The New Year is here,
is already trying to avoid being unhappy.
didn't expect that he could still laugh because of a boy's speech...
What's wrong with?
Ji is still insisting on chasing "Under the Same Roof".
# I didn't expect that cool variety show Orange can last for so long...
About this variety show, we have introduced (article link)
program to the 8th episode,
guest exit ↓
who is in love is not idle ↓
Even new friends,
also have a clear goal ↓
Only Liu Keli,
is still "seriously" sharing...
Who is Liu Keli?
Self-introduction before moving in:
29-year-old self-media entrepreneurial man↓
was the restaurant owner before, but the restaurant went bankrupt due to various reasons. Self-media is his fourth entrepreneurship.
on the first day of living in the apartment,
showed his "high emotional intelligence" way of speaking.
went shopping with his roommate.
's most common action is to stand in place to command.
's typical "mouth king" ↓
But at this time, they didn't understand each other.
's roommate and guests complained about him. ↓
Considering his previous identity as the restaurant owner,
might "command" the roommate to buy groceries.
just didn't pay attention to bringing his work habits to life?
But next, you will find that
's "leadership-command" tone is everywhere.
"Have a meeting" before the meal ↓
always likes to arrange others ▽
clearly talks to roommates, and those who don't know the word
think that the leader is going to talk to the employees ↓
Live with such a person, it's hard not to feel pressure, right?
verbally shows that he wants to be a "domineer", but his practical actions reveal his ungrown side everywhere.
The biggest problem: make decisions without authorization and not communicate.
did not discuss with his roommate during the sharing period, so
took the dog into the apartment without authorization.
When a girl who is afraid of dogs suggested that this is a "disrespectful behavior",
did not realize the error, but
instead gave a lot of self-defense ↓
# The implication is that I am also the owner of this house, so I can bring the dog in (regardless of whether you allow it or not)
After the roommates use "I think you are forcing me to accept" to express their dissatisfaction directly ↓
The opposite response is still starting with "That's it...", and attempting to explain my behavior ↓
Please, realize your mistake, is it difficult to say "sorry"?
is in sharp contrast with Carmen, who also brought the dog back on the other side.
has apologized↓
also proposed a solution↓
"Take it to commute" or "Foste pet store"
But if you want to say that Liu Keli didn't realize his problem throughout the whole process, it wouldn't be...
Otherwise, he wouldn't have been to Jin Yujie (the girl who was afraid of dogs) because she was angry and stayed alone in the dark room,
he took the initiative to come to him.
is this apology attitude......emmm...
's first sentence was to ask how the two girls were chatting...
#What does the two people chat with have to do with you?
# Your first sentence is not apologizing, is you waiting for someone to actively communicate with you?
When the opponent clearly stated that he didn't want to talk to him today,
instead forced the conversation to continue.
also used the word "solve"... What do you want to solve? You brought the dog in first, and you messed with it. What problems can you solve when you find someone else?
No wonder when he used to keep Jin Yujie to express his feelings, opposite
, the whole process was about another boy and his studies.
# Anyway, I didn’t have any nostalgia for him...
The first time in love, I was strangled in the cradle by the other party before I even spoke.
succeeded Jin Yujie. Chen Liuming, who was doing financial consulting at the investment bank at the age of 26.↓
The first guest's evaluation of her was also elegant, fashionable, and had a good figure.↓
also quickly grabbed Liu Keli's heart. For example, three minutes after seeing her,
also started wearing suits, watches, and hairstyles at home↓
# Hey, what are you doing? !This is a shared rental show, why do you do it like a blind date?
will also try to cater to girls’ hobbies,
0 get up at 6:30 and run with her↓
In short, it was this time that I decided to take the initiative in the face of love.
BUT! ! !
Do you think his emotional intelligence will occupy the high ground in front of "love at first sight"?
I thought too much...
It was clearly Liu Ming who wanted to invite another male guest (Li Xing) to the cocktail party↓
But Li Xing had other arrangements (actually, it was obvious that Liu Keli was interested in Liu Ming and he didn't want to be between the two of them)
declined and even brought a match for his brother↓
#Look at the emotional intelligence of others...
Normal process should not be waiting for the other party to invite him,
and then choose to accept or reject?
Results Before the woman invited her,
Liu Keli had already arranged herself clearly...
opposite: #￥%...&*"You wait, I must confirm"...
#High emotional intelligence: I will confirm; low emotional intelligence: I didn't want to invite you
Mr. Liu obviously missed the lesson "Adult slang" 2
The three of them can only hide their embarrassment with laughter...
is similar to "weak so embarrassing that they can use their toes to cut out an ancient city of Jingjue".
also happened when Liu Ming invited Li Xing to exercise together.
has the same educational background (both studied in Hong Kong),
So they made an appointment to play squash together↓
When Li Xing sent him an invitation, opposite
: That... OK.
Although he nodded after hesitation on his mouth,
, pay attention to the corners of his eyes,
#Hey, pay a little attention to the expression management, the corners of his eyes must laugh to the back of his head.
The key problem is that he hasn't learned it and will not beat it.
So even Li Dan couldn't help but complain about him:
but the above two situations,
at most he didn't have any eyes,
understands him from his perspective,
may also be a way for him to chase female guests.
for people who are not so sensitive and have strong "insensitive",
these "self-infant" in Li Dan's words are nothing.
However, when he wanted to get a pet closer to Liu Ming,
he showed beyond ordinary confidence:
firstly proposed to adopt the two together↓
#What confidence do you have, do you think people will raise pets with you? Your relationship is just a roommate who has shared a 105-day shared housemate...
The guest's complaints have foresaw the ending of this idea↓
As expected↓
This kind of confidence is not only proposing to raise a dog together like a couple, but also when girls express their love for white Shiba Inu ↓
He was afraid that others would not know that they had research on Shiba Inu, so he insisted on having a popular science class.
also said the words "White Shiba Inu is not a qualified Shiba Inu"...
#Do you be a qualified dog? Isn’t you here today to make the other person happy?
You see her hearing what you said,
is happy, are you happy?
Just like you, you are a businessman, you basically gave up on love...
No wonder you can cause complaints from outside the field Yang Li ↓
"He is the man who came out of my jokes"
Think about it a little, it's true.
29 years old, the boss of a startup company who is a partner with her, and is also in debt. In a super first-tier city like Shanghai, she is just an ordinary person;
But from the first day he moved in,
Whether he "instructed" his roommate to buy vegetables,
or brought his pet into the apartment without authorization,
went to yesterday's program to propose to the pursuers to raise pets together,
reflects his self-centeredness everywhere.
But this is the way of dealing with his personality.
can complain but it will not rise to criticism of him↓
Just when you want to start a relationship,
investor Li Xing's behavior is obviously more useful to girls.
considerate↓
generous enough↓
can do his best to the other party’s career in a timely manner↓
The side effect of "Public and Trust" is that he lives in his own world most of the time.
For example, if you pass in other people's feelings,
makes girls mistakenly think that their crush partner is love with double arrows↓
or suggest raising a dog,
let Chen Jianbin see that
can have this idea,
just think of himself↓
is quite stubborn,
faces the suggestions that fans ask him to change his speech slightly,
He doesn't think he has any big problems at this stage↓
But in general,
is still a good person. When his roommate was frustrated in his work,
can actively give solutions;
is also enthusiastic to match roommates;
They share the meals for every party,
almost all of them make.
is this emotional intelligence, this can't speak...
In fact, sometimes there is another choice.
can still shut up.
Mr. Liu, you can consider...
Otherwise...
last sentence
read Chen Liuming's vlog
are these two people together offline?
(guess only)
