Before the main text begins, let’s first imagine a scenario:
The daughter-in-law is not very familiar with her father-in-law and is a little stiff when getting along. The son cupped his daughter-in-law, but his father-in-law did not avoid it, and he started scraping his daughter-in-law , without saying a word, first scraping it from his temple to his shoulders and neck.
I never asked my daughter-in-law if she was willing or not.
If such a program is broadcast, would you say the entire network will be exploded?
Hunan TV's "Mother-in-law and Mom" presents a family like this this time, with the protagonists being Patty Hou and her mother and husband.
I have to say that Hunan TV has dug up treasure this time. With Patty Hou's skills, if her mother-in-law came, then the show would be unattractive and she would play a good wife to the end.
, the program team invited her mother. Wow, what a big show!
What about Hou Pattyn, how to say it? S once commented on her, "It's so fake, but she made my in-laws so happy."
When doubts about her and her mother appeared on the Internet, Patty Hou chose to apologize:
"Mom is old and after she has undergone a heart surgery, I am more afraid that time will go too fast..."
"We just express our feelings sincerely and do not want to hurt anyone..."
is very nice to say, is it really not sincere to act?
is not as good as using micro-expression to analyze Patten Hou, Lin Yueyun and Huang Baijun . Is Patten Hou really a white moonlight with high emotional intelligence? Lin Yueyun is really sorry and repent for what she has done?
And Patty Hou’s husband Huang Baijun, is he cold violence or a good temper?
Before the official start, let’s talk about some little knowledge about the micro-expression world.
- Humans can recognize various expressions from infancy. When you hate a baby's expression ugly, she will soon cry.
- Because facial expressions are very important in human interaction, we have learned to conceal the real emotions very early so that they do not appear on the face.
- The famous "mixed signal principle" in the micro-expression world, that is, when you find contradictory comfort or discomfort signals on the other person's face, then discomfort shall prevail.
or above is the basis of this article, and the good show is about to begin.
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please.
Patty Hou was recorded remotely.
There were wives from other families sitting in the observation room. As soon as the camera was turned on, Patty Hou said, "Hello, I miss you so much!"
Her eyes were wide open, which was her very classic expression, and according to psychology, it was to avoid self-community. The others responded very reluctantly. After all, these artists in the observation room must have never met Patty Hou. I don’t know where to start with “I miss you so much”.
Patty Hou met Lu Yu for the first time, and she also had the same opening.
But please note that after she said this, there was a look of boredom and forced expression on her face. This shows that she actually hates such compliments.
But her experience since childhood has made her very good at all.
She once said that her mother asked her to be a particularly polite child.
shows that when you meet, you will say, "Baby, I like you so much." When you see an elder, you will use all your strength to shout "Ah~ Auntie~" enthusiastically.
This is Patty Hou’s first killer move: please.
You can observe yourself or others, and you will tilt your head when you feel comfortable. This is determined by human instinct, because when you tilt your head, the most vulnerable parts of your human body - the large arteries, esophagus, and respiratory tract are exposed to people.
Please observe Patty Hou's series of movements. She used her whole body to pretend to accept passionately for others.
This is the education of my mother. The growing environment since childhood requires Patty Hou to please, to look at his face, and to constantly guess what others think.
Please have grown in her bone marrow.
In fact, she is not confident or even inferior.
Lin Yueyun's advanced level not only conquered the man, but also completely controlled Patty Hou. Patty Hou obeyed his mother's advice and bowed down to his verbal communication, and even did not need any verbal communication. With a look, Patty Hou could perfectly get her mother's meaning. What kind of tacit understanding and training result is!
It’s a pity that a daughter learns from her mother is to please her first.
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The wedding of Patty Hou and Huang Bojun has also been a legend.
Hou Pei-chen took her mother's second lover, and she also raised her since childhood, and walked on the red carpet. This PAPA has a family and a daughter. His wife is Cai Guizhao, the aunt of Taiwanese socialite, Guan Ying, and Guan Ying.
Guan Ying once mentioned in her book "Influenza" that an illegitimate daughter was sent to the United States by her wealthy businessman Daddy to study in a prestigious school and drive a famous car, and she only interacted with the second generation of Taiwanese upper class society. This illegitimate daughter is accused of being Patty Hou.
As a famous "illegal daughter", Patty Hou had no choice but to choose his fate, but he did see all the warmth and coldness of human feelings since childhood. At the wedding, she said sensibly, "Thank you PAPA for taking care of me since childhood."
But please look at the nose and eyes in this photo. Her shrinking nose exposed her inner disgust and embarrassment.
Note: A brand new theoretical study believes that after the influence of emotional factors is removed, the effect of expression on emotions is actually very low.
However, micro-expressions are used to identify emotions very accurately.
Lin Yueyun This photo is an upgraded version of Patty Hou.
The mother and daughter's lower faces are very well concealed, but their eyes always reveal their excessively complex psychological activities. Of course, this is a shot of a snapshot, so the theory of lying on the left and looking at the right does not have too high reference value here.
The most common micro-expression on their faces is embarrassment. Almost all the subconscious expressions were filled with an embarrassment.
It was also at the wedding. Patty Hou gave the bouquet to his mother who had not been married to her for the rest of her life: "My mother has been taking care of me all her life, so I want to give her happiness."
Are you embarrassed?
I believe that on the way Lin Yueyun killed a man, Patty Hou made a lot of efforts directly or indirectly. The two of them have transcended the relationship between ordinary mother and daughter. They are masters and apprentices, partners, and symbiosis. Even if there is a man who can resist Patty Hou, no man can resist Patty Hou and Patty Lin Yueyun.
