In 2015, Liao Ruijie, a young man from rural Fujian, met the local girl Kajia while he was working in Ukraine. In 2016, Liao Ruijie married Kajia. After marriage, the two settled in Ukraine. Kajia also gave birth to a mixed-race son and a mixed-race daughter for Liao Ruijie. Now it has been 6 years since they got married. Is their marriage still happy? The most famous character in this issue will take you to get close to Liao Ruijie's transnational marriage.
Liao Ruijie's family of four
Fujian Putian Rural Man
On March 9, 1995, Liao Ruijie was born in a rural family under Zhongmen Town, Putian, Fujian. In the early years, my parents started a timber business, and the two opened a wood processing factory in Dalian. Liao Ruijie has three siblings, he has an older sister and an older brother.
html When he was 112 years old, Liao Ruijie and his brother and sister took a long-distance bus to Dalian to reunite with their parents.
When I was a child, Liao Ruijie
was in Dalian, and Liao Ruijie finished junior high school. At that time, his academic performance was average and he was influenced by the traditional business thinking of Putian . At that time, Liao Ruijie thought that studying was useless. In the future, he would not have to work for others. It would be better to go out and do business early.
is like this. After graduating from junior high school, Liao Ruijie dropped out of school. Under his father's arrangement, he entered his father's friend's timber factory. Here, Liao Ruijie, who was underage and had a low level of education, worked as a basic porter. After working for a year and a half, Liao Ruijie suffered a lot. After
, his father arranged for him to work in a building materials factory. Here, Liao Ruijie started working as a porter. Half a year later, his hard-working personality was appreciated by the boss, and then he became a salesperson. Although the work has been easier, Liao Ruijie has never seen a future.
traveled to Ukraine to explore
In early 2015, my father and friends were going to Ukraine to open a timber factory, but at that time, some trustworthy management personnel were short of. At this time, the father planned to let his son Liao Ruijie go out and make a try.
Ukrainian timber factory
Because since childhood, my father hopes that their children can be independent and go out to make a career by themselves. With this opportunity, my father certainly hopes that Liao Ruijie can seize it.
When the father told Liao Ruijie this news, Liao Ruijie was very happy. He is only 20 years old, and he also wants to go abroad and see the outside world.
Liao Ruijie and Kajia
In March 2015, Liao Ruijie took a plane to Ukraine's central city Ukraine. Here, my father and friend bought a timber factory. It is also here that Liao Ruijie met his lifelong beloved Kajia.
Kajia was born in Uman on February 15, 1996. My father is the purchasing director of this timber factory (a timber factory purchased by Liao Ruijie's father and friend), my mother is the director of this timber factory, and my uncle is the owner of this timber factory. Kajia is the only child in the family and is deeply loved by her parents.
When I was a kid, Kajia
In 2014, Kajia was admitted to a university in Kiev and studied in accounting. When she met Liao Ruijie, she was still a college student.
Although the Chinese boss acquired the timber factory at that time, Kajia's parents still worked in the timber factory. After Liao Ruijie came here, he also took charge of management, responsible for log storage, distribution and loading, and his monthly salary was more than 7,000 yuan.
At work, Liao Ruijie often comes into contact with Kajia's parents, and as colleagues, they all know each other. In Kajia's mother's eyes, Liao Ruijie is a pragmatic and sincere guy. When he learned that Liao Ruijie was not married yet, Kajia's mother thought about introducing her daughter Kajia to Liao Ruijie.
Kajia
On June 2015, Kajia returned home on holiday. That day, my mother took Kajia to the timber factory to play, and Liao Ruijie met Kajia for the first time at work. At that time, Liao Ruijie thought to himself: "Where did this girl come from? Is there such a beautiful girl in the wood factory?" After
, under the introduction of the translation, Liao Ruijie stepped forward to say hello to Kajia and asked Kajia about her mobile phone number.In Kajia's eyes, she felt that Liao Ruijie was shy, and she had never seen a Chinese before. She was very interested in the strange Chinese in front of her, so she gave her mobile phone number to Liao Ruijie.
Kajia
A few days later, Liao Ruijie mustered up the courage to call Kajia on his own initiative, but for a moment, Liao Ruijie didn't know what to say. After all, he knew Ukrainian , and the awkward call was only two minutes, and he only said a few words.
Later, Kajia returned to Uman from Kiev every weekend, just to meet Liao Ruijie more. Moreover, Kajia also secretly learned Chinese.
During the frequent meetings, the hearts of the two young people also got closer and closer.
Liao Ruijie works seriously in the office
On September 2015, Kajia came to Liao Ruijie's office to play again. At this time, Liao Ruijie actually said "Я люблю тебе" in Ukrainian, which means I love you.
Kajia was confused when she heard this, and then said, "I'm going to find my mother." Then he ran out of the office. In fact, Kajia was extremely happy inside. She found her mother and told her mother about Liao Ruijie's confession, and her mother also agreed to be together.
