"If I knew that he was often bullied, I would never go out to work and take care of him at home." Facing the reporter who came to interview, Ms. Liu cried bitterly. On her face, she could see the regret and sadness on her face.
This haggard and vicissitudes of middle-aged woman kept emphasizing that it was all her fault and that it was her failure to fulfill her responsibility of taking care of her children, which made the child bullied for a full four years, and it made the matter worse to the point of spleen removal and life dying. What if the child really has... She is an unqualified mother!
Xiao Huang on the hospital bed saw her mother crying so sadly, and in turn comforted her sensiblely. But Ms. Liu looked at her son's tender little face and caring eyes and felt even more sad. She almost couldn't hold it back. It took a long time to calm down.
Finally, Ms. Liu hugged Xiao Huang, wiped her tears, and then slowly told the whole campus bullying.
Ms. Liu's family is an ordinary rural family. She and her husband work outside to earn money, leaving their son Xiao Huang to go to school in the county. I thought my child could grow up safely and happily, but who knew that when Xiao Huang was in the fifth grade, two children in the same school as him, Xia and Lin, began to beat him for no reason. Since then, campus bullying has become a common occurrence for Xiao Huang.
By the weekend, the two bullies became even worse, and gathered young people from other schools to beat Xiao Huang together. In order to prevent Xiao Huang from complaining, they also warned: Don’t tell the teacher, otherwise they will beat him harder next time.
Xiao Huang really didn't dare to tell the teacher, and even his parents didn't dare to tell him because he didn't want to worry his already tired parents.
and Ms. Liu and his husband both work in the city. The middle-aged couple never thought that their children would be bullied in school. In order to make money, they don’t have much contact with Xiao Huang in daily life.
Speaking of not having much contact with me, Ms. Liu couldn't help but regret it and shed tears. She always thought that her child was living well in school because he was lively and had poor grades, so he could enjoy a wonderful campus life.
But it was not until the child's "confession" that he pulled her from reality into hell like a bolt from the blue.
June 10, 2015 , this day was the day for the unified high school entrance examination in Yongtai County, Fuqing City. Ms. Liu, who usually works in , Fuqing City, and her husband also took special leave and returned to the county to accompany Xiao Huang in the middle school entrance examination.
However, the Chinese subjects for the first subject of were just finished, and Xiao Huang told Ms. Liu that she had a stomachache and it was difficult for her to take the next high school entrance examination.
Ms. Liu looked at the child's pale face and quickly asked what was going on. Only then did she realize that Xiao Huang had been bullied by campus for 4 years. This time she had a stomachache because of a beating two days before the high school entrance examination, that is, on the night of the 8th.
At around 8 pm on June 8, 2015, Xiao Huang went to the next dormitory to play. As a result, classmates Xia, Lin and Zhang suddenly rushed in and violently fell Xiao Huang to the ground. Then he punched Xiao Huang, kicked him for two or three minutes, and the bullying ended. After being beaten, Xiaohuang's eyes bleed and her whole body was in pain. The other two bullies left, only Zhang could not bear to see, so he sent Xiao Huang to a nearby clinic and asked the doctor to prescribe some medicine. But Zhang still warned Xiao Huang that if he told his teacher and parents, he would beat him even harder in the future.
However, after taking the medicine, Xiao Huang's pain was not relieved, but she couldn't sleep due to the pain for two consecutive nights. After taking the Chinese exam, Xiao Huang couldn't hold on anymore, so he "confessed" to Ms. Liu.
After hearing what Xiao Huang said, Ms. Liu's heart skipped a beat and the pain was so painful that she couldn't sleep. How serious is this?
So she hurriedly sent Xiao Huang to Yongtai County Hospital. However, when County Hospital was checked, she shook her head and said that Xiao Huang was seriously injured and must be transferred to the provincial hospital for treatment.
Ms. Liu's face turned pale, scared. He sent Xiao Huang to the provincial hospital without stopping. After admission, the doctor found that Xiao Huang had severe bleeding from the spleen. After the conservative treatment was ineffective, the 16-year-old Xiao Huang removed the spleen on the evening of the 11th. Xiao Huang spent the dangerous period in the intensive care unit before being transferred to the hospitalized ward.
Thinking of those thrilling days, Ms. Liu touched Xiao Huang's head and was still in fear. If she hadn't gone back to accompany her on the day of the high school entrance examination, no one would know if the child's injury would be delayed for a longer time. If she could care more about her children, if she hadn't gone out to work, she might have been able to cut off the bullying on campus when there were signs of it, instead of deteriorating to this point...
2On the afternoon of June 26, 1015, Xiao Huang's injury assessment results came out, which was seriously injured. On the same day, the Yongtai County Public Security Bureau filed a case of investigation into the campus violence case in accordance with the law. In the early morning of June 27, three juvenile suspects were criminally detained and detained in Fuzhou No. 2 Detention Center.
It is undeniable that if Ms. Liu cared about Xiao Huang more and communicated with Xiao Huang more, she might be able to kill her in the cradle at the beginning of the campus bullying. But going out to work is full of helplessness. According to statistics, in 2021, there are still 9.02 million left-behind children in my country. . Do parents of those children want to accompany their children's growth at home? Do they really want to go to work in other places? is just forced by reality.
In the incidents of campus bullying, we can easily find that many bullied children have a common identity - left-behind children. Since childhood, they have no parents to accompany them, and they are prone to inferiority. At the same time, they are sensible and early, and are afraid of causing trouble for their parents. Therefore, they will not choose to tell their parents as soon as possible when they are bullied, which gives bullies the opportunity to become more aggressive. . The question is, when social reality forces parents to stay away from their children's growth, should society and the country stand up and give more care and protection? at least allows children to grow up safely and healthily.
How to protect left-behind children from school bullying, or how to end the occurrence of campus bullying still requires the attention and efforts of the public security, procuratorial and judicial organs and education departments. hopes that Xiao Huang’s incident will not happen again, and that the 14-year-old boy will not happen again.
Reference:
[Electronic version of the Straits Metropolis Daily] "A third-year boy in Yongtai, Fuzhou was beaten and his spleen was removed. He had been bullied by his classmates for 4 years" June 26, 2015
[Haitai boy in Yongtai was beaten and his spleen was removed. Three minors were detained" June 28, 2015