So, when they both appeared in the variety show, we got double the embarrassment.
Like Patty Hou, Lin Yueyun also likes to widen his eyes.
knowledge points review, why is this? Answer: Because I am afraid that I will run out.
A very common trick in palace fighting dramas is to pretend to be innocent and pretend to be foolish, and then inadvertently say some unpleasant words and words that cannot be said in front of the emperor, and use the emperor to counter the opponent. What do you need to do when
is innocent?
Right, just open your eyes wide.
It’s just that when people get older, some expressions are inevitably made, and the fierce background comes out.
The background color of Patty Hou also has it. Look at the cruelty in her eyes when she complains about her husband. This expression is not an exaggeration to face the enemy who killed her father. Who would have thought that she just complained about her husband ignoring others!
This passage is absolutely true. This is the most realistic state of how Patty Hou and her husband Huang Baijun get along. How did Lin Yueyun evaluate it: You have been talking to each other for ten years.
Do you think Patty Hou didn’t know there was something wrong with their marriage? Then why come to participate in the show?
Many people interpreted that participating in the program is for the reward of NT$60 million for new NT$3. This is definitely an important reason. The financial situation of Patty Hou's small family is not good.
Another important reason is that the mother and daughter join forces again. They want to use this show to put pressure on Patty Hou’s husband Huang Baijun to add some bargaining chips to themselves.
Why do you say so? This requires analysis of Huang Baijun.
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Hou Pei-chen once described the scene of Huang Baijun's proposal. At that time, they met less than half a year ago. Huang Baijun suddenly proposed during the trip. Patty Hou listened to his mother and got engaged secretly. After
, the two began to go in and out together, living like an old husband and wife.
The wedding was held two years later.
This is Huang Baijun and Hou Pei-chen at the wedding. Hou Pei-chen performed happily so hard, and Huang Bai-jun was still full of enjoyment at that time.
The house they lived in after marriage is the high-rise interior decoration that caused the envy of the wife of the king. It is completely different from the small house this time filming a variety show.
combined with the first episode of the variety show, Mr. Huang ordered takeout and wrote the wrong family address. It is outrageous that they should have used a house they usually don’t live in to shoot.
This wedding house by Patty Hou is located in Qingtian Street, Taipei, with an area of more than 100 square meters and a price of more than NT$200 million. As early as February 2010, a Taiwanese reporter witnessed that Huang Bojun took Patty Hou to see this new house that was still being renovated.
00,000,000,000,000,000,000,000 wedding dresses alone, and three sets were used to take photos on the spot, including the famous Vera Wang, Italian Romona Keveza and antique lace wedding dresses.
The mother and daughter of the Hou family were very satisfied with this son-in-law who rode the dragon.
However, Huang Baijun's performance after marriage may not be satisfactory.
In the first episode of the show, Patty Hou and his mother Lin Yueyun had already figured out what to eat, but they didn't say it and asked their son-in-law to arrange it. The two of them sat cross-legged on the sofa and stared at you.
Huang Baijun was at a loss when he was stared at. He ordered a portion of food, and Patty Hou took it to check and found that there was no soup. Patty Hou complained: "I have always hinted that I want to drink soup, but there is still no soup."
Huang Baijun quickly ordered a hot drink instead.
Afterwards, he found out that the lunch was delivered in the wrong address because of his negligence. Huang Baijun's performance was just one word: panic.
The mother and daughter just sat there whispering, watching him having a one-man show alone.
includes the scraping incident later, requiring the son-in-law who never cooks to cook, etc., and the screenwriter of this script is the mother and daughter of the Hou family.
Hou Pei-chen spoke with his throat from beginning to end, which looked fake because she was really acting, but she was not only acting for the audience, but also for her husband.
She deliberately took this opportunity to tell her husband's bad luck, so that everyone knows that she wants to use the public opinion to urge him to improve.
This just confirms that Patty Hou’s status at home is not high.
Lin Yueyun's training allowed her to develop a girl who was very married.
The core competitiveness of a good marriage style is not just a gentle and sexy appearance, but a kind of compassionate personality, but a commitment to giving yourself the emotional value of pleasing others. My mother is a bowl of rice. Under her strict training, she has made such a mysterious anchor Hou.
But Patty Hou obviously did not accept herself so sincerely, so she became unreliable.
She was not satisfied with her husband's slippers, ignored her words, and did not dare to point out his wrongness clearly, so she had to take advantage of her mother's opportunity to train him!
Whether it is scraping, jumping, or cooking, what Patty Hou wants is to let the other party see his reaction. From now on, he educates his husband and when he gets care and help from others, he should say with a smile, "You are so great, I love you!"
Regrettably, Mr. Huang is a person with a very firm self. He rarely wavered in his own ideas and rarely doubted himself.
So, you see that he has discomfort, questions, and forced, but he has no secret scheming.It is expected that it is harder to ask this man to be sweet and “I love you” to say “I love you” than to climb the sky!
What Patty Hou likes is this self-resolute person, and what she hates is this person who cannot get into the air.
She wants her husband to provide emotional value and pay more attention to her. She really wants everyone to know that her husband has many things that are not doing well, but she doesn’t want everyone to think she is doing too badly.
This is the awkward thing about Patty Hou's family.
This is what makes Hou Xue deeply fascinated. When I watched these videos and the intricate relationships, the editor was so excited that he was completely sleepy.
Every episode of this terrible variety show is unstoppable.
OK, let’s stop here today!
PS: No professional value, only for entertainment. Please go by in-depth research. See you next time!