Kajia and Liao Ruijie who were just together
A week later, when Kajia met Liao Ruijie again, the two were together.
and Kajia got married
In the winter of 2015, the winter in Ukraine was very cold, and many Chinese workers returned to China. There is only Liao Ruijie in the factory. Kajia and his mother saw that Liao Ruijie was very pitiful when they stayed alone in the factory, so they asked Liao Ruijie to live at home.
Just like that, Liao Ruijie lived at Kajia's home. At first, Liao Ruijie lived alone. After a while, Kajia moved to the house where Liao Ruijie lived and the two lived together. Although Kajia's father still complained, he also acquiesced.
Liao Ruijie took a photo with his mother-in-law
Shortly after living together, Liao Ruijie found Kajia's parents and told them that he wanted to marry Kajia and took Kajia to China to meet his parents. He also said that Kajia would definitely settle in China with him in the future, and his children would also become Chinese nationality. Kajia's parents only have this one child, so of course they can't bear to leave it alone, but they are still willing to obey Kajia's words, so they did not stop them.
Kajia and Liao Ruijie At the end of Tiananmen
At the end of 2015, Liao Ruijie took Kajia to Beijing by plane. In Beijing, the two of them traveled to Forbidden City together. When she first saw the Forbidden City, Kajia thought the architecture was very spectacular and she also fell in love with Chinese history. In addition, Liao Ruijie also took Kajia to eat candied haws . Kajia thought this was the best food in the world.
Kajia and Liao Ruijie are in Tiananmen Square
In Kajia's eyes, candied haws are just a few small apples strung together, so Kajia also gave Liao Ruijie a nickname "little apple". After
, Liao Ruijie took Kajia back to Dalian again. In the factory in Dalian, Kajia met Liao Ruijie's parents for the first time. At that time, the father did not speak, and his mother's eyes were a little weird, which made Kajia extremely uncomfortable. He thought Liao Ruijie's parents didn't like him and felt that he had been in vain.
Ka Jia and her mother-in-law
. The parents also have skeptical attitude towards this foreign daughter-in-law, afraid that Ka Jia will not endure hardship in the future. In order to test Kajia, her mother specially arranged Kajia in the factory's employee dormitory. The environment was very bad, and she had to go to the public toilet when using the toilet. Even so, Kajia did not give up. As long as Liao Ruijie is accompanied, she will not feel bitter.
After the Spring Festival, Liao Ruijie took Kajia back to Ukraine again, and the two began to prepare for the wedding.
Liao Ruijie and Kajia wedding photo
On May 21, 2016, Liao Ruijie and Kajia held a wedding in the local Ukrainian city of Ukraine. Liao Ruijie's parents also flew from Dalian to Ukraine to attend their son's wedding. At the wedding ceremony, Kajia promised: No matter whether it is poor or rich, whether it is born, old, sick or dead, I will be with Liao Ruijie.
On the wedding day
In fact, Kajia was pregnant at that time, and in order to take care of the baby, Kajia went through the school leave. In Ukraine, if a college student is pregnant, he can apply for a leave of absence. When the prescribed graduation date is reached, you just need to go to school to get your graduation certificate, so Kajia did not go to school to attend classes after that.
Kajia gave birth to two mixed-race babies
Liao Haojing
On October 1, 2016, Kajia gave birth to a mixed-race son for Liao Ruijie. Liao Ruijie named him Liao Haojing and later added Chinese nationality. When Kajia was about to give birth, Liao Ruijie's mother planned to come to Ukraine to serve Kajia for confinement, but this idea was rejected by Kajia and Kajia's mother because women do not need to confinement in Ukraine to give birth.
So after Kajia gave birth to a child, Liao Ruijie and Kajia's mother both went to work normally, so Kajia left Kajia alone to take care of the child.
In June 2018, Kajia graduated from University. She went to the school to get her graduation certificate on time, which can be considered as having a bachelor's degree in accounting.
Kajia and her daughter
. Just one month later, Kajia gave birth to a mixed-race daughter for Liao Ruijie. Liao Ruijie named her Liao Jiaxin. Of course, this little girl also became a Chinese nationality, and Kajia was also taken care of by herself. However, this time, when the mother and Liao Ruijie were at work, Kajia needed to take care of two children at the same time, which made Kajia exhausted.
At night, Liao Ruijie is responsible for coaxing his son to sleep, while Kajia is responsible for coaxing his daughter to sleep.
Liao Ruijie's family of four is in Ukraine
Just like that, the family of four lives very happily in Ukraine. Liao Ruijie also works very hard, but his salary has always been more than 7,000 yuan. Some people may be worried that Liao Ruijie can't afford to raise children, but in fact, Liao Ruijie's children have never eaten milk powder and are all breastfeeding. Their daily expenses are diapers. Therefore, in Ukraine, the cost of living for their family is really not high.
Liao Ruijie's family of four
Seeing that the child is getting older and older, it is time to go to school, Liao Ruijie has to consider moving back to China to settle down.
Return to China to settle
At the end of 2020, Liao Ruijie and Kajia packed their luggage and flew from Ukraine to Shanghai with their two children and Kajia's parents. After arriving in Shanghai, they took the high-speed train back to Putian.
