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I have long wanted to write an article about S, but it has been dragged until now for various reasons. After getting married to
Big S and Gu Junye , the hot searches were on quite frequently, so that netizens were a little tired of the love idol dramas they performed.
It’s not long before they calmed down. The couple joined together to appear on the cover of the October issue of "VOGUE" in Taiwan edition of the China-China Taiwan edition, with the theme of "In Love We Trust". Their interaction in the photo is quite sweet, which is completely different from the feeling that Big S gave us in the past.
I would like to tell you my feelings: Big S and Wang Xiaofei , what I showed us in the show was a little willful and perverted little woman who was skilled in controlling her husband; but after marrying Gu Junye, I always felt that she had become a rebellious little girl. She was in her forties, and it seemed like she was back to the time when she was seventeen or eighteen years old when she was just touching love.
Look at what they both did: Don’t buy diamond rings, and Ju Junye personally stabbed the wedding ring on her hand . Of course I can't understand it. Young people can do this because of the hormone impulse of love; but when they reach middle age, they will still do things like tattoos, just because they really like it. It just so happens that they both like tattoos and can tolerate each other's little willfulness and rebellion.
Let’s first look at what Big S said in the interview?
She and Gu Junye had no wedding, no grand marriage pomp, flowers and dresses. This particularly simple wedding was something she had longed for when she was a girl: A simple party witnessed by friends and family, plus a ring tattooed by her lover.
Big S said that he had had enough of everything about getting married, " We are both so old, so we don't need these. Oppa and I are people who like tattoos very much. When he kneels down to propose, I told him not to buy diamond rings and ask him to stab my wedding rings in person. Then he bought a tattoo machine and practiced with his own flesh every day. So the rings on our hands are all he stabbed them."
Big S When she married Wang Xiaofei, that wedding was a nightmare for her. She didn't want to hold a wedding, but because she loved Wang Xiaofei at that time, she chose to compromise. The island wedding, blue sky, white clouds and sea, what a dreamy wedding, but it has become a farce, and has also made Big S a laughing stock in the entertainment industry, making her least want to mention that wedding.
and tattoos. Wang Xiaofei dislikes tattoos the most. When Big S was with him, this area was also restricted.
After she was with Gu Junye, she could be said to have a similar smell, and both of them like tattoos.
Big S no longer hides the tattoo, but instead shows the tattoo on his body generously.
What exactly does she marry Gu Junye?
I used to think that they were not love, but now it seems that they can only be love.
There is no wedding or diamond ring. Gu Junye is still an old bachelor and an old man. He is not so handsome and has no money. The reunion between them is no longer the scene 20 years ago. At this time, Gu Junye is just an outdated male star. It was only after getting married to Big S that Gu Junye's career began to improve.
How to evaluate her marriage with Gu Junye?
I can only say that Big S is still a very energetic little girl. She has grown older, but her heart is not old. Perhaps it is Gu Junye who can carry her emotional value. Let’s look at Xiyuan in the past. She was a little unwilling to let go of her when she was with Wang Xiaofei. She compromised a lot for that marriage; but now it’s different. Gu Junye who compromised for her, and she just happened to let herself go and be herself easily.
There is no need to be persistent, right or wrong, life is just a choice.What Big S does is her middle-aged rebellion. In reality, too many of us cannot be like her, because we will be subject to various restrictions. She has the ability to protect herself. She admires her that she dares to love and is so energetic when she is middle-aged. I don’t criticize or blame her. After all, this is her life. What qualifications do we have to say?
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Big S also said in the interview: "From childhood to adulthood, my life is full of fear almost every day. Whether it is my original family or my own family after me, there are all kinds of pressure and burdens on me. I face every day of my life like a soldier, but after meeting Oppa, everything is different. At first I was afraid that everyone would not accept it, and I was afraid that everyone would think I was crazy. But life is not as long as you imagined, and I felt those processes very deeply. After I married Oppa, there was no opposition around me, and I felt the happiness I had never imagined. Sometimes when I woke up in the middle of the night, I thought I was dreaming, but as long as I touched his bald head, I knew that these were true. "
Looking at her words, we would feel that she was very awake. She knew what she wanted?
The marriage between her and Wang Xiaofei was in a flash and said, "I wanted to have a baby with Wang Xiaofei at first sight." We were not optimistic about their marriage, but she persisted in that marriage for ten years, and these ten years were indeed not easy for her.
includes a flash marriage with Gu Junye. She is indeed crazy, but she knows clearly: her life is not that long, why not love her?
found that it was not. Big S was not so a person who cared about the results. She valued more the process of life experience.
For her, at least she lives this time and doesn’t want to leave regrets for her life.
When she and Gu Junye first got married, I also said that she was irresponsible, saying that she would regret it sooner or later, saying that she didn't consider the feelings of her two children at all, and that she would get married as soon as she got married. But now, I respect her because I don’t care about winning or losing at all. She cares more about whether she has gained it now and whether she has love.
I really admire her, because after she reaches middle age, she still has such strong vitality .
Big S's post-marriage interview was first exposed: After marrying Gu Junye, she let herself go.
Perhaps she is the most real herself now. She was depressed and compromised in her marriage with Wang Xiaofei, and now she is the real her, and she is also happy and happy.
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"My original intention has not changed at all. I was still the same as I was when I was a child. I am always very aggressive towards love. On the premise of not breaking the law, let’s talk about it when I love. If I don’t love, I don’t know whether it’s the right person. Women must always pursue love. If they are not with each other, they don’t know what will happen."
The marriage between her and Wang Xiaofei can also be interpreted by this passage: If you love, you don’t care about it, and then you get married; but if you love wrong, she will break up with him directly.
is very willful and quite true. The combination of
and Ju Junye does not care whether it is right or wrong, but only cares about the current experience.
Big S dares to do this, which is quite enviable. After all, few people can let themselves go like her.
people are middle-aged and meet true love. Should they be bold to love?
My suggestion is, If you have the ability to protect your life, then it’s nothing to love arbitrarily; but if you don’t have the ability, forget it.
Don’t easily imitate Big S. People should be more clear about themselves and live their own life well. Her life is her own way of being presumptuous; and our life must be steadily lived.
As for her and Gu Junye, don’t say so much, just let time prove it.
Today's topic: How to evaluate the middle-aged rebellion of Big S? Welcome to leave a message.
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★Author: YIBAO; original emotional creator, write about the warm emotional things in this world.
