Xu Jian.
Xu Jian has enjoyed the love of his family since he was a child, and has also become accustomed to being taken care of by his sisters.
clothes to reach out and food to open your mouth, and I am used to women giving and dedicating to him.
like a giant baby does nothing, and being favored for a long time makes him arrogant and willful.
Later, my family found him a virtuous wife, Xu's mother.
Xiao S once recalled: "When my mother came over, there were more than a dozen people at the Xu family, and there were also dinner tables."
Cooking for a whole family is tiring enough, and what's more excessive is that they are asked not to repeat the same thing and must be delicious.
marrying such a family is a disaster for women, and it's suffocating to think about it.
Xu Jian has a lot of problems: alcoholism, domestic violence, mistresses, gambling.
often gets debts by the underworld, and his two daughters pay him more than 8 million for him.
Xu's mother was finally overwhelmed and divorced Xu Jian.
Bluntly said that Xu Jian was ruined by his parents.
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Parents' preference makes him feel irresponsible and accustomed to enjoyment, and eventually becomes a bad habit.
is by our side, and many parents have raising their sons because of "preferring boys over girls".
Some people call this type of parents "stupid short-sightedness" because Smart people treat men and women equally .
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All the 21st century, "preferring boys over girls" has long been outdated!
ml0 There is also a little bit of people secretly advocating "men are more valuable than women".
Some people give their preference to their sons and despise them to their daughters, but they were later resentful. Are they wronged?
Some people have given their sons to pass on the family line, but they can't marry their daughters-in-law. Is it bad?
"People who prefer boys over girls" people, when happiness abandons you, you don't even say hello.
We love our children, it has nothing to do with gender. This is the basic cultivation of parents.
If you can't even do this, don't give birth to them, so as not to cause trouble for the children.
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Children are the inheritance of parents, both men and women.
Men and women have a bowl of water equally, which is the principle of parents.
daughters are descendants, not "outsiders"!
daughters can also support their elderly care, not "water splashed out"!
Every girl comes to this world and deserves to be gentle.
Image source: "My Favorite Women", "Mother-in-law and Mom", documentary "Shengmen", Oriental IC, Sina Weibo, Baidu, netizens' comments, the Internet.