Kajia’s parents took a photo in China
On the high-speed rail, Kajia’s parents felt it was amazing. They had only heard of China’s high-speed rail online before. After experiencing it, they felt that China's high-speed rail was not only fast, but also very stable. Along the way, they did not rest, but kept looking at the scenery outside through the window.
In their opinion, China has developed very well and the scenery is good. It is correct for its daughter to marry into China.
After returning to his hometown in Putian, although Liao Ruijie's house is in the countryside, it is also a large villa with a very grand decoration. Kajia’s parents felt the richness of Putian, Fujian.
Kajia's parents were at Liao Ruijie's home
At that time, Liao Ruijie originally planned to take his father-in-law and mother-in-law to travel around, but the epidemic suddenly came. In desperation, Kajia's parents had to lie down at home for a month. During this period, Liao Ruijie's parents always held banquets to allow Kajia's parents to fully feel the atmosphere of the Chinese family.
Kajia and her mother-in-law take care of the baby
In March 2020, Kajia's parents flew back to Ukraine by plane. Before leaving, Kajia cried for a long time. She didn't know when she would see her parents again. The parting scene made Liao Ruijie extremely heartbroken. But this is something that he and Kajia have to face for most of their lives. After settling in China, Kajia and her mother-in-law took care of two mixed-race babies, while Liao Ruijie started a small business near her home and invested in opening a fast food restaurant. However, due to the repeated outbreak of the epidemic, the fast food restaurant was unable to make ends meet and closed down within a few months. Not only did Liao Ruijie not make any money, he also lost more than 30,000 yuan.
pine wood
One day in April 2021, a relative came to find Liao Ruijie, hoping to cooperate with Liao Ruijie in the wood business. Because Liao Ruijie has been in Ukraine for many years and has been making wood for many years and is familiar with the Ukrainian market, they hope that Liao Ruijie can send some pine wood in Ukraine and transport it back to China for sale.
Liao Ruijie had nothing to do at that time. When he saw that he was good at this business, he decided to continue his business in Ukraine.
After the Russian-Ukrainian war
In May 2021, Liao Ruijie left two mixed-race babies in China and asked his mother to take care of him, and he took Kajiafei back to Ukraine. After arriving in Ukraine, Liao Ruijie and Kajia lived at their mother-in-law's house first. Then he spent 50,000 yuan to buy a second-hand Toyota Corolla .
Liao Ruijie's mother and two mixed-race grandsons
, Kajia drove Liao Ruijie around to find factories to cooperate. In the past six months, Liao Ruijie sent out three batches of goods in total. After statistics, he himself did not make much money. However, at the beginning of the business, Liao Ruijie was still full of confidence in the future, but at this moment, an accident happened.
Russia-Ukraine War
After the outbreak of the Russian-Ukraine War, all the ports in Ukraine were closed. When Liao Ruijie saw that the situation was wrong, he immediately began to clean up the work at hand, and then hid in his mother-in-law's house to take refuge. During those days, Liao Ruijie and Kajia could always hear air defense alarms, and spent more than ten hours a day in the cellar.
The mother who is far away in China is also very worried about the safety of her son and daughter-in-law, and she will cry every time she calls.
Fortunately, Liao Ruijie is a Chinese. After receiving a call from the Chinese Embassy in Ukraine, he quickly left Ukraine. He took Kajia to Poland .
During the war, Liao Ruijie's Chinese passport was quite useful
In Poland, Liao Ruijie and Kajia were still in the refugee camp for an afternoon and had supper in the refugee camp. Afterwards, Liao Ruijie and Kajia found another place to live. After settling down, Liao Ruijie contacted the Chinese Embassy in Poland again. Then I signed up and filled in my wish to return home. How is
now?
On the afternoon of March 14, 2022, Liao Ruijie and Kajia boarded a plane from Warsaw to Hangzhou. This plane was specially sent by the motherland. Looking at the residents of other countries who were still waiting anxiously in Poland, Liao Ruijie felt the strength of his motherland and was proud of being a Chinese.
A family of four reunion
After returning to China, Liao Ruijie and Kajia went through 21 days of quarantine. After that, they finally returned to their hometown in Putian and met their parents and two mixed-race babies. At that moment, Kajia cried. This time they met was too difficult. Liao Ruijie also felt that life was impermanent, and all this was like a movie, which was so exciting.
Liao Ruijie and Kajia's account
After returning to China, Liao Ruijie couldn't find a suitable job for a while, so he started working full-time with Kajia and shared his cross-border marriage with Kajia online every day.
Nowadays, Liao Ruijie and Kajia are only 27 and 26 years old, respectively, but their eldest son is 6 years old and has started a senior class in kindergarten, and his youngest daughter is 4 years old and has started a junior class in kindergarten.
Recent photos of Liao Ruijie's family of four
Their family's life is quite happy. I also hope to see more of their excellent works in the future. Of course, I also hope that their marriage will last forever and be happy forever.
Thanks to @Ukrainian daughter-in-law Kajia and Ruijie for sharing. I hope you can live happily in China
